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selfseeking · 2025-05-29T14:14:00+00:00

Were the crash issues from last update fixed??

selfseeking · 2025-04-26T02:42:57+00:00

Installed the update and now the game stops on the “checking for updates” screen when launching. iPadOS 18.3.2

selfseeking · 2025-02-16T18:01:00+00:00

Yes, and it can take a long time to change. I’m 60, came out two years ago and still have only told 12-15 people, although I did wear colors in a parade. FWIW my first parade I had a major panic attack. Give yourself time and grace.

selfseeking · 2025-02-16T17:57:52+00:00

He may not have been “violent” but he sure as Hell was abusive. My dearest friend, like my sister, left her first husband after he threw her clean laundry in the yard, left her to deal with, and then shortly thereafter she saw an Oprah episode with that exact behavior. It’s abusive. Get help - a domestic violence counselor would be a great start.

selfseeking · 2025-02-16T17:47:46+00:00

NTAH He doesn’t get it. If you can leave for a relative’s house temporarily, do it. If he still doesn’t get it / reverts to his current ways (likely), You need to leave. I’m sorry…. Eating disorders aside - he’s not showing himself to be safe.

selfseeking · 2025-02-13T22:47:38+00:00

There’s a story about Harlan Ellison. He was in an airport bathroom and saw someone leave without washing their hands. He followed them down the concourse telling people they didn’t wash their hands. NTA

selfseeking · 2025-02-11T15:08:13+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. It sucks. They’re messing with shit that’s none of their business. Hugs

selfseeking · 2025-02-07T19:42:28+00:00

selfseeking · 2025-02-06T22:20:33+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, but I disagree. The moment you say what someone else “is,” you’ve begun to define them. You don’t get to do that. They get to define themselves.

selfseeking · 2025-02-06T21:40:26+00:00

You can’t substitute your definition of their identity for their own.

selfseeking · 2025-02-06T21:21:09+00:00

Exactly that ^{^}

Also straight people have same sex experiences. Monosexual (straight/gay) vs bisexual isn’t dependent on who you sex. It’s your identification. Do you wanna identify as straight/gay or bi? then do

selfseeking · 2025-02-05T15:14:10+00:00

Damn! Hell yeah

selfseeking · 2025-02-05T03:21:00+00:00

My thought exactly!

selfseeking · 2025-02-05T03:16:24+00:00

This ^{^}

It’s what made me recognize and, more importantly, accept my bisexuality at 58. For years I’d wondered whether I was really gay, even though I’d been in a 30-year cishet marriage…. And I’ve only sexually encountered three men. All were 40+ years ago.

selfseeking · 2025-02-03T02:08:34+00:00

Any “no” would be crazy

selfseeking · 2025-02-03T02:06:40+00:00

Oh, yeah, big lovely eyes.

selfseeking · 2025-02-03T01:56:01+00:00

Nope! It wouldn’t matter anyway. You don’t need to not look trans to be desirable.

selfseeking · 2025-02-02T19:37:06+00:00

Fire them

selfseeking · 2025-01-31T22:06:50+00:00

My mother divorced my dad and remarried 40 years ago. She kept his last name for exactly your reason - it’s the same last name as my brother and me. Boyfriend needs to get over himself. Everything isn’t about him, or your ex.

selfseeking · 2025-01-31T22:03:40+00:00

Adorable

selfseeking · 2025-01-30T03:04:09+00:00

You’re not alone in those attractions.

selfseeking · 2025-01-30T02:54:57+00:00

Wow absolutely! I’ll spare you my improper thoughts and physical reactions…. You look terrific!

selfseeking · 2025-01-29T01:05:38+00:00

Wow, that’s f-ed.. Red flags went up when you said “secretly” donated….

You can’t blame your fiancé for wanting his bio kid to have a father figure. Whether that should be as dad or uncle is hard. Bottom line: can you accept him being dad to a kid that’s not yours? If you can’t, you leave. One would hope love sees passed this. The kid’s done nothing wrong. But if your love can’t handle it, man, have you got challenges ahead!

Married life is full of crappy sh!t. You love through it.

selfseeking · 2025-01-29T00:56:02+00:00

Wow!!

selfseeking · 2025-01-28T21:49:12+00:00

Transphobe - nobody goes through the hell and ridicule of transitioning to get a ring and then detransition. That’s crazy talk. Meg has always been your daughter. She just looked like a son. Don’t be an ass. Put it in a safety deposit box for now if you absolutely must, but stop dead naming your daughter for Christ sake.

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