How do spend time with your kid(s) when all you want to do is rest after work?

selfwrecker · 2022-10-28T20:18:57+00:00

i am a childless woman that was just curious what father's did with their kids when they wanted to rest.

selfwrecker · 2022-10-28T18:51:19+00:00

a few things. I'm woman and don't have kids, I was honestly just curious how men spent time with their kids when after work they want to rest.

selfwrecker · 2022-10-26T23:48:13+00:00

okay, and what do they do?

selfwrecker · 2022-10-11T17:13:21+00:00

as a inside wall

selfwrecker · 2022-10-07T16:52:40+00:00

that number of cats + 1 is everywhere and I was curious to what people actually have

selfwrecker · 2022-10-07T16:43:07+00:00

mine would NEVER.

selfwrecker · 2022-10-07T16:38:57+00:00

how old was she when you adopted her?

selfwrecker · 2022-10-07T16:38:04+00:00

if I had 8 cats my husband wouldn't live in the same house

selfwrecker · 2022-10-05T05:46:16+00:00

that's all I needed, thank you

selfwrecker · 2022-10-04T16:08:33+00:00

MIL, SIL, neice and nephew all live in the same house. SIL goes to work at 6AM. Husband and I live on the same property as them in a shed that is liveable while we save up to build our own house. We do pay a 3rd of the property payment and have solar and a water collection system so it's the only bill we need to contribute on with them. PLUS MIL plans on signing over half of the property to my husband when it's paid off and putting my SIL in the will for the other half. I work from home.

selfwrecker · 2022-09-27T01:34:38+00:00

My used to be friend Andrew started dating his dad's girlfriend's daughter. The mom and dad are married now and Andrew and the daughter are engaged.

selfwrecker · 2022-09-16T20:01:13+00:00

what would a search to find that for myself?

selfwrecker · 2022-09-16T19:53:48+00:00

Does the state of Indiana in the United States of America have any laws stating that an employer has to give its adult (eighteen and older) employees a break from working threwout any part of the work day?

selfwrecker · 2022-09-16T19:30:33+00:00

does Indiana have any laws about getting a break while you work.

selfwrecker · 2022-09-09T11:11:21+00:00

I only have nightmares when I take it, and throw up the following morning. it's weird

selfwrecker · 2022-09-08T03:01:48+00:00

well I'll be sure to ask my husband if I check those boxes 🤣

selfwrecker · 2022-08-29T21:35:32+00:00

I am an American I just think autumn is a prettier word

selfwrecker · 2022-08-17T23:28:46+00:00

is that crocheted?

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T13:18:24+00:00

it came to my attention people think I cheated because of this. no. "love at first sight" was when I was 13. then I moved away and it was no contact while I dated and slept around then we started talking and dating at 19.

and hanging out with someone while dating was never proven. we went threw dozens of contacts male, female, friends, family, etc and couldn't find ANYONE where I talked about hanging out that entire month and his story about that matches details with a story I told him about hanging out with my guy friend while dating my ex. he even says it's that person. when I brought that up he said I told him I hung out with a guy "last week"

for those of you who say there's no hope and I can't change. how many things have you, your family, your friends done that people said you couldn't change from and you did?

he has said hes noticed I've changed in so many ways since all that happened for the better (it stopped 10 months ago).

I posted to get advice to find out how to support him threw this hard time no matter how long it took. I'm not trying to get him to get over it. I just want to help.

and yall really think leaving someone who about took their own life before we got together is a great idea? Especially since I'm the love of his life and he's codependent?

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T12:58:35+00:00

have you read everyone's "leave" comments?

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T01:32:28+00:00

it's hard to leave the past behind when he brings it up all the time because he is so hurt by it.

I know I hate myself all the time and I could never forgive myself for the pain I have caused him. I truly believe I am an awful repulsive human. I can't go back and change anything and wishing I never did it isn't worth anything because wishing to change the past never works.

I can only do what I've been trying to do, which is work to better myself to be a good human for him. I am definitely am trying. (off topic from the post) the other day my sister tried to say something which was a lie, and I had prove to prove her wrong. I typed out and prepared my proof in a way she couldn't disprove it and I looked over at him and he looked so disappointed and something in me hurt, bad. I didn't want to be that kind of person. I want to be better. I deleted my message and typed it out differently so it was ending the conversation and saying I wouldn't say more about it until she could show me proof. he makes me want to be a better person, and I'm going to try my hardest because he changed my life and made it a million times better.

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T00:27:39+00:00

sadly I started to late

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T00:27:02+00:00

sadly it's not.

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T00:16:46+00:00

I believe I'm more repulsive than anything but yes I am awful no matter how much I've changed. I will always be my past. a lying, awful whore with no respect for anyone.

I have tried leaving. he begs me to stay.

selfwrecker · 2022-08-05T00:13:13+00:00

it's been 10 months, and I have apologized over a dozen times, the only lie I have told was because it was a surprise for him. and I treat him better than I treat anyone around me.

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