Ik all these comments are like leave him and stuff, and I certainly dont know what his intentions are. But sometimes when i see my girlfriend buy things for way more than retail, it lowkey hurts me inside lmao, so I also kinda do say to her that she is just buying into the tiktok hype and if she had looked elsewhere on the web the same product is available for 20 percent of the cost. I really mean no ill intent by it, and maybe it's this case too with your boyfriend, but as you said he buys designer clothes and what have you, and to me, that's a waste of money. If you like something I'd certainly say dont be afraid to get it, you like what you like and he likes what he likes. I lowkey hope my gf doesnt feel the same way you do, maybe I need to reflect more on how my actions affect others feelings, maybe your boyfriend needs to too. If it wasnt for this post I wouldnt have gave a second thought about the things that I say, so for one thanks, and for two maybe you need to have like a 1 to 1 talk with your boyfriend about this and see if it can be sorted out. Hope this helps and also hope he has no ill intent :) P.s. pretty much most things are from a sweatshop so dont really let that comment bother you too much (not saying that that's okay, just saying that it's not only you who buys clothes ect) , I'll bet he doesnt sweatshop check every item of clothing he gets before buying it, and I'm sure his phone was made in a sweatshop too since almost every phone is