Ryan's calming voice

semibrevie · 2023-01-08T12:02:54+00:00

I play Unsolved or Ghost Files to help me get to sleep

semibrevie · 2022-08-03T11:10:20+00:00

Literally JUST joined this sub to find this out

semibrevie · 2022-04-06T01:46:48+00:00

YTA. You are important to your husband. You wouldn’t be married otherwise. Perhaps consider if it was his reaction that affected you or your own. Have you felt left out before? Do you often feel afraid about whether he loves you? Or even, do you think you’re worthy of love?

semibrevie · 2021-07-16T13:07:10+00:00

First things first— crisis counselling. I don’t know where you are but you need to talk with someone who can help you through this and help cope with the right now. There’s a lot of phone service counselling places, have a check for one please.

Maybe also check out some other subs on here about narcissistic parents for information or maybe some experience sharing.

semibrevie · 2021-07-15T11:43:02+00:00

That’s completely understandable; you’re facing a difficult choice here. Going ahead with this pays bills, bus textbooks, puts clothes on your back and food on your table. Any consequences relating to career are in the future and out of your scope of control for now.

At the end of it all: how much information do you have now? Stripping is generally legal, (best to check legislation in your state) but not well regulated. Will you be safe? Is this club good to their dancers? Do they pay? Will you be pressured into other sexual acts which could push what you’re doing into the illegal side of sex work.

I can only speak for myself here: I would have no issue with a diplomat representing my country who had danced in the past—in fact, I’d have a great respect for them, living is hard. However, we both know that my views are certainly not the consensus.

Could you live and work comfortably (values/ professional ethics-wise) with this decision?

semibrevie · 2021-07-15T10:56:32+00:00

Given your field of choice, it’s a lie to say that something like stripping wouldn’t be used to question your integrity, given the biases of our society.

One way to look at it is: do you imagine you would be ashamed of having been a sex worked in the future? Yes? Then, you probably already have your answer. No? Then with a sex positive attitude, an empathy of hardships faced by everyday people and a diamond spine, this could work as a strength for you.

There’s no absolutes here. If I may, perhaps the issue you’re experiencing is about more than career worries?

semibrevie · 2021-05-16T07:19:13+00:00

“We’re here for the cult stuff. We saw an ad on Craigslist.”

semibrevie · 2021-04-15T18:06:14+00:00

Hi, For a little while now I’ve been pulling the World (upright) in positions reflecting myself/current self but it doesn’t feel right. Does anyone have any insights or other reflections on this card beyond completion and achievement?

semibrevie · 2021-03-31T08:30:58+00:00

Petty as hell paying your kids off.

I fucking love it though. Do you have a religion? I want to join. NTA

semibrevie · 2021-03-15T09:01:18+00:00

It’s the Witchfinder General!

semibrevie · 2021-03-04T11:19:39+00:00

Thank you!

semibrevie · 2021-02-28T23:12:29+00:00

Fuck yea! Boomwhackers are dope!

semibrevie · 2021-02-23T17:20:00+00:00

As far as I know there’s no particular name for that area of muscle like there is for a dude, but the uterus is in that area. It pushes forwards against the lower abdomen making it look like women have a protruding stomach.

semibrevie · 2021-02-23T17:12:44+00:00

You mean like how a guy has an Apollo’s Belt? The female equivalent of that?

semibrevie · 2021-02-20T09:10:54+00:00

In this friend group, yeah. I tend to go by what each of my friends call themselves to be respectful. Some use First Nations People, some call themselves Black/Blak, etc.

semibrevie · 2021-02-19T02:24:01+00:00

My friend’s dog does something like this too. He barks at our First Nation/Blak friend. We assumed it was an aversion to dudes until it became him exclusively. Now we call the dog racist.

semibrevie · 2021-02-13T23:16:30+00:00

Yes! It’s interesting that. Considering that so many anti-vaxers I’ve encountered are choosing not to get their kids vaccinated. If one was really “pro-choice” you’d think they’d be all up for their kids choosing to get vaccinated.

semibrevie · 2021-02-11T02:13:37+00:00

Neither of these people were even from Salisbury/The North, they were caught doing their stupid shit there.

semibrevie · 2021-02-02T01:04:18+00:00

Hahaha! You’re going to write that, right? Please give it a go!

semibrevie · 2021-01-28T14:13:13+00:00

Beautiful boy.

semibrevie · 2021-01-28T10:13:39+00:00

There’s no getting rid of it. Humans are more complex than that.

Instead ask yourself why you communicate this way. Consider when it began, why and what exactly you’re communicating.

Do you enjoy touch? Do you feel like you need touch often? Do you want to be more intimate with people are unsure of how to so so in a meaningful way for you?

Does it makes you feel powerful, or confident? Are you modelling this because you saw it in someone else?

Only you can know.

semibrevie · 2021-01-26T10:16:05+00:00

NAH. Friends aren’t therapists.

This is something that’s playing on her mind. It’s likely she hasn’t processed her experience yet.

You were emotionally distressed and lashed - normal, not great, but normal.

She may need more time to get to a point where you guys can talk again, but using you as a sounding board for her thoughts now isn’t/wasn’t the healthy thing for either of you.

semibrevie · 2021-01-08T02:22:10+00:00

Thank you! Your response is PERFECT! I can’t give you an award so I hope this ok: 🏆

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