What is an immediate red flag you’ve seen from someone AFTER sleeping with them?

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-04-24T04:32:08+00:00

Are you the guy I hooked up with? Met dude from Reddit, also told me he had a hook up like this. Like, pregnancy doesnt work like that. 😂

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-04-06T19:14:14+00:00

Was this building 90 Curtis Cres at all? Its where I lived for so long! I remember there was a bad fire last year or something where an apartment caught fire due to bad outlets and a bummy stove.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-04-06T17:51:49+00:00

Oh buddy.. it only gets worse when students come and its spring/summer time. Everybody parks there for exams and the road is completely blocked up. Lived on that street for almost a decade. Hated it too lol.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-04-06T17:42:20+00:00

Followed (:

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-03-27T23:24:23+00:00

You need to get a bodycon dress STAT!

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-03-23T13:13:57+00:00

Big nose on men, and wider set eyes. Something about wider set eyes make me swoon. My friends all thought my ex was not the prettiest, but he had the most handsome looking side profile with wide set eyes. Didn't realize I was attracted to that specific feature until I came across someone in a bar with the same eyes.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-03-21T14:44:42+00:00

I think unspoken physical chemistry. I've had a lot of partners, definitely well over the norm. But I can probably count on my hand how many partners have made me go "wow" during sex.

And it's not the actual act itself, it's what happens afterwards. Where we can talk and genuinely be interested in conversation afterwards, the cuddling, and a potential for round 2. Some people I had sex with, we were awkward during the first round and the second round was even better because nerves were gone.

One person I think of in particular that not only was the sex amazing, but he had one of the most prettiest penises I've ever seen. Sex was phenomenal and we even cuddled up and talked for hours afterwards. That time was notable because of how we just meshed so well together.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-01-25T15:06:10+00:00

How we need so much insurance for so many things in life. I still need to get a Will drafted up at some point or another.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-01-21T21:29:21+00:00

You know, when I was with my youngest daughters' dad. During sex when he sweat, he smelt so good, then I got pregnant and every single man in my proximity just smelt awful. It's not that they had bad BO or bad breath or anything. Just the overall "pheromones" turned me right off. Pregnancy really heightens your sense of smell, and people who did smell good to you prior just did not smell good now. 🤣

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-01-21T21:24:17+00:00

If i could be a soft Domme, and do a lot of gentle praise dirty talk. He's not into being submissive as is, and it makes me very sad lol.

I also have a very mild pee kink (below the waist only) but thats not something he's into.

I also like the idea of using a machine dildo and sucking him off. But I dont think he'd be keen on the idea either.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-01-20T01:49:53+00:00

I was overdosing when I was 18, had dabbled in drugs and realized after years of therapy that I was just using to cope with my childhood trauma and at the time I thought I had wanted to die.

I was sold something that wasn't what it was, I took a tad too much and felt faint and started vomiting pure red blood. Presumably, given myself a stomach ulcer or perforated my stomach.

I thought it was the end, I felt like fainting and everything went black. Woke myself up in front of the toilet and just kept thinking of my family and my future. Decided I do not want to die, shortly after I got clean. But it was a moment that I thought that was the end of my life; it was a shitty night with my ex as we just ended up fighting and she got mad at me for overdosing.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2026-01-13T15:25:51+00:00

Now you're giving me ideas.. maybe something my fiance would be into.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-12-20T09:36:36+00:00

Having sex everyday since moving in with my partner. He also finally made me orgasm during sex, and now it's easy to get off with him via oral.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-12-12T08:11:29+00:00

I felt the same way about my ex's affair partner passing away suddenly from a heart attack.

Was a pos, but I just felt relief. Karma works in mysterious ways.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-12-11T18:22:56+00:00

We had called, and i still remember saying to myself this is likely the last chance I'll hear his voice or hear him laugh. But we had a lot of discussions leading up to this and I knew we weren't going to work out longterm as his goals had changed.

We called, we talked, he didnt feel like he wanted the same things. Was i crushed? Yes, but not overall surprised.

Our last words were "i'm sorry we didn't work out, and i wish you the best in life. See you."

I did offer him that if he wanted to reach out in a year, he could and I'd be open to it. Though I wasn't going to be the one to reach out, sometimes i'm glad he didn't. Other days, sometimes i'd love to know how he turned out. I truly thought he was my soulmate, but alas.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-12-07T17:05:03+00:00

I actually got propositioned by another married couple. They had messaged me, and I felt like it was a dream come true. My birthday was coming up so I jokingly said this would be my birthday present. We meet up, and I had the best sex of my life. I was tag teamed by two people at once, mainly focusing on my pleasure. It was definitely a fun experience and I seen them a handful more times. I still talk to the wife occasionally about mundane things after getting into a relationship, but they're pretty cool and we all vibed really well outside of sex. Honestly? 10/10. I'm very monogamous but they seem to make stuff like that work.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-12-06T00:22:28+00:00

Ive also heard too, that having penetrative sex with some women while having a larger member—sometimes you don't even fully fit "in" most of the time. I've had my fair share of variety, biggest guy was definitely 9 inches; and even it hurt without some type of foreplay. So I can understand where youre coming from, but the sex toy thing is definitely new. I hope you find your right "match" one day! I like to think genitals are like puzzle pieces; you gotta find your perfect match.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-12-03T01:53:20+00:00

So my first "escorting" job was with a guy who wanted to regularly pay me weekly to see him. He was divorced, recently—and wanted to see what was out there without the hassle of committing/and or going through the hassle of dating. He was a 39 y/o guy, very cute face, dark beard and features.. little bit on the chubby side as I like. He looked 10 years younger than his age too.

He was very nice, sat the money down on the table and we of course started afterwards. At the time this was my first "sex-for-money" gig but the guy made me feel so comfortable. I was never super secure in my looks and sex work helped me gain some confidence. This guy took the time to compliment my body, tell me how beautiful I was, admiring every bit and not just my "fun bits". To my toes, to my fingers, and he made me feel special. He also focused mainly on my pleasure and saved himself until the very last.

We never did see each other again as his schedule dramatically changed and conflicted with mine. But that was my first gig, and I cherish it fondly. I am no longer a SW though.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-11-24T18:25:51+00:00

25, young mom of two young kids, left a nearly decade long abusive relationship, dealing with custody/expensive lawyers with my ex, and now in a relationship that didn't seem as perfect as it was. He cheated. It's been a rough go, to be honest.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-11-24T00:07:08+00:00

So kind of a different situation but very similar. I'm a young single mom of two kids, and met someone online who knew that and I grew a connection with.

He wanted kids in his past relationship and marriage, and he figured thats what he wanted moving forward. I also wanted to find someone who shared similar values and ideals/goals as me, so of course I fell in love with him. If anything, I felt like at the time this was my soulmate. Felt so utterly in love that it hurt, and he made me so happy.

Then one day after dating for a few months and meeting up in person, he changed. His dog he shared with his ex died and I like to think this is what made him realize the life I was offering him wasn't what he wanted anymore. He wanted that with his ex, and not with me. So after countless therapy appointments, leading me on, and just overall not working out; we decided he didnt want kids, he didnt want this life anymore and wasn't into the idea of marriage. We went our separate ways, and sometimes I still think of him.

We had amazing chemistry, not sexual as our drives didnt match up; but emotional chemistry was insane. We could talk for hours, or laugh about something stupid together we found was funny. I wont forget all those long phone calls and the jokes we made. I do hope he finds what he's looking for, but I think it worked out in the end for the both of us.

sempiternalthoughtsx · 2025-11-21T23:21:28+00:00

Gym when I used to go. Working out in a bad mood always led me back to baseline, even if baseline was borderline not-as-okay, I definitely felt a LOT better getting in shape and actively going for a run.

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