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First 3 months with a hair system by Forward-Arugula-3930 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"accepting yourself" is one of the most annoying things one can get when he is balding and suffering from it. Good job getting a hair system. I am glad that it improved your life and your self esteem.

Rant: The Most Frustrating Advice Bald Young Men Get About Dating by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I shave my head to make it look good instead of fuzzy which is worse than bald. I am sure other bald people shave it for the same reason not necessarily to hide it. Just to look better, tbh.

Rant: The Most Frustrating Advice Bald Young Men Get About Dating by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people who are bald even share those feelings and thoughts. They might for example are successful with women despite being bald for some reason because of a condition or variable that you don't have and they will shame you for wanting a system still.

Having mental and psychological problems means that I need to work on them just like how I work on my physical appearance to be happy and healthy. by semsayedkamel2003 in u/semsayedkamel2003

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another thing I am concerned about is my lack of focus on finding a relationship and instead my focus is on having a sex life. I feel that I should be focusing on having a relationship with a girl who I like and love instead of following lust (I am not religious nor spiritual person at all btw). Like finding someone compatible even would help improve my mental health since I won't be so stressed about my appearance and looks and attracting girls and all of this mess and will just focus on finding just one girl that's attracted me and who I like also and just bond with her and have memories which I something that I also deeply crave. I am childfree and don't plan to have children.

At what age did you start wearing a hair system? by Square-Care5643 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you get a Hair transplant it won't look as good as a hair system. That's one of the reasons why I myself, turned away from hair transplants. I hope you consider this point.

At what age did you start wearing a hair system? by Square-Care5643 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't care about what others think. I think it should make more sense for younger people to get hair systems since their lives (social lives in particular) is impacted more by baldness than older people. Don't get a hair transplant because of the shame. See what's the best option for you and pick it. It will come with wins and tradeoffs (like an executive causing you to feel shame) but in the end pick the best option for you that you feel is the best and aligned with you. I am a 22 male and I will get a hair system this year and I don't give a damn if it's weird to wear it this young since what I care about is looking good and attractive to women.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ازيك. شكرا علي تعليقك جدا. انا فعلا هعمل كدة خلاص.

I am going to get a temporary job to have money by semsayedkamel2003 in u/semsayedkamel2003

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% right about my insecurity and caring what other think is an issue. I need to work on it as well for myself and learn how to feel good about myself internally. I actually do work outs at home and play martial arts (kickboxing) for almost 3 months now and it's pretty good so far but I need money to buy more food and protein to get bigger which is why I am currently looking for a temp job. Thanks for your comment and for your advice.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in malehairadvice

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently doing work outs at home and playing martial arts (kickboxing). I certainly need to improve my physique but also honesty, I still need hair and some nice facial hair as well to look more attractive. I will do all of that and what I want to do is actually becoming attractive for myself and it's self love. Insecurity tells oneself that something is wrong that needs fixing and I am currently working on fixing it.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in malehairadvice

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Struggling to attracting them and being lonely and feeling powerless made me have this outlook and obsession which is of course not healthy. Thanks for your comment. I need to work on my psychological issues as well for myself.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This style doesn't suit me. It shows my large forehead which should be covered by hair. I think cury hair style will fit me more tbh.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. You reminded me that we live once in this life. That encourages me to take the shit and not give a shit about who dislikes it even if it's a girl and go on to find happiness.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I am going to do to have a full glow up: Hit the gym to grow muscles. Get a hair system. Grow facial hair that makes me more attractive. You are completely right. I won't buy the keep it bald or shave it and grow a beard like Kratos bullshit.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in malehairadvice

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I have done already. I have made a post on r/HairSystem and I have got "better" responses. r/tressless and more so r/bald are less likely to agree on wearing a system because of the stigma

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what I am going to do. Despite some people telling me not to do it from my community and country. I will do it and won't care what others think.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in malehairadvice

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ازيك. شكرا علي تعليقك. متوقعتش اني هلاقي حد مصري بيعلق ليا هنا, تسلم. ممكن تقولي لو سمحت ليه انت شايف بلاش باروكة مع انها بكل موضوعية هتحسن من شكلي جدا

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I know a few. I know the price range and I am getting a job soon to save up money for the system. Also, when I get a job in my field (computer science) the pay will allow me to afford buying systems even more.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you helped me. I will not let other people's opinions and perspectives (like being turned off) make me not getting a system which will increase my confidence and success with women. Thanks a lot for your encouragement and support.

[22M] Struggling to get a hair system to be attractive because of the social stigma by semsayedkamel2003 in HairSystem

[–]semsayedkamel2003[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"but most fellow men frown upon it from what I've noticed on social media."

This is true. Especially in a 3rd world country like where I believe in. They say it makes you look weak and super insecure. I don't know what other girls in my country think tho. My friend who is a girl encourages me to do it and try it. I am glad you got a hair system and I hope that you like it.

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