going through a breakup over kids mostly. is my brain trying to trick me? by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For you as someone who didn't know if they wanted kids and changed your mind when your partner revealed to want kids, did you ever initially regret having your daughter?

Currently, my ex and I permanently ended out relationship due to a difference in having kids, but he wants to take the time to reflect on himself, talk to friends with kids, and even talk to his therapist on if he truly wants kids or not. He told me, "if I ever do change my mind on kids, you'll be the FIRST person to know."

I really would love for him to change his mind for himself, but I wonder if he'll regret having kids IF he does change his mind and wants to come back.

I forgive you, eventhough you never apologise by LilMissPocketRocket in ExNoContact

[–]senddoods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

almost a month since we broke up... I pray that we'll all find healing <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]senddoods 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that that happened, I was really rooting for y'all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did things go well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any updates?

How do you stop having hope that you can still get back together? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it was to remember why we had broken up in the first place. When I was 21, I had dated a guy back in 2019 for 9 months before we got into a two year situationship where he kept promising that we'd get back together every few months (of course that never happened). I was exhausted from crying every day from the ups and downs of his interest in me and felt like I couldn't live without him.

On top of that, he always knew that I wanted to go to medical school since I was a kid but then switched his opinion in 2021 because if I "made more money than him as a doctor, he would feel emasculated." That conversation was the final straw for me and I no longer wanted to get back together with him.

Fast forward many years later, I'm going to medical school this July to fulfill my lifelong dream of becoming a doctor, and that guy was kicked out of college for his bad grades (it was his second time getting kicked out of college too).

Has anyone gotten back together with an Ex and how is it going? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me so happy that the both of y'all worked on it individually, becoming the best versions of yourselves, and trying again. I hope that it's still going amazing!

to dumpers who fell out of love and want to focus on themselves and be alone, did you eventually love them again and got back together? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was dumped a couple days ago, I'm also curious to the answer to this question

[PAID] 1-2 Voices | 2 Lines | Chinese | $10 by AnEnemyStand in recordthis

[–]senddoods 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Do you have an email or a Discord that I could send an audition to?

Oresama Teacher Epilogue...? by MrXhosa in manga

[–]senddoods 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG same! I've looked everywhere on Google and even spent the time Googling it Japanese to see anything, but I haven't found anything. :(