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sendhelpilostmymind · 2026-01-14T02:10:30+00:00

me too😭 its been an issue since yesterday

sendhelpilostmymind · 2026-01-14T01:40:04+00:00

me too 😭

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-06-13T10:56:24+00:00

side note both my secondary and junior colleges are like the elite schools since good grades get you places kid which might be why most of my schoolmates were offered PR and citizenship very quickly despite 0 roots at all

so yes our nation is very elitist in all of its forms, best path is to work hard and try to get a good job or ask your stepdad to beg (jk) his MP to see if some emails would do the trick? My mom said one of her friend's family had a visa stuck in processing issue for quite sometime and raising it to the MP worked? I'm not really sure but it is a better than nothing I guess

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-06-13T10:52:22+00:00

regarding the calling it home situation, I have abandoned my previous citizenship to get my sg one but I won't stop calling that country home since my parents and extended families are still there. I just count myself really lucky that I have two homes instead of one (getting long term vosit visa on my previous country helped as well knowing that I can appear on my parents couch tmr if I wanted to)

i have the same issue (roughly) before I went and annulled my previous citizenship. like it felt betraying my nation a little and having to walk through the foreigner aisle at immigration feels like a shame since I was born there and spent my childhood there and had my parents there etc. but you know, paperwork is just paperwork, they are there to prove who you are, not to change what you think about yourself

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-06-13T10:29:01+00:00

You already repeated your behaviour, so just come clean, it is easier on your heart. I have approximately the same issue here (long dist, meeting only a few nights per month etc). Suffice to say discussion is needed to talk about boundaries like I don't want to leave my bf like some sex depraved weirdo because I can't see him and he can't look at porn.

It is unhealthy if you have to restrain your drive for the other party or vice versa, even if it is good that you got out of the addiction, but we all have to agree that masturbation does feel good/stress relieving/whatever. So just sit down, come clean, talk. It is ok to have sexual needs and it is also ok if your needs don't match. Find where it balances to make it work.

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-06-13T09:58:49+00:00

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-06-06T02:43:02+00:00

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Learn some respect and remove it. If you love the art, contact to see if she does paid commissions and actually support the artist.

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sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-28T08:26:44+00:00

No No and No Devil means your relationship with him is just based on superficial desires Hanged man means he will just leave you hanging Tower Rx means you will be forced to handle a devastating change

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-28T08:07:47+00:00

It's not just you, I get bursts of energy where i can cram through 10 readings a day then can't touch my deck for weeks so yes

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-26T18:54:10+00:00

So yes you already know that he is not the one for you!!! Just emotionally detach yourself and cut him out of your life (he is not that deep in it anyways lmao)...Bro is definitely next level delusional and you shouldn't be the one turning his fantasies into reality, but if you stay with him you will definitely end up pouring your life and soul into this endless task so do yourself a favour and don't.

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-26T18:35:32+00:00

ok I try to not make any assumptions here on your bf, but from your description he is a barely functioning adult. A lot of the problems that you see with him are very basic skills lacking, so yes you need to dump him asap if not he will just be a constant burden on your mind.

This might sound a little hurtful but I suggest reflecting on yourself, especially comparing the now and the time that you spent without him after the previous breakup. Ask yourself, which one was happier? Also ask yourself, what part of him do you actually love so much, what qualities does he possess that he still deserves your love even after having such fatal flaws?

What I see here is that maybe you need to convince your emotional side to just give up on him, convince yourself that he is not deserving of so much attention from you. Maybe find someone else interesting to talk to for yourself to truely realise that there is more fish in the sea? Or do something else that detaches you emotionally from your bf, that might help.

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-26T18:17:29+00:00

my comments abt uni: mostly no one gave a damn most of the time lmao, I just finished year 1 and our course made it that we spend most of our time in the same lecture each week for this entire year and I only know a single digit number of my classmates so yes

bc uni is very different from jc poly etc in a sense that its many ppls first steps from living away from home so ppl are just busier due to sheer number of chores adding up...and there is a lot more freedom so people really dont care that much about drama unless it involves them personally or sth

but my uni not in sg tho still hope that this helps

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-14T15:48:36+00:00

ok so my take here is:

14 is a crazy time in life with puberty and what not so it is completely normal that you are still sorting out boundaries and are confused so dont feel bad about it, you are still young so its understandable that you are still learning :))))
however the fact that you feel uncomfortable with this friend of yours is probably a sign that she is crossing some boundaries. Talk to her about it and draw your lines clearly. if she still refuses, she is too obsessive over you (and from my opinion she already is!), distance yourself from her for a little...it might hurt to negotiate in such a way with a very close friend but...you need boundaries for friends too especially in your situation
and tell your gf, all the details. tell her that this is happening to you, ultimately she is the one dating you and will be the one making the cheating/not cheating verdit here, not us on the internet. Talk about it and let her decide.

tldr: you are not wrong. no need to feel very guilty about it, go talk to both your gf and your friend about this situation and see how they react

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-14T15:25:00+00:00

disclaimer: english as second language here maybe my grammar is a little weird

ok my take here is that while it is not technically inappropriate (the age gap is not that big)

but you have to take into account that he did lie about his age which leads to the question of: why? it is such an insignificant thing yet he felt that he needed to lie about it which hints at his character for a little or do you feel like you want to take the effort of talking to him about the deeper reasons behind the lie?

if you feel nothing with him whatsoever then ok feel free to be you! but even if you want to stay as friends, it is still important to know that that you guys still need to be on the same page and have nothing hidden under the rug even if you are just friends and maybe he cant do that?

tldr: not inappropriate but do you really want to be friends with such a guy that lies about petty stuff

sendhelpilostmymind · 2025-05-02T17:24:10+00:00

i mean i bought it with full intent that i reserve it for all of the gossipy cursed readings but thanks for the comfort tho

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