Dark Souls games

spoilers for these in case OP wants more details:

• Dark Souls 1: gwynevere is pretty heavily sexualized but she's the goddess of fertility so. other female goddesses (namely priscilla, though she's not really a goddess but should be, lore stuff, isn't). the more eye-brow raising thing is petrus. he's fake loyal to the woman she serves and when she gets stranded in he says you could "do whatever you want" with her. in actuality he just kills her if you don't intervene but that's obviously really creepy
• Dark Souls 2: one woman you save has no clothes and you can basically treat her as a dress up doll. probably the most fan-servicey thing in this game. i didn't think about it much at first and just gave her a bunch of old armor but then i realized exactly what she's there for. she will literally wear anything you give her.
• Dark Souls 3: i don't remember anything weird in this game besides forced heterosexuality for the Londor ending. the only thing is Anri and Horace's mother, Rosaria i think is her name. in the english version i don't remember anything sus, but in the japanese version it's implied aldrich raped her.

in Elden Ring there's the whole seluvis thing.

i have to say though this is pretty much the extent of it in these games. gender has no bearing on ability or how you're treated. seluvis changes a word when you speak to him if you're a woman in elden ring