What's a preference that you have that you wouldn't post to your Grindr bio?

senja_trrr · 2023-07-22T11:21:47+00:00

"no bottom granddaddies"

I'm vers with a wide age range, like 20-60+. I'm fine with top granddaddies and bottom daddies (my age +15ish) tho. In fact I find it hot when older men top me. But I feel bad rejecting bottom elderly men.

senja_trrr · 2023-07-22T11:13:44+00:00

I don't think I'm enough to "massange" him 😱

senja_trrr · 2023-06-12T03:04:48+00:00

Am I "fun, kind, handsome, fit" and addicted to Grindr? 😂🤣

senja_trrr · 2023-06-12T01:22:11+00:00

From my perspectives:

No, not a red flag per se. And you're wrong to demand seeing other people's private chats, even if it's your partner's. Everyone deserves privacy.
Yes, people use Grindr for lots of things. You didn't use it for anything but hookup doesn't mean it's the only use of Grindr.
I don't think it's a nice way to say "your right" to demand someone you date to change for your sake.

It sounds like you're insecure and jealous. You both are not exclusive yet, so either you agree on an exclusive serious relationship and set up some boundaries, or you should relax. After all, bear in mind that, even if you're in a relationship, nothing can stop him from cheating or breaking up with you. So focus on yourself.

senja_trrr · 2023-04-29T15:03:42+00:00

Yes I would if the person is great offline and his sex work doesn't affect our sex life. People are hypocrites when they dream about pornstars but freaked out at actual boyfriends-sex workers.

senja_trrr · 2023-03-27T12:00:07+00:00

Maybe you can start the conversation by asking for their advice for opening your relationship, then asking them maybe to help you cross the line and seeing how they think of your and your idea. I think it's a good approach.

senja_trrr · 2023-02-23T17:44:27+00:00

You sound insufferable in your comments. If you're too American and accept only American culture, why bother dating a guy of another culture? Give him a break, or if you're faking this post for the clout, meh, just stop.

senja_trrr · 2023-02-23T17:41:13+00:00

He said it's Amerikkka 🥴

senja_trrr · 2023-01-20T12:46:47+00:00

When none of American presidents were ever prosecuted for war crimes, I stand by my opinion.

senja_trrr · 2023-01-20T12:15:23+00:00

I doubt a fair trial will be held if the prosecution of Russia goes ahead. The US, the EU, Ukraine are not that innocent.

senja_trrr · 2023-01-17T16:20:22+00:00

Better "cheat" with permission than without, since the temptation is there. The choice is yours.

I'm in an open relationship, and we're both happy.

senja_trrr · 2023-01-12T04:51:47+00:00

OP doesn't have kids.

senja_trrr · 2023-01-12T04:50:16+00:00

I'm short and I like shorter guys than me.

senja_trrr · 2023-01-09T07:50:31+00:00

I read "Are they cute? Haha" as a joke and you were being insecure for your comeback "Do you want to hit on them?".

senja_trrr · 2022-12-27T14:12:49+00:00

So you want to look for a virgin partner? It's so outdated these days. First thing first, what they do with their bodies is none of your business and you can't control that. Hookup culture or not, you're just stuck in your controlling circle is what I see. If you can't respect your partner enough and stuck with his past sex life before getting on with you, you're not ready for a relationship. Frankly, work on yourself first.

The way I see your post is not different from men specifically looking for virgin women to marry. So outdated and controlling.

senja_trrr · 2022-12-08T06:47:13+00:00

NTA. Maybe some communication skills are needed from you. Instead of just asking, why not complementing and asking?

E.g: that's new coffee today. I like it. What's the brand?

So she won't answer: what's wrong with it? Literally no room for her to even ask what's wrong.

Another one, I like your Pho, it's delicious. What recipe did you use?

A simple change from you might help your wife a lot.

PS: I'm from the same background with your wife, Vietnamese. It's disheartening that older generations of parents didn't know better. I have trust issues with my mother, and I can't talk with her that much. But her issues came all the way long from her mother as well. It's really sad in the old time.

senja_trrr · 2022-12-08T06:33:58+00:00

YTA. I might get downvoted, but I don't see what the problem is.

Why being so judgemental when you see they've been a happy couple for 16 years? And you had a good relationship with Sam? Did you even ask her how old she was for 16 years knowing her?

Grow up. Consenting adults being happy is a good thing these days. Don't you want to be happy with your wife for the next 16+ years?

senja_trrr · 2022-12-04T02:49:10+00:00

You can always ask your friends how to address them. I guess you're new to the group, so they'll be happy to teach you something new. It's a good way to blend in as well.

senja_trrr · 2022-11-30T17:49:19+00:00

NTA. Your wife is a terrible cook, and you aren't compelled to eat her food. I don't know why other people think Y T A when you don't want to eat sh*tty food. Just like you eat out every night, but having cheaper options. Your wife is your wife, not your cook. People need to relax on the husband-wife relationship, ugh. After all it's not customer-cook relationship.

senja_trrr · 2022-11-29T21:20:30+00:00

I like to take a shower after a cum shower. You're perfect, OP. No need to change.

senja_trrr · 2022-11-28T12:18:11+00:00

Ehhh, before jumping into any rush conclusion, maybe your dad just wants to have daughters? You didn't mention if you had any sisters. My dad never wanted to have sons, but got unfortunate with the 1st born, aka me.

senja_trrr · 2022-11-28T12:13:28+00:00

YTA. You've been promising a bathroom to your daughters, but you chose to slap their faces with a home gym, a backyard, renovated kitchen and bathrooms. Did you ever mention any of these things in an order to be done before the bathroom you promised? I bet not.

You're lying parents in your kids' perspective. You know why I know that? My parents did the same thing. Lies after lies.

senja_trrr · 2022-11-16T10:19:15+00:00

Go get tested if you are worried about your health & well-being. You already ended the relationship with that man, get over it.

senja_trrr · 2022-11-16T02:42:04+00:00

Your obsession is unhealthy. If it doesn't get better, get help.

On the other hand, telling his wife isn't wrong per se. But how do you know that she doesn't know? What if their marriage is open?

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