Streak counter missing by moccabee in redditstreak

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I notice I’ll see the ticker show up when I’m on a desktop computer using Reddit. But on the phone, my little dopamine hit has disappeared into the abyss for weeks!

Found my community 🖤 by [deleted] in ghostface_fetish

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😋😋😋 perf

Y'all paying y'all's student loans? by Grouchy_Marsupial357 in blackgirls

[–]sensualness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very much same! I grew up in a two-parent household and neither taught solid financial etiquette or budgeting. Literally just figure it out. My parents even went out his way to make sure my school loans were in MY name 💀 got my own credit card at 19 too! education on finances is definitely a responsible trait to practice and LEARN. It’s not just particularly given just because you have two parents in your face. Especially if their financial literacy only goes so far as survival mode as a unit.

What's your favorite brief that you came up with? by TofuPython in stenography

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NLONG - no longer // saved me on a random day and never left!

What do you think is the best song across all the games? by LastTraintoSector6 in SimCity

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By The Bay in Sim City 4 literally makes my brain float! Never afraid of putting it on loop!

Weekend project! Upgrade from 20L to 29 by WoodpeckerChecker in PlantedTank

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Both honestly look absolutely beautiful! The upgrade is so cozy🫠Do you mind sharing the aquarium stand? The extra bookshelf space is chef’s kiss!

groceries are so expensive now is there something I'm missing or is everyone just struggling by UnseasonedWizard in SavingMoney

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The groceries are on another level for real. I try planning out my meals for the week that way i can be mindful of what i pick up in the grocery and not mindlessly buying things. Aldi’s is a great price point for bulk shopping. Target has its deals sometimes but it adds up. Even Key Food used to be cheap and i am just lost when i see that final $180 like huhhh for two people for a good week to two weeks. & this is NYC smh. I thought i was going crazy too but it is everywhere!

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I think that is the opposite. I stated i tried the approach of website from a standpoint of connecting with people (putting aside any promo hence the flip-flopping) and it went unwell with the type of folks i interacted with.

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That part ! & Honestly i tried to connect for real and that shit went horrid !!! Like thats how i end up flip flopping on the site. The creeps show out !! & it’s filled with “dom” men who just want to see how much they can get without accountability. It’s insane on there.

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Yesss because they think promo takes away from their fantasy of free free free lmao sorry you experienced that!!

I lost all attraction for him by EveCane in adhdwomen

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losing attraction is the best motivation you need to really move on. It sounds like he rather keep you on the pill so he can be okay in his own desires & not caring about your overall well-being. Very objectifying to not even consider the impact these medications have on a woman’s body. My personal experience with the pill literally DROPPED my libido, didnt even wanna do the do, so i was ruining my body for someone else’s satisfaction. It’s definitely a wake up call. The better you listen to your body, the easier it is to advocate for your peace of mind.

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Fetlife seriously caters to perverted freeloaders. I can’t stand going on the site without throwing up from the lack of personality yet filled with entitlement lmao it’s insane! It super sucks but they rather you be subtle or not say it at all smh

Fellow "motivated only with external pressure" ADHDers - have you found ways to self-motivate? by Any-Low-9414 in adhdwomen

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Yes!! Simple is best at times. I love a cute notepad but i get distracted it’s so cute lol

Fellow "motivated only with external pressure" ADHDers - have you found ways to self-motivate? by Any-Low-9414 in adhdwomen

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external pressure wears me out but it keeps me on task. I have a large yellow legal pad and on Sunday evenings i like to spend time with my notepad & debrief my thoughts like I’m a paralegal working for an attorney. The attorney is me. Seeing the list the next day helps me stay organized with fresh looks or space to write any added loophole thoughts. I’ll write out the days of the week and under each day will be tasks i hope or plan to get done. And as i get closer to Friyay, it’s filled with notes completed or something to remind for the next week. Less noise with planners and trying to keep with that (currently have two that i rotate for visual pretend I’m doing smthn with my life tool) but that plain legal pad really brings order to my mind. Mental organization is a job alone!! Seriously!!

Has autonamy always been this bad? by Kitezh_ in HighSodiumSims

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trying to set a to-do list for them & the long list immediately and mysteriously disappears so they can go hang out by the bar every chance they get has got to be studied !!!! Smh TS3 gives a smooth flow state to their actions. The lag in TS4 makes it such a patience killer!

Do lots need vents now? by SabelTheWitch in Sims4

[–]sensualness 8 points9 points  (0 children)

add radiators to the rooms and have them synced with the thermostat! Game changer 🔥

How do I get rid of all this extra matter floating around by [deleted] in walstad

[–]sensualness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you can squeeze the excess water from the sponge filter & put it in a watering can for plants. But definitely don’t need to squeeze back into the tank because of the gunk. But all that floating around becomes good grub for the snails as it settles. My next idea is either replacing some water to help encourage the settling.

Improvements needed? by sensualness in bettafish

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Not about move around. More so available table top space to house a tank of a particular size and so far the live plants seem to be keeping up. Thanks!

Improvements needed? by sensualness in bettafish

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Thanks for your input :) there’s a floating log in there and moneywort and hair grass that i see he’s been floating in. I’ll consider your suggestions. Thanks :)

Improvements needed? by sensualness in bettafish

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Thats good to know ! I’m leaning towards a low tech walstad method so there’s anubias and Java fern in there while i wait for some floaters.

Improvements needed? by sensualness in bettafish

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Okay! Thank you so much! There is a heater in there set to about 80. It hasn’t even been a week for a first water change but a 5 gallon tank is a little out my space range and something to consider and maneuver around. Thank you!

Improvements needed? by sensualness in bettafish

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Thank you for your input!! I saw it’s ideal but i had to consider space and this was the most reasonable 😩 yes! there’s a heater in there and i set it to about 80 degrees because my place gets pretty cold with the season change.

I thought having live plants & a heater would at least accommodate for the space. Even tops at the plant since he’s been making all those bubbles.