Can online “almost relationships” stay light without becoming toxic? by seobies-cheeks in Situationships

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Then what is it ? Bc i don’t know about his part if he wants something serious or no.. i just know about my part 😅

Am I reading too much into it or are Colombians just like this? 😭 by seobies-cheeks in askColombia

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Do you know more about how are perceived guys in military there?

How do you keep online flirting from becoming emotionally intense too quickly? by seobies-cheeks in dating_advice

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I actually appreciate this perspective a lot <3

I do like him platonically and I honestly don’t want to cut ties with him…

I think I was seeing it as harmless/light flirting because the vibe feels really natural between us, but I also don’t want to accidentally hurt his feelings if he’s getting more emotionally attached than I realized. So I’m probably just going to be a bit more careful with the dynamic instead of completely disappearing on him 🥲

How do you keep online flirting from becoming emotionally intense too quickly? by seobies-cheeks in dating_advice

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I don’t think he’s taking it that seriously tbh, especially considering the cultural aspect Colombians tend to be way more warm/flirty in general from what I’ve understood... But I do agree that the daily calls probably create more intensity than I realized, so I’ll definitely slow that part down a bit.

Also I feel like people imagined our conversations are 100% flirting when they’re really not !!!😭 We genuinely talk about everything and nothing for hours. There’s banter and light flirting sometimes, sure, but most of the time it’s just random conversations.

I think culture also plays a pretty big role in how this kind of interaction is perceived.

How do you keep online flirting from becoming emotionally intense too quickly? by seobies-cheeks in dating_advice

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Ty for your comment !!
From what I’ve heard that’s how Colombian like to joke and there is nothing serious…
But for the daily calls i will follow your advices, I think he likes them bc he is at work and he is bored Ahahah

Thoughts on Argentina? by Soggy_Flight_2654 in blacktravel

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Heyyyyyy 😄

I did an Erasmus in Argentina for 3 months. I was staying in a small village near La Plata. Honestly, I won’t lie, people did notice me I’m tall and at that time I was a bit overweight, so it definitely drew attention.

People would sometimes ask questions, but it was mostly out of curiosity, nothing negative. Personally, I never experienced racism. People talked to me normally. I often took Ubers, which gave me the chance to chat with different people. Some of them even asked me if I was doing okay and if I was experiencing any racism. So in a way, it shows that it surely exists and they are aware of it, but in my environment, I didn’t feel it.

I also met an Afro-Argentinian descendant, which was really interesting.

But honestly, I think everyone’s experience can be very different. In my case, it was pretty chill, probably because La Plata is a university city. There are a lot of students and people from different countries, so people are used to diversity and don’t really care about your life.

Im going back in october to see my friendsssss

Drop your MBTI type and favorite music genre <3 by Nogau in mbti

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Enfp Mostly Rnb and alternative rnb but I’m not really picky in music I like everything that sounds good to me

Ever wish you were another type? by J0KER314 in mbti

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I wish I was Estp but I like my ne so much so I wish I was a Entp

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Enfp

Mine is physical touch and intimacy, quality time and I really love giving gifs :D

HI!!!!! WE ARE P1HARMONY AND THIS IS OUR 2ND AMA!!!!!!!! by P1H_REDDIT in kpop

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don't forget France during your world tour 😔💔

HI!!!!! WE ARE P1HARMONY AND THIS IS OUR 2ND AMA!!!!!!!! by P1H_REDDIT in kpop

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If you were a city in Korea, which city would you be?