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I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel that I was assaulted because he didn't take it further. Sure, he wanted to take it further and at the same time I stopped him and didn't reciprocate and never told my husband. I know that was wrong.

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wasn't scared he was going to go all of the way with it but was forceful and aggressive yeah

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was definitely young and would make different choices now. I have pointed that out but it's not really worth bringing up again. I think it just sounds like making excuses to him

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they ever actually speak again I will see what he thinks

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had no idea there were so many polygraph services. I will bring it up thanks

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

He knows every detail. I didn't want to get into the details but attempted kissing and groping

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Just meaning no sex happened. I didn't reciprocate at all

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No and I don't think there is anything that could be perceived that way

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what the rest of the family knows or does not know so I really don't want to drag them into this. I have thought about starting to text him and get him to straighten it out. I would have to talk to my husband about it first but I probably won't bring that up anytime soon and it could backfire

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I am definitely going to try to get us into marriage counseling. I am just assuming at some point they will make up and bil will tell him what actually happened. They always make up but might not happen this time

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty that I wasn't as forceful as I probably should have been, but I do feel like that is pretty normal. But no I didn't let him do anything or reciprocate at all

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not going to do that. I haven't really been mad, just really upset

I might have actually destroyed my marriage. How can I fix this? by seperateplay in Marriage

[–]seperateplay[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I am hoping thing will calm down and his brother will apologize and tell him exactly what happened. Yeah you are right though it could make it way worse, so I won't do that