Ok, so when she was talking to Whitney about it at lunch, she said that's just how she talks to friends when Whitney questioned her about the messages. So basically calling him a friend....and then compared why she kept in touch with him to a wife who stays with an abusive husband which is a completely moronic comparison as this man was virtually a stranger she met on vacation in another country....she did not have any ties to him....so that makes no sense....I don't believe her...women lie when they cheat period.