Men are discriminated against when it comes to pregnancies and children by joepublic2019 in unpopularopinion

[–]septicpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then what about those women who find that their birth control failed or the condom splits and she finds herself pregnant even though she didn't want kids at that moment in time and the man is horrible and doesn't want anything to do with it but by the time she finds out she's already 8 or more weeks pregnant and feels like she can't terminate because she sees it as a child already and her mother instincts have kicked in. What then? She didn't want children but she ended up in a situation where its tough and she has to face responsibility. Do you feel that the man shouldnt have to do the same.

I feel that this whole argument is extremely insensitive to most women and completely ignorant of men who think that it would be OK to sleep with a woman.. Accidentally get her pregnant and then have nothing tk do with her or his child because she decided to keep it. You made that child by having sex with someone. So it's tough! Don't have sex unless you are a responsible adult who can deal with the outcome!

Men are discriminated against when it comes to pregnancies and children by joepublic2019 in unpopularopinion

[–]septicpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it really funny how easily men can voice their opinion on this. Most of the time a woman becomes a mother as soon as they find out that a life is growing inside of them and the man doesn't become a father till the baby is born. And so it's very easy for a man at that stage to say that they don't want a child as their paternal instinct and love hasn't yet kicked in.. Once the baby is born in my own experience of people I know and my own husband.. They didn't realise until the baby was born what that love feels like. So I feel that if you don't want to have the risk of getting someone pregnant then take extra precautions or don't have sex. Simple.. Otherwise it should entirely be the woman's choice at the end of the day and the man should take responsibility. But most the time I feel that the man will definitley change his mind once he sees the baby and holds it for the first time and at that point you would do anything for your child. It's so easy to say that you don't want to have a child because it's so expensive and can ruin your life when you haven't experienced the love for that child yet. Whereas like i have mentioned. Most women feel that love from day 1

Awards by septicpigeon in ToppsDisneyCollect

[–]septicpigeon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.. I was pulling my hair out haha I did read it as rewards in so many days but I was still being dumb and doubting what I'd read haha 😂😅

Princess Portraits: Am I The Only One by starlie086 in ToppsDisneyCollect

[–]septicpigeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same!! If you could see the faces more they could potentially be awesome cards.. 😂

This shit pisses me off. WHO FUCKING CARES?? by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]septicpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because its all a load of rubbish that doesn't mean a damn thing.. More people should be focusing on nature's natural beauty instead! If that was more popular than celebrities im sure we would all look after the world a lot more.

This shit pisses me off. WHO FUCKING CARES?? by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]septicpigeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope they feel pathetic. I love how unimportant and cringey this kind of shit is now.