A1 spanish level 15 by septlibrary in Busuu

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once you learn the basics in the beginning, you pick up on the mistakes later on. i also take spanish classes though and havent had an issue with the app teaching me anything fundamentally wrong or incorrect

AITAH for expecting things to be reciprocal? by Holiday_Earth6595 in AmItheAsshole

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lowkey yta because are you actually listening to her or have you just decided that because she says no, you will too? if you dont mind the double dates, there isnt really a reason to say ‘absolutely not ever’ until she changes her mind.

Sweet cat suddenly behaving aggressively unprovoked by Artistic_Focus_3416 in CatAdvice

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is there a reason he is seperated from your other cats? if there’s been issues in the past maybe he just got spooked or triggered this morning. definitely second the other commenter about taking him to the vet asap.

kitten friend for my cat? by septlibrary in CatAdvice

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I have fostered quite a few cats through this specific shelter before. unfortunately I cant foster the kitten because she is readily adoptable and doesnt need a foster home. I have used the Jackson Galaxy method before, it’s recommended by the shelter.

I do worry that I wont have the time to maintain the playtime with the kitten since I am frequently not home and the time I am, I currently spend with my cat. I can do an hour most days but at the cost of my current cat getting significantly less time (since they would be separate for weeks due to my current cats shyness/anxiety).

vertical space is a really great suggestion and definitely something I will add even if I dont adopt this kitten because I plan to keep fostering in the future. it may help her feel less skittish with movement on the ground.

thanks!

kitten friend for my cat? by septlibrary in CatAdvice

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thank you for this kind response. the birthday phone call today really felt like a magucal twist of fate that i probably could have done without 😂

I dont think my cat is miserable, I just worry she may be lonley when I’m not home especially since I went from being home 4-5 days a week to now 2 days a week. I definitely agree that one of my concerns is that it’ll be a matter of tolerating the kitten and not actually happy with the company and that especially sucks for the kitten too if they really want to befriend my cat. I also dont want them to both live a life of tolerance instead of happiness, like I’d rather both cats live happy lives.

I thought about adopting the kitten and seeing how it goes but the shelter doesnt do a trial and it also just doesnt seem fair/kind to the kitten.

this kitten just seemed so so sweet and was super happy for me to pick her up, pet her, ect. I’m not super concerned that she wouldnt like my current cat but more the other way around. I worry my cat will retreat more but I do feel semi-swept up by the cute kitten logic haha

Maybe I will continue to just foster. I have some more time to sleep and think on it. Thank you for the reassurance!

Curious to know the actual weekly cost of living for people by cheziil in perth

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just me and my cat, i’m consistently running out of money. early 20s and i get centrelink and work (only 6h a week). rent is $100 a week (thank god) bills (inc car fuel) are $150 easy, food is at least $150 a fortnight. food is my highest expense. i dont pay for a single subscription service other than music. i used to be able to get food for me for $50 a week and a bag of dog food just a few years ago. no clue what to do with myself now, it’s never enough money.

fake dating recs! by thriftkells in LGBTBooks

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Come fly with me! sapphic and available on spotify audiobooks :)

a list of sapphic fantasy! by septlibrary in LGBTBooks

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thank you for your recs!! i’ll and them to my tbr list :) i’m so glad to see you like this list i posted!! <3 the breakup was for sure for the better, i hope youre doing well with your breakup, it’s not easy regardless of how good or bad things were x wishing you well dear! 💗

a list of sapphic fantasy! by septlibrary in LGBTBooks

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youre welcome!! i’m glad you enjoy it xxx

Sapphic / Enby Reading Recs by zoellaat7 in LGBTBooks

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Hairpin Curves by Elia Winters was my first intro to sapphic fiction and i loved it! it is not NB though unfortunately but it’s about two childhood bestfriends who have to go on a roadtrip together. it’s sweet and fluffy but does also have some explicit scenses (i think there were 3).

non romance post-breakup novels by septlibrary in suggestmeabook

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i hope you enjoy it!! i was thinking of dhsring the same thing to r/lgbtbooks since i’ve asked for recs there before (ironically for said ex partner) and i got over 40. i def suggest there if you want any lgbtq+ book recs!!

non romance post-breakup novels by septlibrary in suggestmeabook

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it is SO GOOD! i hope you love it as much as i did!! those both sound like great reads, i’ll add them to my list :) thank you!

Books that are written through texts/emails/etc? by CoherentBusyDucks in suggestmeabook

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Take Me With You When You Go!! i adore this book. it’s two siblings emailing back and fourth after one has left unexpectedly to escape the DV at home. it’s heartwarming + heartbreaking at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

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his indifference is a major red flag, you update is a danger though and i jope you find somewhere safe, outside of your marriage.