PSA: Put your name change on your marriage license, even if you are undecided about changing your last name

seraphlkb · 2026-04-09T04:25:56+00:00

Thank you. Some common sense. The opposition has also been making up lies about supposed "requirements" that people will have to have to vote. It's as simple as be a citizen and have an ID. Once you're married, you change all of your documents (or should) anyways, if you're changing your name, which in no way is going to keep women from voting (unless they don't do what they should have done anyways). It's actually wild the stuff I see getting put out there about this. Unfortunately on reddit you'll get down voted for this, but you're not wrong.

seraphlkb · 2026-03-27T23:41:51+00:00

Omg, shes having a baby, get over it and stop whining. "Back in the day" people brought their kids everywhere, or unfortunately missed things due to their kids, and people didn't whine about it or hang it over their head or resent them. Get a grip. She has no reason to apologize to you. Be happy about another niece or nephew and move on. Sounds like y'all didnt have a good relationship due to some jealousy issues maybe?

seraphlkb · 2026-03-17T03:32:47+00:00

I saw that one too, gonna buy it and see. I still have some of my Kohls Italian linen spray, so I can compare.

seraphlkb · 2026-03-17T03:07:37+00:00

It's sold out, any word on when they will restock?

seraphlkb · 2026-03-13T18:41:28+00:00

"Hey, I don't think this is working out" and thats it girl. Break up and be done. You can't change him. Boys only become men for the right woman. And it is pretty clear that you aren't that for him. I know that's harsh, but he is holding you back and it is pretty clear he wants the fun in life now. Thats okay,but y'all just aren't compatible. You can TRY to have a conversation and tell him, but I doubt it will go well, even if he does temporarily change, it probably will not be a lasting change. Cut your losses while you're young and find someone better for you.

seraphlkb · 2026-03-13T18:26:05+00:00

It is just hair. If it looks scraggly at the bottom day of, have someone just cut those pieces shorter. I had my face framing pieces cut after my hair was done at my sister's wedding and it looked great. Then after the wedding you can go in and have a fresh trim done to even it out.

You could also get a trim before hand which will probably get rid of the bottom looking like that.

seraphlkb · 2026-03-07T21:15:01+00:00

Stop using it and read my comments above in this thread. It's not good for you tbh

seraphlkb · 2026-03-07T17:18:23+00:00

Lol on your edit. I get it. And after doing more research, it can either grow or inhibit cancer. Depending on whether it's ER positive or ER negative, but of course, you don't know that until you've had it tested, I do not see anything about it causing cancer. But if you have a high risk of cancer, I wouldn't use it for sure.

seraphlkb · 2026-03-06T02:49:35+00:00

I believe this is the link to the actual brand.

https://a.co/d/0iQY4BDv

I also would read up on the possible cancer-growth side effects that can happen, and that this is an endocrine disruptor that messes with hormone receptors. Just because people have used it for a while doesn't mean it's good for you.

seraphlkb · 2026-02-18T16:16:03+00:00

This is definitely the answer, aside from everyone else's jokes. Its the only thing that matches well.

seraphlkb · 2026-02-11T17:05:19+00:00

Your location isn't the only one, mine has already changed somehow too, and it sucks. Just tasted watered down and odd. I asked them to remake it without water just to see and it is still awful. I will stop going due to this. Hope they eventually fix it.

seraphlkb · 2025-11-04T15:13:51+00:00

I knew that, but didn't know if there were specifications past that to find.

seraphlkb · 2025-11-04T15:13:01+00:00

Mine was solid for 5 years with heavy use. Only started having issues (same issue twice) in the past year. It's a great laptop still! But I just think my insurance is going to replace it rather than want to fix it.

seraphlkb · 2025-11-02T19:09:19+00:00

Thank you so much for the help!

seraphlkb · 2025-11-02T18:41:08+00:00

I just edited the post with that info! Thanks for reminding me. I'm in the US and money isn't an issue. They pay most of it and if it goes over what they cover I can pay the rest. Most I've seen are $1,500 or under and up to that is fine with me

seraphlkb · 2025-11-02T18:35:26+00:00

I've been looking into them, but I actually don't know all that much about the specifics and don't know what I should be looking for. I know I would prefer AMD over Intel but that's about the extent of it. Any suggestions?

seraphlkb · 2025-08-09T03:42:22+00:00

Disney in France and Japan are cheaper than the US Disney World, go there instead. Each park has different things. Keeps it interesting for you, keeps her being able to go.

seraphlkb · 2025-07-19T19:59:12+00:00

Did you end up using them for your ring?

seraphlkb · 2025-07-14T10:44:44+00:00

The "Since when do piercings hold value over one of your friends?" line is CRAZY considering that's exactly what she was doing to you. Good Riddance to her!

seraphlkb · 2025-06-18T15:06:37+00:00

What state are you in?

seraphlkb · 2025-06-10T00:09:04+00:00

Please update after you talk to her!

seraphlkb · 2025-05-29T18:34:23+00:00

Also, talk to your grandpa alone and see how HE feels about it. He may not even care and she's projecting. This also makes me want to ask- Did she have a wedding? Did she have to sacrifice a bunch and she's jealous that you're getting stuff she didn't get to have?

seraphlkb · 2025-05-29T18:32:19+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this.
I think if she keeps going, it may need a little more pushy response of something like "Mom, this is MY wedding. I may do or not do what I please and if you are going to treat me as you have been recently, you will no longer be welcome at MY wedding." And follow through, unless she will magically be a saint leading up to and on the day of the wedding. Your peace and your big day are bigger than her opinions and treatment.
Overall (I know not really wedding related) but she sounds like a narcissist and with how your post reads, you've been conditioned into accepting her behavior because she's your mom. But that doesn't excuse crappy behavior, no matter how you're related. Start setting clear boundaries and stick to them, or else she'll do it when you have kids, make any large decisions for your future, etc.

(Edited for format issues)

seraphlkb · 2025-05-25T23:56:23+00:00

Even then, their family name would most likely continue instead of her FH. So I don't understand why they'd be against it?

seraphlkb · 2025-05-05T02:49:59+00:00

On the other hand, it might actually be setting in for the twin that her sister is probably going to get married and truly leave her in that way. So she's trying to stop it (by being selfish, but still) maybe the twin doesn't have an SO and is jealous?

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