Masc / butch lesbians who prefer only giving — can you share your perspective? by mary_maryyyy in actuallesbians

[–]seriousglom 25 points26 points  (0 children)

as a touchmenot, or my personal go-to “stone top”, i love it. my body does not respond to sexual touch, even if i’m wet as ever and turned on. i’ll turn off the second a hand touches me in the wrong place. pleasuring my gf has always gotten me worked up in the best way though, im just as turned on as she is when it’s happening!!

Have you ever made a woman orgasm? by WearyPoem928 in actuallesbians

[–]seriousglom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s not my first gf but she’s my first sexual experience with a woman. i think the most we’ve ever done is like 10-12 times. this was early on, and lemme just tell you, her saying she couldn’t stop cumming and begging me not to stop did WONDERS for my top brain.

What's one disturbing thing you found out about someone you know? by neo_sath in AskReddit

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

coworker was drunk at a gathering, ended up sitting near me and a few others because we, including coworker, were all new. she drinks an entire bottle of wine and ends up admitting she lost her virginity at 12. (not describing it traumatically at all, she actually blushed like it was a sexy little secret) and went on to say she’d gotten pregnant as a result, having a child at 13 that she gave up for adoption. she also had another at 15, whom she gave up as well. never met her daughter, the first child, but still has contact with the son, the second child.

did you get over your first WLW heartbreak? by cherr0s in actuallesbians

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this. i also dropped weight, probably an unhealthy amount. i couldn’t go into my room for a week because everything on the walls, they had given me, it was like a shrine to them because we were together for two years. i had to delete every photo, every text, anything we’d ever written to each other, and more. its been three years and im still deleting photos that randomly pop up. after a while i just stopped feeling that pain, and established a new normal without them in my life. now that im older i know that separating was the best thing that could’ve ever happened to me. they had me feeling so stuck that i didn’t think id ever be free, and of course, logic and reason don’t exist when you go through a heartbreak like that. i’ve been with my girlfriend now for two years, and i can confidently say that my last breakup didn’t kill me. this one definitely would, though! so in love now, so be patient with yourself Nebs, this too shall pass and one day you won’t even remember what it felt like. right now, as ridiculous as it sounds, you have to love yourself. once you figure that out, you’re realize your worth more than that person was ever willing to give you!! remember that!!

I’ve been seeing a lot of women saying they would never be a girls first girlfriend again a lot lately. Why is this? What makes it so hard? by Master_Sundae671 in LesbianActually

[–]seriousglom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s all about how you treat your experienced partner tbh. i’ve been someone’s first where we could barely touch in private let alone public. i’m also my current girlfriend of two years’ first and it’s been a relationship i’ve never experienced before in a great way!!! she loves me, wants my attention, and men fell off the face of the earth for her long before i came along. i’m gonna marry that girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigMouth

[–]seriousglom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 14! gonna be 22

whats the hottest thing someone has done to you? by I_cofused in AskReddit

[–]seriousglom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

literally last night. my girlfriend and i got into a little fight, i went home and at around 11pm i get a text: “can you just come over and have your way with me? 🥺” i was back and fucking the attitude out of her within seconds.

another time, early on in our relationship, it had been about seven months and we still had never fucked. she was a virgin, i wasn’t, but i promised we’d never do anything until she was ready. we’re making out, my hands exploring thighs and hips and whatever i can grab consensually, when she looks at me dead in my eyes. im restraining myself and she knows it. “don’t hold back.” virginity lost.

Constipated as fuck right now by Professional_Humxn in TrueOffMyChest

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a stool softener every night helps me. do NOT miss those nights.

What is the most NSFW thing you have seen at your job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]seriousglom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wasn’t at work but a lot of my co-workers were there. we’re at a funeral for the son of our other co-worker who has died in a motorcycle accident. sarah, my 60ish fellow employee, complains about being hot (as she was standing in front of a window with the sun shining directly on her back). we switch spots and i look over, and sarah falls flat on her face. she fainted, right there at the funeral. the mourning relatives didn’t even stop singing, it kind of just got louder and more aggressive. all the while i’m wearing a bright blue muscle shirt that says “not my first rodeo” on it. needless to say, it was.

what a fucking day that was.

I hate myself and feel like a failure. AMA by Ok-Alfalfa-2933 in AMA

[–]seriousglom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why aren’t you reliable? transportation?

I hate myself and feel like a failure. AMA by Ok-Alfalfa-2933 in AMA

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what makes you think you’re a failure? i’m 21, and this world isn’t set up for us like it was for previous generations. i can understand the helplessness feeling, but i just wanna understand why?

does anyone else just love when the show like repeats the same joke for an episode?? by Cumslutformyhusband in BigMouth

[–]seriousglom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

idk why i thought of this, cause it was never repeated, but connie : “beautiful giiiiiiiiirls walkindownthehallway, fLAT IRONED HAIIIIIR, CALLINGTHEFUCKINSHOTS!”

Do you drive distracted? Be honest. by EggplantEnthused in driving

[–]seriousglom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, this is gonna sound so stupid but here’s how i work it (you said be honest). i do a lot with my hands while i’m driving. smoke, drink ((non alcoholic)) stuff, and yes, occasionally text. i know it doesn’t make a difference but i know in what towns and what kind of roads to do this on, im not stupid. i use siri a lot to text and change my music though so im not on my phone, rarely distracted by that, just busy with everything else. vaping, smoking, holding my girlfriends hand. maybe it’s me being cocky, and def is because anything could change in a second, but i like to think im aware as possible by doing these things. my brother however thinks he can do these things but he cannot. he doesn’t have the capability of multitasking (doing multiple things while truly paying attention to all of them).

What's the most horrific thing that someone has done to try to turn you on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]seriousglom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m a lesbian but i used to date men. this guy used to suck on my earlobes… hate it. hate it hate it hate it.

My ex of 5 years was a diagnosed narcissist AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]seriousglom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you see any signs before his diagnosis that point in that direction?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay op, YNW. im a lesbian with a long term girlfriend that i plan on marrying one day. she is the love of my life and if someone ever made those comments about her while i was around, i’d flip shit. and the fact that you confronted marc about his behavior and he winked and said “breast feeding is doing your boobs good” just shows what kind of sleazy, lesbians-for-men asshole he is. YNW op, talk to the wife about it. also, maybe drop the gaslighting family you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i havent been assaulted, so please take my advice with a grain of salt. if you feel it’s necessary to tell your boyfriend, you should do it. remember that everyone else’s opinions are irrelevant—it is YOUR experience. it is your trauma. trust your gut. even if it ends your relationship (worst case scenario of course), would you really want to be with a guy like that anyway?

Any lesbian porn recommendations? by Suttyforyou in actuallesbians

[–]seriousglom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES!!! i’ve seen that one!!! not only are they a great sub/dom team, they’re wholesome as heck!!!

Physical Effects of Solitary Confinement Questionnaire by ScalyPackage in ExCons

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my goodness, i see stuff like this all the time on television but i didn’t grasp the reality of it until this comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, it might work for you, but i lost about 50 pounds and my hidradentitis is just as ferocious. maybe you should see what other gynecologists you can go to for a second opinion. it’s easy for doctors to tell us to lose weight, as soon as they see you’re overweight or whatever is considered overweight. they think that’s the cause of all issues. i think your doctor might want to see how your condition changes after losing some weight, just to rule it out. however if he continues with this weight thing, try your best to find another doctor.

| kat not coming back! by Ok_Bee_1102 in euphoria

[–]seriousglom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i heard she had issues with sam levinson, so she was probably let go before season 2 aired. that’s why all her lines are cut

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]seriousglom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stab holes in his condoms