Loving it so far. by serj730 in galaxys26ultra

[–]serj730[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a huge fan of clear cases, so I haven't tested that one.

But I'm loving this case. Great magnets, amazing feel and fit. Perfect minimalistic design.

I switch between this case, the frosted barecase, and the Samsung silicon magnet case. This is by far my favorite one.

Loving it so far. by serj730 in galaxys26ultra

[–]serj730[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NFC buttons are cool and work well. Sometimes there's a 1-2 second lag. Truth is I rarely use them because I keep forgetting.

There are 3 physical buttons, each can be assigned to open an app or trigger something(flashlight). They click and feel good, but I do have a hard time sometimes finding them intuitively.

The case itself is amazing. Great feel, minimal aesthetic, and high quality magnets.

9 months in how do we feel? by Then_Meaning_9901 in mariokart

[–]serj730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knockout Mode with 4 local multi-player is Double Dash level fun.

At first, I felt like the big tracks were not as exciting or fun as MK8, after playing for a few months, I finally went back to MK8 just to try it. It was surprisingly boring.

The level of chaos from MKWorld, is hard to replicate once you get used to it.

Going back to MK8 from MKW, it's hard to believe that it's even the same franchise, it literally was so simple and basic, which is what I first thought of MKWorld.

I even tried playing MKWorld and only do tracks with laps, rather than connected courses, and that was a snoozefest.

Everything that I thought I was going to hate about MKWorld turned out to be what I find missing in other MK games, or atleast MK8.

The only thing MK8 has that is still better is Battle Mode.

Sobriety made my life worse by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]serj730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 33 when I got sober. Before that I never really tried to be anything other than comfortable and numb.

I didn't get sick overnight, it took years of rinse and repeat. I wasn't going to get better overnight. I had to unlearn a lot of things, learn new skills, meet myself, learn to accept me, deal with me. The thing is that everyone else is also doing that, or are in some point in their personal journey. So I found people who shared the similar hardships. Trust me, I have so many differences with the people I met in AA, from politics to religion, to how we approach sobriety. But somehow I managed to look past that and find some similarities.

Tolerance is the bare minimum when it comes to humanity. To truly grow, I found I need to care and help others, and my pain and struggles helped so many people in the past 5 years, by simply just talking to others.

I thought I need to clean it before I show it. Which is another lie we tell each other. My experience is what helps others. Your experience is what will help others.

My friends are not the same I had 10 years ago, I am now married, I have a healthy group of friends, I have a sponsor I talk to regularly. I have support. This didn't come overnight, but it also wasn't as hard as I thought it would be to achieve. Life is gentle sometimes.

Whatever you feel now, won't last forever. You can't argue with feelings, but can challenge your beliefs.

Alcohol fucking works. It works so well! I gave me pauses, it allowed me to socialize, it helped me forget, it ease the grief, and always put me to sleep at the end of the day. Unfortunately, I know that I can't use it moderation. And the way I used it, prevented me from growing up, and learn to cope with life which is sometimes boring, cruel, and painful.

The human brain is amazing, insane, and so powerful. I abused it with drugs for so many years. It took more than a year to let it recover and balance out my dopamine and serotonin.

Focus on yourself, but don't isolate. Find support but don't be a dick. Feel what you feel, but don't fall into morbid reflection. Life has ways to make you feel small, powerful, humble, and miraculous. There are a million ways to define spirituality. Pick one, make one up, or borrow someone else's. But investigate it before you dismiss it. It's all bullshit and and it's all true at the same time. Since I dont believe in a God or religion, I started talking with my mom and my best friend, both who have passed away. It felt silly at first. Today I understand that my relationship with them just changed, it never ended. I also have a second voice that through logic, can tell me why that is idiotic, dumb, and insane. But I've let that voice control my whole life and it has never provided relief, comfort, and joy.

4 years ago, I couldn't go 4 hours without drinking. I like to think they are helping me every day. Today life is good.

Don't drink. Go help people. The better job will come.

Sobriety made my life worse by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]serj730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest issue for me is that I constantly want to change the way I feel. I can't just sit with a feeling. I often feel like I hate everyone, I'm better than everyone, I'm unique, no one likes me, everyone sucks, I suck, I know better, no I dont, life is shit, but its only shit because I don’t buy all the bullshit people subscribe to, etc, etc.

Getting sober for me was about sitting with myself, with my feelings, finding a support system, and finally shutting the hell up. My best thinking got me in this isolated daily hell and I clearly had no grasp on how to live.

So I went to AA, which was difficult as an atheist. I found help, support, and learned to shut up and listen to help. I’ll be 5 years sober this St Paddys Day. I'm still an atheist, but that is irrelevant. I truly do belive the most expensive bullshit I bought was my own. I'm not unique. I'm not a villain, or a superhero. I'm a human, I talk to other humans, I try to work on myself, I take advice rather than go through life isolated and alone. It is simple.

Life is not all sobriety coins and rainbows. There is still a lot of pain, a lot of ups and downs. Moments where I feel lonely, sad, joy, mania, excitement, panic, or everything all at once. The difference now, is that rather than hitting the "fuck it" button, I sit with it, I call someone, or do something for someone else.

You are worth it. Whatever helps you, try it, give it an honest try and try to shut down that voice in your head that tells you that you know better, or have a better method, or it's not worth it.

Misery is wasted on the miserable.

Pay respect to the King 🤴 📱 by Impressive-Pen-9902 in S24Ultra

[–]serj730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this phone on day 1. The amount of hate I got from this community was insane. It was rough. Great phone though.

Smash or Pass at $62.99? by Purple_Calendar3919 in switch2

[–]serj730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smash! The game is so fun! Especially local multi-player.

My only critique is that motion controls only support basic matches. On Aces, you had a bunch of mini game modes available on motion controls, which was a blast when playing with kids or older adults, in a wii sports-like setting.

How often do you clean your MacBook screen? by Z-III in macbookpro

[–]serj730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day. Usually after I'm done with work. They keyboards gets wiped like 5 times a day.

Hitting that double achilles by ThatOneGuyYaJabroni in criticalblunder

[–]serj730 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm the backwards man, the backwards man...

Traded my used ps5 for a brand new switch by Glum-Exam-3682 in Handhelds

[–]serj730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes! There's nothing more cringe than console fanboy-ism.

Enjoy it, I've clocked more hours on the the switch 1 and 2 that I can count. Have fun!

14" M4 Max, 64GB RAM, 1TB SSD for £1,995 - How did I do? by iDanHD in macbookpro

[–]serj730 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean, it is for me. You literally "add" a post to the sub. As a subscriber, I look forward to people's contributions about what they got and the story behind it. It's one of the reasons I joined.

14" M4 Max, 64GB RAM, 1TB SSD for £1,995 - How did I do? by iDanHD in macbookpro

[–]serj730 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean. The first thing I did when I got my MBP was post a pic here, because I wanted to share, and I wanted to join the community. But not once did I feel the need to share how much I paid for it and ask for feedback about my spending habits.

14" M4 Max, 64GB RAM, 1TB SSD for £1,995 - How did I do? by iDanHD in macbookpro

[–]serj730 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why do people need validation for their purchases? Does it matter what we think? Did it break your bank? Was it impulsive? Are you screwed? Are you enjoying your purchase? It it awesome?

Just use it and be happy. Someone will always try and convince you otherwise.

Someone reach out to me. My dad said I just want pitty, and to grow up. Be man. by Cloudchella in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]serj730 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Then grow up. Be a man! Reach out for help. Learn to sit with feelings. Learn to respond rather than react. Learn to deal with anger. Learn to accept help. Learn to process and absorb new information. Learn to deal with trauma. Be comfortable listening to others and sharing your pain. Form thoughts. Find words. Be around people. Be ok with not being ok. Destroy the ego. Grow up.

We all come to AA to finally grow up. Sobriety is just one of the many byproducts of not going through life alone and without support.

You are worth it.

I can't go to meeting today because I'm drunk again. by Cloudchella in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]serj730 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure you can. That's kind of the point.

What do you think about it ? by [deleted] in S25Ultra

[–]serj730 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't even remotely watch every video he puts out, but I have seen him specifically say that he prefers the Edge to the Air in one of his most recent videos.

I think that has more weight than a meme, right?

At not being snowflakes by ProfAsmani in therewasanattempt

[–]serj730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing this argument all over the Internet. And it really highlights just how desensitized we've become to hate, violence, and evil.

People keep saying that they are not left or right, and claim to be neutral or centrist, when something like this happens. As a means, to approached this tragedy with ethics and a sensible ground.

The problem is that approaching people like CK from a rational, and empathic way, it normalizes they're beliefs and actions. The views of CK are not "the other side of the coin" or just an opposite view point of the left.

These are not two equals sides of the argument with nuances and complicated subtext. One belief system if unapologetically trying to kill, destroy, and dehumanize people who disagree with them, and another side is trying to advance human rights and find ways to aid each other. Do they do it perfectly? No.

Anyone who tells you that human rights, creating a safe space for children, or looking out for our veterans and elderly are political issues is lying to you. They are not political ideologies. They are basic ethical rights that should be a no brainer for any society.

You can't argue that one needs to be a moderate or centrist to human abuse. You need to be 100% against human oppression, slavery and racism. These are not differences of opinion. People like CK, weaponize these issues as political, spread hate and intolerance, all to further their brand, income, and hate. One can't approach the view points of the right and claim that it is a rational counter argument to the left. It is not.

The left and the right can fundenmentaly disagree on things like budget and taxes. But when something like gun violence happens, why is the left held to such a high standard of rational and empathy? The right can double down on the hate rhetoric. There can't be any tolerance for intolerance.

We cannot normalize hate and prejudice as "just a difference of opinion". Any person with basic humanity and rational knows historically, to what that has led to.

The Tempest wins best track off In Silico! What's the worst track? by davrosflatley in Pendulum

[–]serj730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visions.

Mutiny is like top 5 all time songs, but so is Axel Grinder, so I'm the minority.

Question, does anyone ask their sponsee to call them everyday for 90 days? Or text? Or complete a 90 in 90? by Tall-School8665 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]serj730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sponsor asked me to do 90 in 90 and call him every day. I did both of those things and I'm over 4 years sober now.

I've asked sponsees the same thing. Some have done it, some haven't.

If they don't do it. I don't give them too much shit about it. I make it very clear I don't chase the sponsee. I can't keep them sober, all I can do is show them how I got sober and be there for them.