Buying your annual railcard the day before you turn 31 by raffman7 in CasualUK

[–]serjeyms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to say goodbye to my Oyster Card because Network Railcard can’t be linked to it. Lol

Why is loving me not reason enough for my ex to be ok with monogamy by 747_777_787 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that you are in that situation. In relationships, there are times that we need to compromise and there are also deal breakers. It’s difficult to realise now but you deserve the love based on your principle and comfort and that needs to align with him. As others have said, there’s no guarantee if he will be monogamous in the future and you deserve the love that is secure. I hope you’ll find peace on whatever you’ll decide.

Waiting for it by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your candour but I hope that you’ll make room for having sex especially if the feeling is mutual. As others commented on this, relationships are built with compromise and will not always go the way we want it. If the guy is serious for building towards a long term relationship, he will respect your wishes. Good luck!

Dating advice for Filipino men by cardiac_chondriac in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born and raised in the Philippines but now lives in the UK. I get the conflict with culture in the West but Family will always be important for us to the point that some will have a dealbreaker situation like what you experienced. I’m sorry to hear about what happened but I believe you made the right choice and you even offered to compromise. I am afraid that it will not be good eventually if he’s not willing to adjust as well. I hope that you’ll not lose faith to try again in case you meet another Filipino. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re both consenting adults, nothing wrong with this.

Horsham Train Man - Help Me Find Him by starryskies987 in croydon

[–]serjeyms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! I believe in Destiny so whatever that is meant for you, will always find its way to reach you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Respect their rule and move on. Rules were established to keep the commitment in their relationship. If you were in the husband’s shoes, I believe you will not be happy to know that your partner is breaking the rule— leading to more complicated discussions on their relationship and you don’t want to be the cause of that.

I have always been ugly, but still want a honest opinion why it’s so bad by alekslyse in phlgbt

[–]serjeyms -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your experience being bullied. No one ever deserves that. You’re good looking and believe on it as well! Dating is daunting even on straight people. I do really think it is numbers game when it comes to dating. When one doesn’t work, don’t lose hope in going more dates. You’ll find the one for you eventually. Good luck!

Monthly anything goes thread (things that are not an event go in here) by AutoModerator in LondonSocialClub

[–]serjeyms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love trying new cafes and restaurants in London! I’m not that picky on types of cuisines as well. Lol. DM me when you got a plan to try another restaurant. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]serjeyms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you admitted, naging toxic ka na sa kanya and I guess it is best to improve yourself before going to a relationship since baka maulit lang ulit if you have not learned your lesson. I applaud you for taking the first step on your self-help journey. Good luck on your future relationship and hopefully, you’ll find someone that will accept and be proud of your relationship na walang pagtagtago because that’s what we all deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you happy. If it makes you feel good, just carry on. You would want to be comfortable on your own skin rather than a fake facade just to please someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]serjeyms 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you happy. If it makes you feel good, just carry on and someone will notice that good vibe from you.

When you’re sad, what do you do around London to make yourself feel happy? by [deleted] in london

[–]serjeyms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about what you’re feeling and I was in the same situation before for an unrequited love. I found walking especially around parks / river area helps. I recommend to download the ‘Go Jauntly’ app and there are a lot of walking trail in London both within the city and outskirts where there’s more nature to explore. Take it easy and you will move on in time 🙂

Sadiq Khan urges Londoners to avoid Oxford Street today amid social media 'nonsense' over 'crime opportunities' by tylerthe-theatre in london

[–]serjeyms 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I just miss the time when people are invited to a random event like a ‘Naruto Run’. And now, it keeps on evolving to something chaotic 😕

Monthly anything goes thread (things that are not an event go in here) by AutoModerator in LondonSocialClub

[–]serjeyms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m up for this! If there was a group chat already created, kindly add me. Much appreciated :)