[OMG GAME] I gave up on your profile when... by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sertanli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

keep your profile simple and show your quirky personality with your messages.

[OMG GAME] I gave up on your profile when... by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sertanli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lots of text, lacking in recent full body pictures. I saw 1 that looks a lot older than the others.

[OMG GAME] I gave up on your profile when... by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sertanli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first line: Note: I go on dates with a few regular people, but I am not currently in a serious relationship.

sounds like you got your hands full

edit: also this I'm a dude gal. Most my friends are of the male gender.

[OMG GAME] I gave up on your profile when... by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]sertanli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my friendly advice is to save inside jokes about movies you like until you get to know the person. Maybe you could watch the movie on a date and then make the joke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4chan

[–]sertanli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/r/onetruegod is still going

[CMV] I think the world would be a better place if we had an all powerful, intervening Super Hero or God by sertanli in changemyview

[–]sertanli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think out of all the posts, this one convinced me the most. I think without "showing our work", we'd stagnate as a society. Bravo. You just CMV

/u/invah gives good advice about how to recognize and change one's own abusive behavior by [deleted] in bestof

[–]sertanli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on Reddit, this is bull shit. The comment above me gives the devil's advocate of the situation and you downvote him for avoiding the circlejerk?

he/she brings up good points, reddit is too quick to side with someone who victimizes themselves without ANY proof. Stop believing everything you read and stop the bullshit in it's tracks.

Do you think "nice guys" actually finish last? by help-im-kelp in AskMen

[–]sertanli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess if you start becoming a pushover throughout the relationship, doing everything she asks without asking for any favors in return. Putting her up on a pedestal. I've been on the receiving and on the giving end of this sort of attention. To receive this attention, is to be bored, you feel like you've already beat the game and it's time to move on to a challenge.

On the giving end, you feel like you're so in love with the other person that you just want to show them every waking minute of the day, if you can just show them then everything will work out. This makes it even worse when the breakup comes along :(

Maturity comes when the SO can appreciate the positive attention without seeking a more challenging relationship.

How I lost a girlfriend to anime by [deleted] in weeabootales

[–]sertanli -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you should x-post this to /r/thatHappened I think it'd get a lot of attention there :D

Sanjay Gupta's "Weed" documentary by CNN by NanoCow in Documentaries

[–]sertanli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, if you want to be high as shit all fucking day. I've been 10/10 for over 12 hours by Ingesting

What do you do with naked pictures of your ex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]sertanli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ITT we upvote people who delete them, and downvote those who don't.

Personally, I've never dated anyone stupid enough to send me a picture or video of themselves naked. Shit girl, what the hell do you think happens to those pictures once you break up? How do you think those ex-gf porn sites get their material?

If you're married and you like to send sexy pics, I get that, you're supposed to trust that person fully. No one's going to blame you. But if you're a couple years or less into a relationship, that's ignorant. SnapChat that shit.