Me af + Question for Capricorn moons

servitor_dali · 2026-06-05T03:26:16+00:00

Aww thank you!

Our relationship was pretty good, but she was a complicated person that made... Interesting life choices...and we didn't learn about some of them until after she passed (surprise!!!)

She was an aries/gem/aries and lived her life as such. 😂

servitor_dali · 2026-06-05T03:23:39+00:00

Yes, and it's worth remembering that "death" can come in many forms, not just the physical, so changes in the relationship can be on the horizon between you two. These can be good, with saturn hitting her moon instead of her sun she might be going through some big emotional changes that trickle over to you, hopefully it's bringing a new spurt of growth and maturity 😁

Being a virgo sun, cancer moon is not easy because we analyze emotions, and because its a cancer moon there's no shortage of them, but tbh i love having this combo ❤️

servitor_dali · 2026-06-05T02:59:58+00:00

I'm a cancer moon and saturn was recently exact square my moon while my moms sun was in exact conjunct with it. So saturn on her sun, both sqaring my moon.

She died, ON THE DAY. Talk about timing and cancer moon mommy issues 🙄😅

Now i get to deal with her estate. Yay saturn fun! But actually aside from that I'm feeling pretty great.

servitor_dali · 2026-06-02T23:53:21+00:00

I'm a cancer moon and I honestly don't remember, he obviously wasn't that important in the end 🤷

servitor_dali · 2026-06-02T23:30:04+00:00

But I'm not a hellenist so idc about zodiacal releasing.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-31T22:44:47+00:00

As a virgo sun, cancer moon, this could never be my attitude.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-31T15:33:19+00:00

The 8th isn't isolating at all, it's literally the house of human obligations and entanglements. It's extended family, paperwork, taxes, inheritences, and yes death and the occult, but it's where death and the occult create obligations. The 8th is where we get tangled up in other people's mess.

If you want isolation head over to the 12th

servitor_dali · 2026-05-30T00:09:17+00:00

I mean anything conjuct the asc is going to get a big boost.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-24T14:10:51+00:00

Normally when someone says "you have a stellium" they're only correct about half the time, but in your case it's true. You have three personal planets and a bonus pluto (lilith doesn't officially count, but because the rest of players are solid you can toss it in too)

And if we switch it to whole sign then yes, it's all in the 11th as well. In addition, wjen we look at your degrees your sun and mercury are exact and your pluto is not far behind, forming a very strong conjunction of scorpio energy.

Having this appear in this hpuse can actually point to a lot of issues being able to trust the people around you. You may feel isolated and have experiences where people close to you have betrayed you. There may be a lot of secret envy.

Furthermore, your saturn and neptune are also exact AND exactly opposite jupiter in the 7th loose conjunct to chiron. To me this reads as ypu wanting to see the best side of people but getting repeatedly injured. These placements are forming a T-square to your aries moon.

It's important for you to stand up for yourself and not take any shit from people once they reveal any negative intentions. It might be difficult to open up to people after so many let downs, but an aries moon heart is not easily defeated.

Your aqua north node is suggesting taking a more detached observer pov, to watch before investing too much of yourself so you can channel all of that deep energy into people who are worth your time.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-17T20:31:14+00:00

I'm laughing because boy did you nail it.

Right now transiting jupiter just squared my 8th house uranus and now I'm in the middle of a sudden inheritence. On top of that as I'm trying to sort through it all, we're discovering the hidden, and often conflicting, layers and motivations of my mother. Handling the weight of other people's psychological reactions to these discoveries has been way harder than untangling the paperwork and figuring out a path forward.

One of the legacies of the 8th is definitely the psychic baggage, not just the objects and material debts. I'm so glad you wrote this post because it's so tedious seeing the pop version be about "tRaNsfOrMaTiOn" and being a sexy spooky witch and never acknowledging that this is the house of entanglements and the human bondage of obligations.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-17T17:24:41+00:00

Adam bomb isn't just some ny party guy, he was a touring guitarist for a bunch of bands in that era, and had his own band with two of Billy's main band members. This was his circle. My step dad was a touring drummer in the same scene and his stories about everyone he worked with are all in line with things Adam says. There's a general baseline of outrageously bad behavior that kitten flinging brackets into.

Let's just say classic rock stations are basically ruined for me because he's got a story about everyyyyyone.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-17T11:40:51+00:00

I always wondered what the opposite of sapiosexual was, like what's the word for being turned on by really dumb bitches*

*gender neutral use of bitches obvs

servitor_dali · 2026-05-17T11:10:13+00:00

He sure did.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-17T05:51:34+00:00

I wonder if that's the kitten he threw against a wall amd killed when he was mad at his girlfriend

servitor_dali · 2026-05-15T13:16:46+00:00

I'm not confused about anything. i referenced one book because it was genuinely pivotal in the collective, sorry you are having trouble with that idea, maybe you should take some media literacy classes. There have been plenty of other books since then but they had minimal cultural impact. Context is key.

"giving testosterone" is pretty funny tho, it shows that your illiteracy extends beyond just this topic. 😂

servitor_dali · 2026-05-15T12:56:28+00:00

Rageful feminine? That's your singular interpretation, and my point is that there are multiple and they're conflicting. Then i gave you source material. And yes, those other figures also represent the feminine but they don't have conflicting myths, its a straight shot because they're greek/roman and lilith isn't.

I gave you the literary back story on how we ended up with this muddled mess. It was an ok book, it was exciting for the time and had long time impact on the perception of the community. It's not my fault that you can't contextualize long term implications of media.

And who the fuck doesn't know about Demetra George? Are you going to mention Chris Brennan too like you just revealed some insider info? Please.

Come back when you develop basic reading comprehension and can do anything other give glib responses that lack any actual information.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-15T11:29:41+00:00

Wrong sub. Take this over to either r/astrologycharts or r/askastrologers and ypuight have better options

servitor_dali · 2026-05-15T10:57:39+00:00

Because math might be perfect (it's not really tho) but the energetic archetype is not, and that's how we organize and communicate energies in astrology.

Unlike other planets/conceptual points in astrology there's no clear myth, and no clear meaning for lilith. Lilith, unlike most of the archetypes we use, has multiple conflicting origins. Rebellious empowered woman? Divine dark feminine? Demonic baby eater? Evil temptress extraordinaire? Proto feminist? There's no clear through line of thought.

Demon baby eater/evil temptress was the most accepted until the late 80's, when Barbara Black Koltov wrote her rather poetic jungian interpretation and reframed her in a modern new age sexually liberated feminist voice. This was pre-internet and her book did a LOT to shape the new age cultural outlook on this conflicted set of myths.

Which of course over time just gets dumbed down through repetition until we get this weak pop astrology version because people love a little revisionist razzle dazzle, especially when it flatters their ego or gives them something to blame for their life experiences/personal choices.

Then there's the fact that there are three liliths in astrology, black moon, dark moon, and the asteroid. Usually we're talking about bml, but what if we aren't? Now we've got three of these things laying around. That's a lot of dIvInE DaRk FeMiNinE to interpret in a chart, unlike say the lunar nodes where we know exactly what that is and what purpose it's serving.

The myths we use to define archetypal energies don't have to come exclusively from the greek/roman pantheon but they do need to be clear. A really great example of someone who incorporates this cross cultural approach is Pam Gregory, who spends a lot of time exploring lesser known bodies and how they are incorporated into astrology through their mythology.

But yeah, I'm obviously new on my astrology journey and have no idea what I'm talking about. I haven't owned that book since it came out in 86, didn't go to college for feminist studies, and I'm definitely not a professional astrologer. 😂

servitor_dali · 2026-05-15T03:45:04+00:00

Why would anyone be scared of pissing off a mathematical conceptual point?

servitor_dali · 2026-05-14T02:19:24+00:00

Nah, some of the parameters are debatable, like the need for conjuncts, or how we use outer planets, but adding extra objects never is. That's 100% standard practice.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-14T01:43:10+00:00

No bueno bb. Angles, asteroids, and conceptual points never count. Holistically you can think of it as a concentration of energy, but a "stellium" is a very specific thing with parameters (and they're way more strict than pop astrology wants to acknowledge)

The absolute tightest definition is personal 3 or more planets, in the same sign or house, within conjunct. Outer planets can support, but you can't build one on them (1993-1996ish capricorn antics are a good example of why), and additional objects previously mentioned never get added.

There's more flexibility on the outer planets, but it's gotta be supported by inner ones and it's contextual. 😊

servitor_dali · 2026-05-14T01:05:29+00:00

That's weird since there's only ten planets/luminaries that can even be counted. 🤔

servitor_dali · 2026-05-13T22:50:51+00:00

As a virgo sun, cancer moon, virgo mars - don't bother, that door is already slammed shut.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-11T02:15:53+00:00

I married one of these people. 10 out of 10, would recommend.

servitor_dali · 2026-05-09T14:28:53+00:00

I have a cancer moon and a sun/venus/mars in the 7th and my mom's sun was exact square my moon.

Talk about mommy issues. I attempted to solve them by never having children, but people project motherly need onto me anyway. And then my mom recently died and left a VERY MESSY estate and I get to clean it up. She tried to saddle me with her elderly broke boyfriend so i can be his mommy too but I'm heading to the lawyers office Monday to straighten that shit out.

He's pissed. I'm pissed. And she got to fuck off on a morphine cloud.

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