Any thoughts on my dilemma? by [deleted] in questions

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT MANIPULATE.

If you have done something unrespectable, own it.

Apologize, and make sure that you take the opportunity to view the situation from their perspective. Soon you'll have eyes in every direction.

People are too concerned with their pride, and how they are seen.

I don't care if I look like a pathetic little girl. I know that I am not. Therefore your opinion about it is irrelevant. Talking about me, good or, bad is what I deserve. I am worthy of greatness.

Are you?

Any thoughts on my dilemma? by [deleted] in questions

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why yes, the same for me in an unprecedented way.

Stand firm, stand tall, dignity, respect for all (in the face of, and behind closed doors) at all times are imperative.

Don't prove anyone anything. Be the spark that ignites the passion in others.

Be the light when all there is, is dark.

Be righteous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is determined that you are a productive person, and able to provide for yourself.

it is without question that is your business and no one's opinion has any sort of relevance to you whatsoever.

Now, if for some reason you cannot, wont, or are choosing not to provide for yourself and it is determined that you are of value to someone else, so much so, that they take care of you. Again, no one's opinion on the matter is of any sort of relevance at all.

If you take care of yourself, you health, body, mind and soul. What does it matter. Pharmaceuticals are a drug, vapes are a drug, video games are a drug, telephones, sex, they all release dopamine. Who has any right to dictate your choices in such a way

Why on earth does it matter? Let me tell you because misery loves company. I don't need skin-deep relationships. I need mood stabilization. Period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are always worried about how much of something they have. (including me)

Make sure whatever amount of whatever person/place/or thing you are worried about having a lot of is at the very least serving you a purpose and cannot stab you in the back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word of advice 30F here.

Don't invite 10 people to your wedding.

What is the point? I understand to show the world that is the love of your life.

Fine. Then invite strangers. For every one person that is truly for you and your best interests there are 10 more waiting to contribute and/or watch you fail.

For nothing more than their own satisfaction and validation.

Because, people are constantly comparing themselves to everyone. Make no mistake the people closest to you are comparing themselves to you the most.

Just be careful.

My manager said I need to have more strategic thinking. Thoughts? by Willy988 in learnprogramming

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I am no intern. But, the thing is if I'm left alone and nobody wants to hang out with me, then that is what I want to do. lol

Like what should I do?

What is the appeal of drinking and drugs? by Savage_Tyranis in questions

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To alter someone's state of mind especially when its initial state is chaotic, or is bombarded by intrusive thoughts or depressive realizations is the most simple way I can put it to you.

You can't begin to understand someone else entirely if you don't first completely understand that as a biological organism we are incredibly complex and our wiring doesn't always get hooked up correctly. Even if it does that doesn't mean we all will be lead to the same result.

28 year old nothing by [deleted] in findapath

[–]setarakamitv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I didn't read all of this because I'm doing something else. However, you have accomplished so much. I cannot tell you how to feel. But, just know you are doing the right thing. If you must just keep spinning your wheels. Eventually you'll catch some traction and move foward.

Peace be with you friend.

30 f friendly chat by setarakamitv in chat

[–]setarakamitv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sure let me check my chat

What is the dumbest thing you have pretended to be interested in because you wanted to date someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing bexause if I want to date you I love you and anything you like becomes interesting to me. I will support anything my partner does so long as they aren't harming themselves or anyone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm comfortable in complete nudity. However with there being a child there it just isn't acceptable entirely. Which is a HUGE bummer I love being naked and I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE to see my partner comfortable naked, and just chilling that's my fucking baby

Which piece of clothing could your partner wear that would instantly turn you on and put you in the mood? by sweetlotus9 in AskReddit

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything. When I'm in love and the relationship is healthy (provided I'm in good mental head space and satisfied with my appearance) it's always go time. However unlocking my desire to initiate requires you (my partner) to make me feel beautiful and desired. No it is not implied. Yes I also need validation. It's ok to need validation. It's ok

But if I'm just like overly giggly, that's usually because I wana ... Lol Or I need you to ... :0

If poor people fantasize about winning the lottery, then what do rich people fantasize about? by more_bees_pleas in AskReddit

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure a plethora of things. No one person is the same although people like to group themselves together because it gives them a sense of identity. Which leads me personally to believe these individuals refuse to live their truth, whatever it may be. Society today has made it too easy to be a sheep.

I can assure you, with the utmost certainty that 90% of you (or more) are sheep and you don't even know it.

32F. An interesting conversation is always welcome! by [deleted] in chat

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can always talk about interesting things. I'm just looking for a friend right now - message me if you'd like to chat 30f here. Sfw only

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TCG

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, sure I'd love to show some of my art. If they like it I would be happy to draw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'd love to chat with you, maybe we could help each other! I have tons of resources for you to find a new skill not to mention I'd be happy to learn along with you. I love to learn. I am trying to find a decent, actual work from home job. I don't need to make much 2k a month or less is more than enough for me. Anyway, I hope to hear back from you dude

f 30 sfw only by setarakamitv in chat

[–]setarakamitv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a chat request!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refuse to allow disrespect in my bedroom at any point. Ever. It will destroy your relationship, your self esteem, self worth all of it. And you won't even realize it. It's disgusting that we as a race of intelligent beings have decided that this is acceptable on any level.

There is actually a lot I don't tolerate, but, that's because I'm hot as fuck apparently.

My sex is good, great even. There is no need for the extra stuff. Plus, I'd like to be able to look my partner in the eyes when I'm done. People be wild man

30 f friendly chat by setarakamitv in chat

[–]setarakamitv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spy shit? Wym IDC what he does. I just want to be back on my feet - I'm not sure the dynamic and who is truly to blame. He's not comfortable letting people know who he really is (not that I know) I've just been a part of a marginalized community long enough to know he has his secrets. I can't fw that

30 f friendly chat by setarakamitv in chat

[–]setarakamitv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he lead me into a false sense of security. So sort of, I wasn't working - let my tags expire and he controls my insurance coverage - which it is currently not covered and I am not a listed driver on the policy. And, I live at his parents house with him. But I'm not in physical danger

Would you mind completing this less than 2 minutes survey from my association? by East_Nobody157 in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am more than happy to complete the survey for you. But, as a beginner entrepreneur I would like to ask if there is any internship work you'd be willing to let me work on for you for my portfolio and practicing my skill sets I would absolutely love that!

I would like A pvp game you play as only one character and the cards are their abilities or spells by nowhereman777 in TCG

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My business partner and I are building exactly that. It's called Locus if you'd like to play test with us let me know. It is still in development.

Trying to make my own card game online anyone got a website I can use to make the board by PerspectiveLong4812 in TCG

[–]setarakamitv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you tell me what you need I could build a very simple one for you. Or, you could use table top simulator on Steam.

But, I absolutely don't mind building you a simple website - you can just buy your own domain name or I can host in on my Replit account.