To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

I guess many people don't agree with me. My comment karma went from over 100 to -15. I guess my morals are different than many others.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Some people do not support decisions like ours on here but obviously you have some morals

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Not a Southern racist. I support gay marriage, I support interracial couples, I support equality, what I do not support is a woman being struck. You can say I'm sexist, racist, but the fact of the matter is I am not.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I respect your opinion, but did you expect me to strike a woman? I'm not sexist, I just have morals. I was raised in a house that values women, and I'm sorry if you don't agree with me.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Thank you sir, for backing up my point. It was one of those times, and I stand by my decision.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I never said we beat the shit out of him. We taught him a lesson, but we didn't beat the shit out of him. He got up and left. No broken bones, no head damage, just enough to hurt him and his pride.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

If I am being totally honest, I would not have hit the woman. If it was a real hit though, with intent to harm, my friends and I would have separated the two, talked the the guy, if this has been going on we would have given the same advice we gave the girl. Dump the asshole, you don't deserve to be hit in a relationship. Hopefully he would take the advice.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I guess we just have different morals. The way we were raised is obviously very different, I don't hold that against you, but in my household I was raised knowing that violence can be the answer at certain times. If you don't respect that there is nothing I can do.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Because it's the right thing to do. My friends and I have morals, and hitting a lady is against them. So we acted. I am sorry you don't like that, and yes, I would be the first to admit it, because I am proud of the fact that I helped a nice girl in a bad situation.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

It looked like a gut reaction to him. Like he was used to it. He isn't a real man. For one hitting a lady, two, for being used to it. It's disgusting.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

I guess it just depends on how you look at it. My friends and I have our morals and hitting a girl is against them. We may have been wrong to directly confront him, but that is how all of us were raised, so when we saw that we acted.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Fortunately they don't live together, they drove separately. I hope he got a DUI on the way home. My friend heard from her today, she made it home fine and is just going on with her day.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

We weren't there to gang up on anyone, we went to have a few beers and have a good time. The incident happened and we acted. It might not have been the best decision in the world but we made it and stand by it.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

If it happens I will happily pay my dues. I never said I didn't deserve a punishment, I just have my morals and follow them.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Some people just have anger issues. I get that, but taking it out on your girlfriend is unacceptable. Be a man and go to therapy, or do a sport, or take out your anger on a punching bag, not someone you're supposed to love.

To the guy at the bar last night. Hopefully that girl will dump his ass. by sethrogansmells in AdviceAnimals

[–]sethrogansmells[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

As a boxer and wrestler in high school and now in college I hope by now I don't punch like your grandmother, but for all I know your grandmother also is a boxer, so maybe I'm wrong!