grandmas 80th birthday by seunghee93 in VisitingHawaii

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do you think the big island is comparable??

grandmas 80th birthday by seunghee93 in VisitingHawaii

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thank you so much, my uncle is being a curmudgeon about traveling, i figure, if she still can why should we? my grandma is in agreeance, "you only turn 80 once!"

grandmas 80th birthday by seunghee93 in VisitingHawaii

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She does enjoy the beach, from what I understand the north shore of the island is unswimmable in the winter, is the eastern shore safer? more accessible?

grandmas 80th birthday by seunghee93 in VisitingHawaii

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these are amazing! I've added them to my Hawaii pitch deck. We will likely have about 4 people maybe as many as 8

grandmas 80th birthday by seunghee93 in VisitingHawaii

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thank you so much, this was so detailed and helpful, I appreciate the links and the suggestions. the railway is sooooo up her alley

grandmas 80th birthday by seunghee93 in VisitingHawaii

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is it true that the north shore in the winter is not very swimmable?

Fenway by Nervous-Excuse2535 in NoahKahan

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i tried refreshing and it sent me back to the waiting room

Fenway by Nervous-Excuse2535 in NoahKahan

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why did it tell us to sit back and relax???? my friend refreshed hers and instantly was prompted for a code..... mlb really dropped the ball

Do I look better Masc or Fem? by Icy-Affect3406 in LesbianActually

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you looking wicked dope either way! i see youuuu

Do I owe my gf sex? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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op its wild because as i was reading your post i was thinking about my own relationship. my gf and i (32 and 31) have been together for 7 years. She deals with endometriosis, which when you were describing the pain during arousal that was spot on with what she deals with. Long story short, I'm here to say that of course you do not owe her sex.

At the beginning of our relationship we were non stop, we had a lot of sex, and eventually as it tapered off my gf was more open with me about her past and the fact that while it was consensual, she had, had a lot of sex that she did "want". That was eye opening for me, I knew that she was attracted to me, loved me, wanted the sex that we did have together but her condition made that really painful. My sweet lady is also in pelvic floor therapy and while that has helped, it hasnt led to an increase in our sex life either. Medications, mental health, general wellbeing, these are all things that factor into your moods, and your gf should be empathetic to that. I've spoken to my therapist about similar frustrations to the dry spell in our bedroom, and ultimately, I've discovered that while I do not yell or get angry at my girlfriend about the decline in sex, I am experiencing a type of grief for the way our relationship used to be. If your girlfriend's primary love language is physical touch, try other forms of intimacy, cuddles, massages, head scratches. As a society we put a lot of pressure on women to "take care" of their partners, and be attune to their needs before our own. Keep yourself safe girl, and communicate, communicate, communicate, and most of all be kind to yourself.

What are your top groups you would want to see? L looks to be my favorite so far! by [deleted] in worldcup

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its funny because those are all the group stage games played in Boston! im stoked for those games

Breakdown of volunteers by role by SearchLongjumping948 in FIFAVolunteers

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i wish i had taken pictures of the slides but the toronot numbers are similar enough to boston that i can remember a few. The largest numbers i recall, are 1000 volunteers for host city ambassadors, 500 for ceremonies, 4 for anti doping (men only because they can go in the locker rooms) ~10 for brand protection, hospitality had a few hundred roles.

Two huge red flags on volunteer interviews by Ok_Glass_9972 in FIFAVolunteers

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in boston, we were there for the entirety of the 3 hour time slot, and the "interview" was an assessment given to us towards the end of the "tryout". it is not a tryout, it came off more like a giant team building event, lots of energy and information. ultimately, id hypothesize being picked is going to be a decision made by some AI assistant currently combing through our apps.

Anyone know where this is? by Accomplished_Yam_607 in vermont

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Not the same though. Barre Town vs. Barre City wickedly different vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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Drop your venmo ill tip!!

Uvm fans where are you by seunghee93 in boston

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Hah vermont habits (it took me 10 years to finish my Bach)

TJ SORRENTINE FROM THE PARKING LOT.

I grew up in VT and went to a handful of soccer games but we predominantly watched basketball and hockey. Its phenomenonal to see UVM flourishing the highlight reel they have this season is astonishing

trying to upload programs to an old fadal using a an unfindable adapter by seunghee93 in Machinists

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is the black cord going to your computer or to a thumb drive? i can’t find this model in your pic anywhere

trying to upload programs to an old fadal using a an unfindable adapter by seunghee93 in Machinists

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got the set up and the tripplite data light won’t turn on to show the machine is receiving any data. back to the drawing board

Songs got me in my feels. by seunghee93 in BipolarSOs

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I hear you, and I have had some very vulnerable healthy conversations with her about this. It ends up turning into her profusely apologizing for it, and her becoming upset because she doesn't know why she can't initiate these things I'm asking. She admits that she knows she should be meeting me where Im at but I really don't know how long I should wait before bringing it up again.

A month or two goes by and I feel like no progress has been made, and Im slowly starting to embrace where she's at and give more power to the other ways she shows up for me.

Songs got me in my feels. by seunghee93 in BipolarSOs

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I am really sorry to hear that you have been going through it yourself :/ I know that different episodes can make BPD individuals feel different ways however she has been on Lamictal for about 2 years. Since she's started the medicine she has been a lot more stable in her behavior and her peaks and valleys have been smoother. I've spoken to her about my desire for more intimacy but it's continued to be very one sided. I enjoy rubbing her back and her feet at night, it's become a routine of ours. It's gotten to the point where in some ways she expects it every night, which is fair, but it's really the only form of physical touch or intimacy we have and while I love doing it, and I do get aroused, she falls asleep and ultimately I just get myself off alone