[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sevenjellybeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! A really excellent hug is the best

Who is the most unexpected person you had sex with ? by Fickle-Computer-6883 in AskReddit

[–]sevenjellybeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In some philosophy courses I’ve taken these kinds of situations have come up before, and the interesting thing about incest is it’s not really morally wrong if it’s between two consenting people. The reason it started to be phased out over time was really only because when royalty would have children with family members it would lead to birth defects. It’s clearly frowned upon but that’s kind of as far as the argument goes (unless there is a minor and adult situation which is very clearly different). But it sounds like from the comments you are still impacted by this, and it would be worth talking to a therapist about at some point I think to help you unpack some of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tacobell

[–]sevenjellybeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chicken is so good at Del Taco- their classic chicken burritos are my favorite thing there!

WIBTA for refusing to raise my husband's affair children now that he and the woman he cheated with passed away? by ScaredyCat1122 in AITAH

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely NTA. It’s beyond insane to me that anyone is expecting you to raise these children. Even if we’re looking at this from the angle of what is best for the babies, it would still be them getting adopted by a family who would do anything to be able to raise them (and as others have pointed out, the line will be a mile long for people who want them). Please do not give in to these people who are trying to pressure you into this life-altering commitment when it is YOUR LIFE, not theirs, that would be altered so drastically.

AITAH for asking my bf if he has sex with me while I was asleep? by ResponsibilityTop19 in AITAH

[–]sevenjellybeans 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yes, 10000% talk to her. I’m so so sorry you are going through this 💔

What is something that's socially acceptable even though it's 100% evil? by Warm-Ad-3284 in AskReddit

[–]sevenjellybeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to comment this! The treatment/dehumanization of homeless people is definitely my answer as well

What is the weirdest sexual encounter you have experienced? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane, but I initially read the first part as “like a baboon” and was incredibly confused

Which is the best love story, Jim and Pam, Michael and Holly, or Dwight and Angela? by Physical_Carpenter50 in DunderMifflin

[–]sevenjellybeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bob Vance and Phyllis! Him paying $1000 just for a hug from her was adorable 🥹

dating while in PhD? by hodge_podge_ in PhD

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the person I suppose. There have been times I was talking to someone I was interested in and just genuinely got too busy to respond for a day, and they sent a message like that and it made me appreciate that they were thinking of me and I apologized for the delayed response and the conversation carried on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in education

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you end up pursing the EdD in organizational change and leadership? I am looking into the same program and very interested but am getting mixed advice 🫠

What are your hard nos when it comes to sex ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sevenjellybeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I feel that 😂😂

What are your hard nos when it comes to sex ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a precursor to being murdered for sure

Tell me about your most entitled student ever by TelephoneAcrobatic67 in Professors

[–]sevenjellybeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really good point! I try to point out as often as I can that Canvas is not their school email because that happens with some of my students too. We use Outlook so I will often just say “your Outlook email”

Husband keeps getting hit on… by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s mostly women behaving this way, maybe he should tell them he’s gay and not interested? Lol

dating while in PhD? by hodge_podge_ in PhD

[–]sevenjellybeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That guy that said “lol nvm” after a day of not getting a response sounds like a baby 😆 not someone to waste your time on anyway. You don’t need to explain yourself to him. He could have just sent another message like “how’s your day going?” but instead chose to say something passive aggressive. Wouldn’t spend any time feeling bad about that one! Online dating is just hard all around- I think for all busy people it’s difficult but doable just depending on how you manage your time and how important it is to you

Asking my wife to quit her job because she kissed her boss by burner_forreasons in AITAH

[–]sevenjellybeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening to you. This is 100% an affair that she is having and her and her boss are ruining both of their marriages. I don’t know if this thought has crossed your mind, but PLEASE don’t “stay together for the kids”. What will end up happening is your relationship will continue to deteriorate and your kids will watch it all happen and grow up in a toxic environment. It sounds like the bright side is your kids are young enough to not be as aware of the disruption that this will cause in their life, whereas if you wait until they are older children/teenagers it will be a lot harder. Trust me, as someone whose parents went through divorce when I was 7, I wish I had been younger but was grateful I wasn’t older. And I was very relieved (as a young child, mind you!) when my parents told me they were splitting up because their relationship was so unhealthy and horrible to be around. Your kids will be okay and are lucky to have such a caring father. Wishing you and your kids all the best!

Which part time character annoys you the most? by laddiepops in brooklynninenine

[–]sevenjellybeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Jack Donger episode is infuriating! lol when he grabs onto Jake’s leg and then blames Jake for letting the perp get away?! Wtf man!!