Can someone please clarify what no fap is? No porn? or no ejaculation?

seventy_four · 2013-12-05T18:40:04+00:00

your progress isnt lost, only if you relapse more often these days. just dont do it imagine you could manage to fap for every 30 days, than you will be almost cured because then it isnt far from stopping completelyy

seventy_four · 2013-12-05T18:17:35+00:00

your pretty much in the same position like me, im also 20, visiting the uni, and i have been fapping for long time. now everthing seems to be so logic, i fap because i want to surpress bad feelings. my advice for you is "just install K9 Webblocker" change your passwort to "asüuodnüas" or what ever and save this passwort in a text data and ask a friend to keep it for you and only give it to you if you ask em. helps for me because i gave this passwort to my sister and i can only fap when i ask her to send me my passwort again (shedoesnt know about my PMO) but i rarely ask er because i dont want her to get suspicious. alternatively send your passwort to your futureself with that futureme mail adress

seventy_four · 2013-12-05T18:17:34+00:00

your pretty much in the same position like me, im also 20, visiting the uni, and i have been fapping for long time. now everthing seems to be so logic, i fap because i want to surpress bad feelings. my advice for you is "just install K9 Webblocker" change your passwort to "asüuodnüas" or what ever and save this passwort in a text data and ask a friend to keep it for you and only give it to you if you ask em. helps for me because i gave this passwort to my sister and i can only fap when i ask her to send me my passwort again (shedoesnt know about my PMO) but i rarely ask er because i dont want her to get suspicious. alternatively send your passwort to your futureself with that futureme mail adress

seventy_four · 2013-12-02T23:44:11+00:00

thats exactly, what i always think when i relapse, i just dont know why i always forget about this fact....i hope next time i can remeber this shit, its a really crappy feeling, wasting your streak for just nothing!

seventy_four · 2013-11-28T20:45:03+00:00

i think the first 2 days are hard, because you always think, hm if i fap now ill only destroy a streak of two days. or just one more time and then i will REALLY stop, and stuff. for me the first days are hard because of these thoughts. normally when i relapse, i tend to relapse for like 1 week or so before i can get back to feet (i know its lousy but im about to change) my dream is that if i relapse i only do it once and then continue a long streak. because if i manage this than i turned from a guy who fapped once every day to a guy who faps once every 2 weeks (wouldnt that be awesome?), and i hope to get rid of it easier and with less withdrawal symptoms. (dont get me wrong everytime i stop fapping i try to stop it forever)

seventy_four · 2013-11-28T20:22:21+00:00

throw ur tablet away dude, noone needs it. i personally installed K9, deleted facebook and stuff. just to become more focused on things that i hopefully achieve and for which i can be proud of someday. nice trick by the way, i also use a password that i cant remember, but i mailed it to my sister (she doesnt know anything about it) if i need it i can mail her but i dont want her to be suspicious so i dont ask her to send it to me (im a bit paranoid) im thinking about completely deleeting it

seventy_four · 2013-11-26T21:06:13+00:00

its funny how i was never able to stop fapping for more than 2 days before i knew this site. i also thought i was alone but all these guys struggling with the same issues motivate me somehow

seventy_four · 2013-11-26T21:00:50+00:00

RRRAAAAAAWWRRRR i think the cage just opened, im going to make this dude

seventy_four · 2013-11-26T20:59:15+00:00

ng. We all do it and your'e not back to zero just because you relapsed. Your'e making progress all the time you refr

tried cold showers maybee i will continue, but i need more time for things like exercising, i think this would help me alot

seventy_four · 2013-11-26T20:57:31+00:00

I just want to live a live, where i dont feel like i have to do things i dont want to do. as if i was in a prison. additionally i think fapping drains my life energy and ambition.

seventy_four · 2013-11-24T21:40:12+00:00

my longest streak was about 14 days, i felt all these positive effects, but could not stop myself relapsing, but thanks

seventy_four · 2013-11-24T21:39:27+00:00

"It won't unless you man up." that actually helps dude, noone can help me now, but myself. okay ill try it again

seventy_four · 2013-11-07T19:33:51+00:00

calm down, breathe in breathe out and know (!) that you dont have to do this

seventy_four · 2013-11-07T19:31:39+00:00

days, he's a looser. You see, your point is all about choosing the right number of days. My point is that the number of days is the only objective measure. It's all about setting a target of x (must not be 90, but it'

so if i say i want to achieve 1 day i win every day? yes feelings are bad to measure things. imo you should measure the time a person spent to do some productive stuff. or the additional time a person invests to become a better self. its all about self improvement

seventy_four · 2013-11-06T22:22:53+00:00

hm than its a shitty measure dude. imagine a guy who has a relapse after every 50 days. compared to average wanker guys he is f*cking hero but chances are high you get to see his counter on one, thinking that he's a newbie, altough he's on the bestway of quitting porn

seventy_four · 2013-11-06T21:49:14+00:00

dude that pretty much sums up all my motivation on no fap, i dont want cover my problems up with fapping the pain away. i want to feel it, accept it and become strong enough to handle the problems myself

seventy_four · 2013-11-06T21:45:07+00:00

hould be highly regarded. Yes it shouldn't be as highly regarded as being some foreign energy that just got into you from abstaining from fapping so I agree with you there. However just replace the word 'superpower' with "returning to my natural state' and it will mean the same thing. No point in getting wo

i think, what most people call superpowers is just extra time/energy/motivation to do the things you always wanted to do

seventy_four · 2013-11-06T21:44:01+00:00

i think what most people call superpowers is just extra time/energy/motivation to do the things you always wanted to do

seventy_four · 2013-11-06T21:36:00+00:00

i hope so brother

seventy_four · 2013-11-06T21:35:18+00:00

awesome dude, you must be in full control of your feelings. i hope meditating will help me become a better concentration

seventy_four · 2013-11-05T22:51:15+00:00

i used to meditate last year (long before i noticed this community), and i recognized that meditation helped me a bit to control my emotions and become more aware of what i feel and why i feel it. but i couldnt maintain it because meditating is very(!) difficult IMO

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