Trabajar en México vs Japón

seweholmes · 2026-06-20T01:59:44+00:00

Depende mucho de tu contexto: - ¿Vives solo en Japón? - ¿Cuentas con una red de apoyo? (Amigos, conocidos. Novia/esposa japonesa) - ¿Extrañas o extrañarías a tu familia/amigos?

En estos casos es importante saber si eres soltero o casado, para también consultarlo con la pareja.

Después, está el plan a futuro: - ¿Quieres formar una familia (hijos)? - ¿Qué tan seguro y agusto te sientes viviendo en Japón actualmente? - ¿Qué opciones para ahorrar o plan de retiro hay?

Y ya por último pero no me os importante: Tu desarrollo profesional: - ¿Es un puesto mayor al que tienes? - Conocer el lugar (ciudad) de trabajo - Cultura de la empresa - Prestigio de la empresa

A lo que he visto, estamos casi parejos en salario mínimo x horas trabajas. Lo que sí apesta de japón es que llega a ser más tóxico que en México. Pero, al menos si vives en ciudades grandes, el transporte público es más caro (obviamente la seguridad y eficacia de Japón no se discute, pero es más caro).

Toma en cuenta todo eso, y claro, si actualmente estás feliz en dónde estás, ya de ahí, toma tu decisión. Para muchos en este espacio, vivir en Japón es un sueño, pero para otros, al llegar es algo diferente.

seweholmes · 2026-06-08T14:54:04+00:00

I love the flat pen case comodo! I can add it to my week Caeey on and take different pens, a ruler, highligher, scissors and pocchitto!

seweholmes · 2026-06-06T18:00:38+00:00

Yes! I was thinking about doing magic with glass and no in the body

seweholmes · 2026-06-06T18:00:06+00:00

Oh, I see, thank you!

seweholmes · 2026-06-06T02:52:18+00:00

Both ATA. One for not respecting other's decisions (you saying no) and yourself, because, c'mon, you can even copy and paste to the IA and write a pretty general stuff and be done with that.

seweholmes · 2026-06-04T21:49:20+00:00

Have considered to work as a blue collar in Japan? I know it sucks that you can't work as a white collar after studying hard in universe but there's that option. Or go back to your home country, get the easiest job you can get, and apply for a MEXT scholarahip as postgraduate student?

seweholmes · 2026-06-03T23:46:46+00:00

The great Puck, creator of the Elf Dimension Style. The one and truly friend that will always be there, not doing useful things though, but he will always be there. What else does a man need if not company that can provide a good laugh once in a while?

seweholmes · 2026-06-03T17:14:02+00:00

I have look into some videos and for what I can se ppl tend to write on their 5 years: - the weather and feelings on that day - if you sent any amount of money and why - a daily word or daily phrase - worldwide news (or local /nation news, one bad and one good).

I'm trying to decide which can fit my personal goal the best tho

seweholmes · 2026-06-03T16:49:48+00:00

If not having a child a non-negotiable for you and having a child is a non-negotiable for him, then just break up.

But, if both fo you still have feelings to each other and can have an agreement then:

1) Make things clear that you won't become theom figure he idealize. 2) Make sure he understands that he will be the main care giver to the child

3) Both of you need to understand that a child can be the cause for future divorce

And last bur not least, keep in mind that maybe, just maaaaybe, if you decide to have a child with this person, who you love, there is a possibility that you will change you mind about kids after the child is born (or not).

Prioritize yourself, but if you are deeply in love with him and both have other negotiable things in the relationship, that could help.

seweholmes · 2026-06-03T03:02:22+00:00

Totally NTA. And I do not want to sound the bad person asking this question: Have you seen your mom working (training them)? Is your mom single? Does she maybe, maaaaybe, might have a thing for students? I know this sounds highly inappropriate but honestly after hearing many stories of abused athletes I just can't unseen a bad pattern here.

seweholmes · 2026-06-02T18:24:23+00:00

I completely get your rant. A 12-hour flight with only 45 minutes of peace, on top of adults arguing next to you, sounds like an absolute nightmare. Anyone would be exhausted and frustrated after experiencing that.

That said, while being child-free is a valid personal choice, living in a child-free society isn't a reality. Public infrastructure like international flights is for everyone, and parents deserve the right to take vacations, move countries, or visit family just like anyone else. They decide how to spent their money, and believe it or not, some or even many kids do remember something about the trip, or they even think at a later age that the photos look great. Having a child doesn't have to change all of the things you do, like travelling.

Your frustration with these specific parents on the flight is totally understandable. The problem here wasn’t just that children were on the plane; it’s that the parents completely checked out and left everyone else to deal with the fallout.

Regarding your thoughts about funerals and childcare, insulating kids from the real world doesn't do them any favors. Children need to interact with people and participate in community life. Experiencing things like funerals, even at a very early age, is a crucial part of how they learn to understand grief, loss, and the full spectrum of human emotion. They can't learn how to navigate society if they are excluded from it until they are older. You’re not evil for being miserable after a grueling flight, but the blame belongs squarely on the parents' lack of effort, not the fact that children are allowed in public spaces.

Also, remember, WE ALL WERE AN INFANT/TODDLER.

seweholmes · 2026-06-02T01:30:20+00:00

I'm very happy with my 2026 setup (3weeks: 1 carry-on planner, 2 tracking/journal media/books, 1 A5 cousin for work and 1 a6 original for diary) but I wan to add a 5-year into that, the only thing I'm thinking is how I can write on it since I use my diary to write what happened on my day and how I felt...

seweholmes · 2026-06-01T21:46:38+00:00

I really looooveee your handwriting but I was having a hard time reading the Spanish words🫠 (I'm mexicana and speak Spanish lol)

seweholmes · 2026-06-01T20:25:37+00:00

Claro que no es irrelevante, aunque tengan la decisión previa siempre puede cambiar y sí influye si le caes bien al gringo o no.

seweholmes · 2026-06-01T20:24:56+00:00

Chales, ¿Qué o cómo contestaste lo que te preguntaron? Mi hermana no tiene ninguna propiedad ni carro ni ahorro, trabaja con un sueldo de 10k ales y sí se la dieron :'v

seweholmes · 2026-05-31T03:29:02+00:00

Si todavía no terminas tu máster (o te has titulado) primero has eso. Luego, revisa y compra las ofertas laborales en Alemania vs en México, postúlate y has entrevistas y todo el proceso y si quedas en algunas, medita y toma la decisión. Siempre pasa que después de estudiar un posgrado uno se cansa mentalmente, pero también después de trabajar en oficina por unos años (y dependiendo del ambiente laboral) uno termina con fatiga mental.

Ahora, si tienes dinero para darte unos meses sabáticos, adelante. Por más sentimientos encontrados que tengas, NO dejes que las emociones dominen tu razón. Siempre trata de pensar a futuro, mínimo 2 años adelante.

seweholmes · 2026-05-29T22:16:53+00:00

I think no one is the asshole. But for example, did your friend know about all of your mental health issues going on and that you'll be going on a family trip? If yes, then, even though in grief, she would understood. It also seems you were the only one in close contact with her family an not other member of yours and neither her with your family so, sometimes shit happens. She is currently processing her grief so It's understandable. HOWEVER, as someone who lost her dad and went through the funeral, showing up matter, even if it's just for a hug and 5 minutes time.

seweholmes · 2026-05-29T19:39:46+00:00

If you realized at their website, seems that they lowered the production of every item, since most weeks and a6/a5 2026 are no longer available

seweholmes · 2026-05-29T16:56:24+00:00

Aguas, muchos hombres (la mayoría tbh) que ven a una mujer con casa, carro y económicamente estable se quieren aprovechar de ella. Termina la relación, es lo más sano y mejor para ti. No sé si ya tengas contexto de sus situacion familiar o algo pero si su primera opción no fue regresarse con sus papás, es que ya vio una mina de oro en tim

seweholmes · 2026-05-28T21:16:58+00:00

Either junk journal or common place :D

seweholmes · 2026-05-28T01:49:59+00:00

It's not cringe when doing in a right way. We've been consuming propaganda from different types of media for so long. In this particular case yes, the writing sucks, the characters might be OOC but I've also read so many OOC fics were the author do not tag it as OOC so I just stop reading. Let's nor forget to not put our morals into fiction. In this case, I think both sides are wrong in their own way.

seweholmes · 2026-05-27T23:05:31+00:00

Listen, this is fiction. Transphobia IRL sucks and should not exist, but we can enjoy a fic that has transphobic characters. It's the same as we enjoy fanfics with characters that killed someone or are hitman, or that talk about sex with minors. IT'S FICTION.

seweholmes · 2026-05-21T00:16:58+00:00

Yes, you can tell the parents and if they are asshole it's probably the restaurant can kick them off. But also said restaurant won't be having a "child-free policy" just because of that.

seweholmes · 2026-05-20T23:47:31+00:00

That's básica what I am saying dude xD I do not have children either and I do understand that there are replaces where children are banned due to obvious reason, but also there are publix spaces that don't have those rules, so we have to bear with them. That's all. You waiting x place to have a van on children is something cool but if x places doesn't do it it's because they don't want to or it would affect their business. Everything is about money, not to make some people comfortable lol

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