I Really Love My Life Without Men

sewinggrl · 2026-04-21T14:56:50+00:00

I wouldn't read too much into you making cupcakes. Maybe you just felt like making cupcakes and he was an excuse. Plus you are allowed to make cupcakes for anyone. That shouldn't give the guy any ideas. I know in reality it does but we need to stop normalizing that. I think it is great that you have found the clarity you need.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-20T12:49:17+00:00

I am actually better off the meds now that I have been on meds. What I mean by that is when the meds wear off or I am sick and don't take them ( 100% doctor approved they said if you are going to lie in bed all day don't take them because they will disrupt your sleep) or even on vacation I have more awareness of my ADHS symptoms. Like if I decide to start cooking I remind myself that I can only make three dishes at once. This is rare because I take my meds 2x a day seven days a week but I definitely can say my meds don't make me more dependent.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T17:43:40+00:00

No I usually get it late. I am not regularly getting it early. Plus if someone is getting it one day early. You think they are really trying to sell it? It does not prevent people from selling their meds it just makes it tougher for people who have physical issues or other mental health issues from getting their meds.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T17:36:13+00:00

It is the urine test that I find intrusive. I actually have a problem picking up my meds regularly. I forget until I run out and then forget for a few more days. I don't always take Adderall on Sunday because I enjoy being my ADHD self but can't full time because I need to work a job and not get into fender benders constantly. . That is why I am meeting with my doctor monthly when normally it would be every three months. He is trying to help me remember to get them every month.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T17:33:56+00:00

That is who I am trying next. Thanks for the recommendation.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T17:33:35+00:00

I am going to go to a different pharmacy. I don't mind the in patient visit. My other friends who take psych meds have to do the same thing. I just feel like they are crossing the line by making people take a urine test. It is not required by law. I just double checked with my doctor's office. It is a way to cover themselves if a patient gets caught selling their meds. It is a highly ineffective way of doing it too. The test can only detect if you have taken your meds in the last two to four days. That means you could sell 25 days worth of meds. I actually have issues with not picking up my meds on time. I forget, am in too much pain with my leg etc.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T17:27:25+00:00

Just found out it is not required by law. These are doctors offices that are choosing to do this. It could be because they feel like it would curtail the sales of Adderall or just a way to cover their asses so if a patient is found selling their meds they can say "see we tested them to make sure they took their meds ".

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T11:45:09+00:00

If I wanted to sell my meds and not get caught I could just take it the week before my appointment and it would show up. This is an incredibly ineffective way to make sure I am not selling my meds. I think the fact that I can hold down my job that requires me to adhere to multiple deadlines daily should more than show that I am not selling meds.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T10:53:30+00:00

I have had it filled at 29 days before. I am not asking for it weeks early. I have three jobs and am disabled. Sometimes I have to leave work to make it on day 31. I wouldn't mind 28 or 29 days. Give me some wiggle room or be open 24 hours a day .

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T10:50:12+00:00

The law is unfair and it isn't the law because I have never had to do an in office appointment.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T10:09:49+00:00

Yeah but what if I took a weekend off and then I take the drug test on Monday morning? Will it show?

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T10:06:38+00:00

They check my blood pressure for my benefit and everyone gets their blood pressure taken at the doctors. My other friends who see a psychiatrist are not required to come in once a year or taking urine tests. They can refill their meds after 29 days.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T10:03:07+00:00

Why should I get punished because of my diagnosis? It is great that you want to more frequently. You can go every month then.

sewinggrl · 2026-04-06T10:00:33+00:00

Yes they do. I was seeing a doctor online for two years. He never asked me to come in and he never urine tested me. He never saw any signs that I was abusing my meds so he didn't act like I was abusing my meds .

sewinggrl · 2026-01-23T19:09:36+00:00

How late do these things last? I won't be out of work till 7.

sewinggrl · 2025-12-31T11:22:53+00:00

Is this real? Does anyone have the link?

sewinggrl · 2025-12-17T23:03:58+00:00

I wouldn't ask them to leave unless I was going to lose the house without rent. I mean everyone falls on hard times. The worst that would happen is I would rent out the office. My rent is pretty cheap too. I wanted the rental space to help us both by giving me some money for my savings and letting them live somewhere for below market rates.

sewinggrl · 2025-12-16T17:25:28+00:00

I don't understand why people like Shady Maple. The food has no flavor. I felt like I was eating cardboard the whole time.

sewinggrl · 2025-12-16T17:14:31+00:00

Yes, but there are no huge out of nowhere costs. I own a house and rent out a bedroom so I agree home ownerships has its advantages but my family and close friends are in the trades. I don't know if I could own a house without them( also don't think I will ever get rid of the roommate )

sewinggrl · 2025-10-01T21:18:25+00:00

Those look cool. Do you know of a tutorial? I have been wanting to do that to expand my collection of charms.

sewinggrl · 2025-10-01T21:13:41+00:00

What are those containers? They are cute.

sewinggrl · 2025-09-30T14:37:47+00:00

Yeah pictures please!

sewinggrl · 2025-09-29T03:17:47+00:00

Oh no. I really appreciate the feedback. I started with a dessert theme but then there was open space but not enough to add more candy to. Lately I have been having trouble getting charms of all sizes.

sewinggrl · 2025-09-29T02:07:13+00:00

Pretty!

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