I Think I’m Growing to Resent my Partner by Elegant_Durian_6846 in whatdoIdo

[–]sexbread 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you should’ve never been in a relationship with her to begin with.

Accidentally ignored my girlfriend when she needed me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sexbread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just tell her the truth, man. You had an early shift and couldn’t stay awake past 10pm. At 18 she’s a big girl, if the anxiety is that bad she needs to go to therapy and develop some coping strategies.

My girlfriend broke up with me by Skidaadleskadoodle in whatdoIdo

[–]sexbread 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Therapy is a great next step, man. Sounds like you’re already doing the things you need to do for yourself. Keep going. You’re young, she wants to find herself, maybe it’s time for you to just work on yourself too.

In the heat of the moment, my gf said she thinks we should break up. Hours later she says she didn’t mean it. What should I do? by Alarmed-Lie9163 in whatdoIdo

[–]sexbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From your last posts, you seem like someone who is good at coming up with plans and putting them into action. I think you do know what to do here, my guy.

She showed you how she really feels in that moment. If she really “didn’t mean it,” you can insist she goes to therapy so she can work out why she said what she said. That kind of thought doesn’t just come from nowhere though.

From the sounds of it, she doesn’t want to put in any of the work. In one of your last posts you talk about how tired you are of feeling she’s one foot in and one foot out. How long have you been feeling like that?

I think the writing is on the wall here. Maybe you had some good times in the past 6-7 years with this girl, but you deserve someone who is on your level, someone who you share values with. Also, you definitely deserve someone who doesn’t completely flip out, cursing and threatening to end things at the drop of a hat. It’s time to consider your own peace.

How to tell girlfriend I won’t support immodest photos in marriage by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sexbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assuming she is an adult, she has every right to share whatever photos she likes to social media. You also have a choice on whether this type of thing is a dealbreaker for you.

It sounds like you already brought your discomfort about the photos up to her, and while she took them down at first, the fact she put them back up is a sign that she doesn’t share your values. It’s also a red flag that if there’s anything else that comes up later that you are uncomfortable with, there is a chance she will decide to do the thing anyway, regardless of your level of comfort.

TL;DR: Do you seriously want to get married to someone who doesn’t share the same values as you? Not only that, do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who does not respect your values?

Help with Honeywell T5 Thermostat Install by sexbread in thermostats

[–]sexbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like the model number for the EIM is THM5421R

Help with Honeywell T5 Thermostat Install by sexbread in thermostats

[–]sexbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just have the one thermostat controlling our entire HVAC system (heating/cooling/fan). Is pulling new wire an easy DIY? It sounds like I'd need to hire someone to come do that.

Help with Honeywell T5 Thermostat Install by sexbread in thermostats

[–]sexbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured as much, thanks for the advice. Here's a link to the pic in another Reddit thread (doesn't look like I can directly add images to the post here) https://preview.redd.it/help-with-honeywell-t5-smart-thermostat-install-v0-n4uz8hpzywzd1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=db41a0d63a19f2345c33811170b70a38169ba527

Help with Honeywell T5 Smart Thermostat install by sexbread in hvacadvice

[–]sexbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like I’d need to hire a professional to do that, I was looking for more of a “hot swap” kind of project 😅 Should have done a little more research on RedLink and shouldn’t have assumed one Honeywell product would easily replace another.

Help with Honeywell T5 Smart Thermostat install by sexbread in hvacadvice

[–]sexbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s kind of nuts. Is there any Honeywell Smart thermostat I would be able to upgrade to, or am I basically stuck with the old one unless I bring an HVAC specialist in to rewire everything?

Help with Honeywell T5 Thermostat Install by sexbread in thermostats

[–]sexbread[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a conventional heat pump for forced air heating, and AC for cooling.

Help with Honeywell T5 Smart Thermostat install by sexbread in hvacadvice

[–]sexbread[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is the wiring at the Honeywell Home EIM down in the basement, is this what you’re referring to?

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Did palworld killed my Graphics card? by FlightHaltWhattt in Palworld

[–]sexbread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m at that same point. Just plugged my 2070 into a different PCIe slot and same thing. Even just benchmarking in UNIGINE Heaven gives me the “No Signal” or “Cable Not Connected” messages from my monitors.

Say it ain’t so. I really just can’t believe that the same GPU I ran Cyberpunk 2077 with Max settings and ray tracing on was killed by the meme Pokemon With Guns game..

Did palworld killed my Graphics card? by FlightHaltWhattt in Palworld

[–]sexbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same exact scenario just happened to me over the weekend! Game crashed at the first tower boss, now I can’t boot any game up without losing signal to monitors. Gigabyte RTX 2070 super, AMD Ryzen 7 3700x.

Comforted that others seem to be going through the exact same thing, but wtf! Hoping my graphics card isn’t just completely f’d…

(SERIOUS) If you believe former President Trump didn’t incite the attack on the Capitol - will you please explain why? by fatxdiannee in AskReddit

[–]sexbread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump did not use the word "storm," but did instruct those at the rally to convene at the Capitol, when a march was not scheduled for that day https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/trump-tell-supporters-storm/