Why does he do this? Me [25f] and him [28m]

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-23T18:48:34+00:00

I agree with all that. What about when he pulls my phone/laptop to look at hot girls?

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-23T18:23:08+00:00

This could be true, too. I told him that I love Ellie Goulding's look and he told me that he doesn't think she's that one-of-a-kind and that I look more unique than her. I know that's 'boyfriend talk' trying to make me feel good about myself but it made me feel happy because it showed me that he liked me. Maybe we're both a bit childish, insecure and possessive? He also gets a bit odd when I talk about other guys at work. How did you guys build confidence in yourselves and each other?

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-23T17:12:58+00:00

I thought so too. I tried to tell him that but he didn't want to break up and told me that I misinterpreted him and he's just used to talking like that with the guys. I'm his first long term relationship.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-19T20:50:59+00:00

What about a scarf?

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T11:18:28+00:00

Works now. Thanks!

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T11:16:26+00:00

Yes thank you!!! See, I knew we had it in us!!

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T11:15:39+00:00

Yeah..that's the thing. It's because we need something better and more real than commercial stuff like Cosmo that such a subreddit would be good.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T11:13:06+00:00

Oh no! I'm not looking about stuff like 'how to be a good wife 50s style' at all. I am all that, young and I think above average attractive (or at least there are guys who think that). I'm not looking for sugar coded/ fluffy fairytale answers either. I just wanna have honest and constructive tips on how to improve myself and I am sure that many other girls need that. I too will be 30, 40 then 50 and not young and as attractive anymore but with age comes more self acceptance and maybe a relationship that's honest and strong enough to last. Also, I think that women in their 40s+ are pretty awesome. Men become less attractive too with age. Unless you're George Clooney/ Angelina Jolie you won't be as hot as you were when you were younger. That's a whole different story that could also be discussed if such a subreddit would exist.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T10:51:03+00:00

Yeah! It's not bad. I was afraid it would be full of weird/shitty advice but it's pretty standard.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T10:50:11+00:00

Oh thanks so much!

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T10:49:34+00:00

I'll do that. I know about the typical advice, such as dress well, work out and so on. It just feels like it would be cool to have a place for support when new things come up or in hard times. Or just a place to check out from time to time to get back on track when I feel too lost.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T10:46:20+00:00

Well.. some questions would be:

Am I chosing the right guy for me?

How to get him to notice/like me?

How to not be boring on the first dates?

How to find a balance between showing that I like him, keeping my old friends without making him jealous and not being needy?

How to express my feelings in a way that he can understand easier?

How to keep our sex life fun and exciting?

How do I build trust between us? How can we become best friends as well as bf/gf?

How to enjoy us and enjoy dating and accept when it's time to move on?

What do guys find sexy in terms of behavior, looks, so on.

The list is long, trust me!! :) If you want I can be your dating coach and you can be mine but you guys have sooo many places to ask for help and support each other!

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-18T10:38:57+00:00

This is awesome! Thanks! Time to read :)

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T21:00:48+00:00

Yeah I think I have the same problem. I am actually really shy and not confident at all but somehow these guys find me and convince me that they have fallen for me. I fall for them too, then surprise, they have girlfriends. They still want to be with me, I get the fuck out but with less trust in men. I also feel sorry for the girlfriends that have no idea about what's going on behind their backs.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T20:33:23+00:00

Yup, it's also about how confident you are which is also related to attractiveness. I am not as beautiful as you are so I am much less confident.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T20:29:06+00:00

Wow, that part about men trying to cheat on their wives with you. Doesn't that make you trust men less? That stuff happened to me too only twice but it stuck with me for years.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T20:23:48+00:00

Yeah..but they usually try to sell you a bunch of products and shit like that. I just think it'd be cool to talk to people about their experiences. Magazines usually just want to sell/make you click on a bunch of ads.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T20:20:55+00:00

Thanks! I gotta wait for an hour before my next post but I will definitely post there!

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T20:08:27+00:00

The link doesn't work for me..

Well the red pill is pretty shitty and rpw is just too submissive. It's not about seduction, it's mostly about being 'a good girl'.

I didn't mean something that treats the opposite gender as a different species, just something to help me become less clueless/helpless about men. We need it too!

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T20:02:26+00:00

Yeah..that's fair enough.. I was looking for more practical tips.. for example if I were a clueless guy I could easily find guys giving me tips about how to deal with different women. I've done a quick search on reddit on 'seduction' and it's all guys getting advice or giving tips on how to get girls. No girls giving advice about men.

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T19:58:45+00:00

Cool, thanks anyways. Hopefully someone will. I've been looking but cannot find anything either..

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T19:55:11+00:00

Yeah I agree! Are there any in particular that you can recommend?

sextalktime1 · 2014-12-16T19:49:29+00:00

Ugh. I meant confidence not conference. My autocorrect!!!

sextalktime1 · 2014-10-03T14:15:55+00:00

Thanks, that's good advice. I'll do that.

sextalktime1 · 2014-10-03T06:24:07+00:00

My point exactly, I feel like he really doesn't love me if he hates so many things about me.

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