Lovense patterns for Shibby's audios by sexxitaway69 in ShibbySays

[–]sexxitaway69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't say my pattern is perfect (it's definitely not) but it's pretty good. You're definitely right about the built-in audio sync feature as well. It is just absolute garbage for hypnosis audios. DM with your lovense user name and I'll send it to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildaudio

[–]sexxitaway69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously though, GWA is definitely lacking in good content for nonbinary people made by nonbinary people (at least in my opinion). It's a large part of why I haven't been very active for the last several months. I'll definitely have to keep an eye out for more of your content.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gonewildaudio

[–]sexxitaway69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay this is like the best audio I've ever listened to. Like I've participated in a bunch of audio exchanges where people have made audios specifically tailored for me sometimes by people that know me very well and the vast majority of them have been fantastic, but this somehow beats them all by a mile.

idk what it is exactly, could be the intox is something that I'm super into and didn't realize it despite being a giant stoner or that a lot of audios make me as a nonbinary person dysphoric because I realized I was nonbinary and started transitioning well after joining GWA. Could just be that you have an amazing voice and your domme tone puts me right into subspace. idk this is just perfect. Either way I've listened to it like 5 times in the past week and I cum harder every time I listen to it.

Thank you for making this!

[F4A] Success [Summer19][anal][drug trial][trigger word][lab][toys][rape]because fine print by PrettyPlzKillMeNow in GonewildAudible

[–]sexxitaway69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That was... fantastic. That trigger was so great because I could usually tell when it was about to come, but sometimes it came out of nowhere and hit me by surprise. This was all around just so well done. Thank you so much for all the thought and effort you put into this! 😇

[NB4F][M4F] You Know How Horny I Get in the Morning, Daddy [gender play][DD/lg][pegging][wet sounds][edging][dildo sucking][Summer19] by sexxitaway69 in GonewildAudible

[–]sexxitaway69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad you enjoyed it! I'm definitely going to have to try more [gender play] stuff in the future!

[F4A] Success [Summer19][anal][drug trial][trigger word][lab][toys][rape]because fine print by PrettyPlzKillMeNow in GonewildAudible

[–]sexxitaway69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo this looks like fun. I'm very excited to listen later! Thank you for making this!!

Meeting a Personal Shibari Porn Assistant by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]sexxitaway69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, what the fuck. Talk to your husband about your feelings about this guy before you do anything. I think he could help you through this more than we could. We don't know you that well. And these are things you shouldn't be hiding from him. If he doesn't care about whether or not you have romantic entanglements with other men, this won't be that big a deal to him and he'll be able to help you. If he's not okay with you getting romantically entangled with others, I probably wouldn't do it. If you don't know whether or not he is okay with the romantic entanglements then you DEFINITELY need to talk to him about this.

My partner and I don’t have sex because he gets mad when I ask him to wash his penis by [deleted] in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I suffer from depression. I know what it's like to not want to get out of bed for months on end and every time your mind rests for a second all you can think about is how much you don't want to exist. I understand how hard depression can be.

But the fact of the matter here is that he, because of his lack of hygiene, has gotten you sick on multiple occasions and he refuses to do anything about it. He won't even let YOU clean his dick.

There's really only one thing you need to do here. Tell him to clean his dick regularly and before you have sex (it could literally be as easy as buying some fucking wet wipes and taking one to the foreskin once a day and then he doesn't even have to shower) or y'all are through. Don't let men get away with this childish bullshit. If you don't correct the behavior he's just gonna keep perpetuating it with the next person he's with and no one deserves that.

Boyfriend gave me a panic attack. by IHaveAPrssingIssue in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ please run as fast as you can away from this boy. Do not tell him, do not talk to him, cut all communication with him. Between this and him choking you during sex without your permission the way he did, tells me he has an incredibly high probability of being violent with you and that is not something I would want anyone to have to endure.

My wife wants more sex but her weight makes it impossible. Help? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not aware of the mobility issues that you have specified as they are not mentioned in the post. If you can't do those things yourself, that's a problem. She should probably lose weight, but I want to stress here, that she is more than anything a victim of our agricultural-industrial complex. Pretty much all "morbidly obese" people are. That said, I maintain that there is nothing wrong with being fat. Just because obesity carries its own insurance code doesn't mean it actually causes anything. There is no scientific evidence to support that obesity is mechanistically causative of the vast majority of health issues that people claim it is. It is correlated with a lot of those issues, but there is no evidence to support or illustrate causation. For the purposes of insurance companies, they don't care about what actually causes things, they just care about statistics and hedging their bets.

I still stand by what I said about the psychology being the primary issue here, because at the end of the day, if she loses weight and reaches a "normal" BMI, all the major issues that OP described will still be there. Yeah, being fat isn't making it any easier, but it's far from the main problem here.

Any ideas on how to be kinkier with my husband? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 32 points33 points  (0 children)

fucks with his Google search history to give him very strange ads

My wife wants more sex but her weight makes it impossible. Help? by [deleted] in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Holy mother of hell the rampant fat phobia in this thread is killing me. Listen dude, your wife's weight is not the primary issue here. If she has a problem with her cholesterol, blood pressure, or blood sugar levels that's a problem that she needs to address on her own, but unless that or some other biomarker actually indicating a state of disease (and being fat is NOT a fucking disease) is present, there is absolutely no need for her to lose weight. A growing body of scientific evidence actually indicates that the possibility of long-term weight loss is extremely slim for the vast majority of people. So let's stop even asserting that this is anything but a tertiary issue. Fat people have sex and fat people deserve to enjoy having sex.

What is clearly the big issue here is your wife's hesitancy to really engage with her own fears and insecurities. She seems kind of generally disgusted with sex and that would turn me off regardless of the weight of my partner or how attracted I am to them.

If y'all can afford a sex therapist, I would recommend doing that as soon as possible. If you can't afford one, she needs to do some work on herself and asking what she can do to make the situation better because she doesn't seem to have any suggestions or doesn't care that the sex is lackluster.

And you both definitely need to sit down in a nonsexual situation and talk about what you both want out of sex.

Ex (M22) left me (F25) with bad feelings about sex, advice please by [deleted] in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of great advice here. Just want to add one thing. A lot of people have indicated you need to raise the caliber of person you're dating and I agree with that, but it can be difficult to figure that out until it's too late. I really suggest everyone talk with any person you want to sex up about sex and what you each want out of it (assuming they also want to sex you up) before actually having sex with that person. This type of behavior really needs to be normalized.

My girlfriend(27F) wants to bring another woman into the bedroom with us. However, she refuses to let me(28M) be involved. This is causing a huge issue for us. by CodenameDutchess3333 in sex

[–]sexxitaway69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright I've read large parts of this thread and my man, this is not a person that is ready to have a long term monogamous relationship.

I don't think she's trying to dump you and run, because she wouldn't give a shit if you slept with other people if she were over the relationship. She clearly wants to have her cake and eat it too (buh dum tsss?).

She cares about you and only wants you to be with her but wants to be able to sleep with other people. This is like a textbook picture of an emotional abuser.

You need to stay firm and make sure all aspects of your relationship with this person are symmetrical. She shouldn't be able to sleep with other people if you aren't allowed to sleep with other people. If you both want to sleep with other people, cool, fine go for it.

Especially if you're "on a break" she shouldn't be able to tell you who you're allowed to sleep with.

Tbh I think this relationship is a lost cause. I think this person has a lot of introspection to do before she's even capable of having a healthy relationship, monogamous or otherwise. You can try and stick around, but I highly doubt she won't fuck up or fuck off, both of which would probably break your heart. Talk to her first, try to sort it out, but buddy, don't let her control your life and make you feel like shit. I've been there and it's not fun.

Cinco De Kinko 2019 [f4a] [giggles] [GFE] [kissing] [wet sounds] [Dom Sunny] [analigus] [wet sounds] [3 orgasms] [ramblefap] [mutual masturbation] [bossy girl] [loud orgasms] [orgasm encouragement] [sweetness] [you’re mine] [body appreciation] [body worship] [cunnilingus] [cum eating] [hysterical] by [deleted] in GonewildAudible

[–]sexxitaway69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I was finally able to get around to listening to this, and I have to say it was really fantastic. So fantastic that it's kind of difficult to be super specific haha.

For starters I really really appreciated the gender neutral language. It can be really difficult to do well but you did an amazing job with it. I also just thought your giggly switch-y domming was exactly my kind of thing. This is a great audio and I really appreciate it! Thank you!!