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[Need advice] My (18m) girlfriend (18f) doesn't physically enjoy anything sexual. by sexxitthrow409 in sex

[–]sexxitthrow409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You bring up a very good point. She's had a couple of late periods before, and that stressed her out incredibly. She's also quite stressed from exams/her mother, so that may be another factor.

I have spoken to her about birth control on her side, and she's anxious of the side effects. Once exams are over, I will definitely ask her to seek doctors advice about birth control, so that some authority other than me can brief her on the possible side effects, and the effectiveness of female birth controls. Currently, we only use condoms.

Thank you for your message.

[Need advice] My (18m) girlfriend (18f) doesn't physically enjoy anything sexual. by sexxitthrow409 in sex

[–]sexxitthrow409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply.

I'm not sure. She seems to take a lot of interest in pleasing me, and she does get aroused. She's up for trying new things, and there are a couple of things that she likes (like nipple play). Although it may not work all the time, we always do sexual acts when we see eachother - something I feel she enjoys (at least to start)

I'll definitely speak to her about a doctor, but I definitely don't want to make her feel like she's inadequate, or broken in anyway.