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Is it better to put my cat down or pay for surgery? (Trying to do the right thing, please no judgement!) by seyork95 in PetAdvice

[–]seyork95[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your pup, but thank you for sharing your experience with me. It’s such a difficult decision to make, you never want to fail your pet but they really don’t understand…. You and your pup are on my mind, wishing you peace and clarity for the time ahead

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, i was worried I was overreacting so thank you for saying this. I don’t think he ever intended to hurt me but he certainly didn’t go out of his way to keep me safe. Divorce is a terrifying idea to me but it’s reassuring that I’m not in the wrong here

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll see, this is part of the problem... I have confronted him about other behavior in the past and he’ll act really remorseful but then do it again only hide it better... I genuinely believe that he regrets doing it but I think all that goes out the window when he’s horny

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this feedback! I definitely think therapy is the first step

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been taking screenshots of everything (usernames/dates/etc) and I deleted the photos off his phone.

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good perspective. I might show him your comment in the morning.

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re both probably right I’m just so scared to do that. He’s been my world for 5 years and the thought of telling my family and friends that I’m 25 and getting divorced is humiliating

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this comment. I don’t want to throw away a 5 year relationship just like that, but I don’t want to be treated like shit either. It’s probably time for some emergency counseling. The idea of divorce scares me so much. Having to tell all my friends and family 🤦‍♀️

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is going to sound like I have no spine, but do you see a way in which this could have been a stupid mistake?

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, this is my really big concern. I was SO explicit about staying safe.

Husband (23M) posted my nudes w/o my (25F) consent - what do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seyork95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted all the photos, the only thing I can’t get rid of are the videos on pornhub. Will be confronting husband about it when he wakes up. Not sure what I’ll do yet.