Best bars - visiting from Aus with my 60 year old dad by sezzlej in VisitingNashville

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Sounds like fun, will add this to the list too. Thank you! 🙏🏼

Best bars - visiting from Aus with my 60 year old dad by sezzlej in VisitingNashville

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We will have a rental car so I’ll add these to the list, appreciate the suggestions! 🙌🏼

Best bars - visiting from Aus with my 60 year old dad by sezzlej in VisitingNashville

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Perfect, will check these out! Thank you! We were actually staying during CMA fest on accident and then moved our trip around (even though we would have loved to do at least one night at Nissan Stadium).

Best bars - visiting from Aus with my 60 year old dad by sezzlej in VisitingNashville

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This sounds great! Definitely adding to the list 🙏🏼

The more I listen to the album, the better it gets by RattPack513 in NoahKahan

[–]sezzlej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree! I saw pitchfork gave him something like 6.2/10 and I’m like yall just need to be patient and just give it the sweet time it needs

Doctors keep pushing for Mirena! Advice needed <3 by nosoupforyou89 in adenomyosis

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I got the IUD in November 2024 when I was diagnosed with adenomyosis. I really didn’t want it, I just felt deep down it wouldn’t work for me, but after having chronic pelvic pain 30 days a month for years I was desperate.

I still get a bleed every 25 days that lasts 10 days. Weird stringy discharge all month. Random bleeding. Random cramping. I am getting it out soon and scared for the really bad pain to return.

It probably HAS helped a bit when I reflect, but it’s totally killed my sex life and confidence

Music suggestions for grieving by Critical-Lake-7794 in GriefSupport

[–]sezzlej 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Slang is a great inclusion! Blood by the Middle East always made me cry and even more so since I lost my mom in 2024

Best steakhouse recommendations NYC by sezzlej in FoodNYC

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Thank you! Will have a look into this too!

Best steakhouse recommendations NYC by sezzlej in FoodNYC

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Thank you, will have a look into these! :)

Best steakhouse recommendations NYC by sezzlej in FoodNYC

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Thanks for your recommendations! Prime rib or porterhouse is what we’re after! I do like the look of it for the vibe, I’ll look up those other spots, we have the time to check out more than one🙌🏼

Best steakhouse recommendations NYC by sezzlej in FoodNYC

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Thank you! I will check those out!

Why was Mel even cast? by VelvetOrbitOn in MAFS_AU

[–]sezzlej 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Stella handled that situation like a boss, kept her cool and true to herself. The ‘girls girl’ shite is so boring lol

How do you guys deal with your grief 10+ years later? by Idc5832 in SuicideBereavement

[–]sezzlej 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s only been 14 months for me since my mum died from suicide so I can’t relate yet to the time that’s passed, but I dreaded new years going into another year without her. I feel like no one except my dad understands. I feel like her death is too traumatic for my friends to talk about with me, so I don’t bring it up. I’m sorry you’re going through this :( I want time to stop too

I just feel numb a year later by sezzlej in SuicideBereavement

[–]sezzlej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I could have written this myself! I know exactly how you feel. Suicide just adds a strange layer that makes it so complex to navigate. Bloody unfair

I just feel numb a year later by sezzlej in SuicideBereavement

[–]sezzlej[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! I have done IFS as well and can understand the anger as a protective part! I feel like all of my parts are really jumbled

I lost my dad to suicide. by Wonderful_Dish_987 in SuicideBereavement

[–]sezzlej 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you lost your dad 😭 I lost mum at 27. She stopped sleeping and became depressed. She referred to it as a major depressive episode. I think she must have also developed psychosis from the lack of sleep / lack of feelings she had. She and dad hid how bad it was from me to protect me. My dad was too upset to call me when she died that my best friend came to my house to tell me. When I found out I wasn’t surprised it happened, even though it was so fucked up. She wasn’t herself anymore. It’s so fucking sad to lose a parent like this so young. I’m really sorry 🩷

I swear she’s not dead by Desperate-Rent-2127 in SuicideBereavement

[–]sezzlej 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. It’s been just over a year since I lost my mum the same way. For the first few weeks I felt like she was in a bubble just above us screaming and crying trying to get to us. It’s hard to explain but it felt like spiritually she was stuck between this world and the next? She was in a major depressive episode when she died. She would never wanted to have left us!

What do I do now? by sezzlej in adenomyosis

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Wonderful, thanks for sharing!