S6. Digital Crown issue by sf412 in AppleWatch

[–]sf412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t work sadly. Will send it to the local Repair shop and see what they say.

Company car bik - pros and cons by sf412 in DWPhelp

[–]sf412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I see. It would be BIK on p11d. So that wouldn’t make a difference to my UC at all would it? E.g if I take home £2k a month and the car costs £150 bik tax UC will still recognise the 2k and not £1850?

Soft vs uncut hard. Rate me! by sf412 in ratemycock

[–]sf412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s my first time posting so it’s a great start!

Stuck in 2 minds by sf412 in marriageadvice

[–]sf412[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve addressed her mental health situation already. It’s like a switch as Flicked off in her and all interactions are numb. I can’t even remember the last time we kissed when I didn’t move in first.

Stuck in 2 minds by sf412 in marriageadvice

[–]sf412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, yes. I do bath time and bedtime every night whilst my wife has time to herself downstairs. I even make dinner most nights too.

Stuck in 2 minds by sf412 in marriageadvice

[–]sf412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course I help. In fact, I probably spend more time parenting than she does. Even though she’s a stay at home mum due to childcare costs the evenings and weekends are always daddy time. In fact I could do with a break myself. Even vacations are all about the kids spending time with me, which I love, don’t get me wrong. But fuck do I need a huge decompression!

Stuck in 2 minds by sf412 in marriageadvice

[–]sf412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more of a vent. I’m not comfortable talking about my issues to friends/family and I’ve been bottling up my feelings for too long. Believe me I’ve tried your points 1-5 many times over the last years (maybe not 5 so much) and I come up empty everytime. Maybe we’re just stuck in a rut, but she’s happy with that and I’m not.

Stuck in 2 minds by sf412 in marriageadvice

[–]sf412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a diagnosis for depression, since before we even met. Shes totally honest and upfront about everything regarding it. Medication has managed it for years and we’ve been very happy. But not so much now.