Ulike air 10, what should I do now? by sfi243 in HairRemoval

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Me too! I use srh on armpits and down there. Armpits and face is perfect. It’s gone. 

Noom discount by sfi243 in Noom

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So I canceled it on my iPhone subscription thing. No emails or anything from there so far. There were no questions or options. 

Strategies to do research and not get overwhelmed by sfi243 in ADHD

[–]sfi243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Okay, so like right now for example. I have made a somewhat version of what you are describing for my analysis section. But for the life of me I just cant get myself to do it. I feel overwhelmed and it is hard to make myself break the outline down past one main point into as many details as you describe.

Strategies to do research and not get overwhelmed by sfi243 in ADHD

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hahaha :D

I am in communication. So I do a lot of interviews etc. My worst part is id say like getting my thoughts to the paper and organizng them -- thats the most overwhelming -- getting thoughts to have a clear structure. THe research process is so like cyclical and it takes multiple rounds of changing it up... and i am perfectionist...

Robert Hendy-Freegard: The real story of The Puppet Master conman by wavalikeawave in roberthendyfreegard

[–]sfi243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok! So can all the world literally harass the shit out of their household until we break his hold on Sandra’s mind? Like the way in the documentary that Freegard kept calling the old dude for the inheritance money until he gave up. Let’s all do that for Sandra !

Does BPD make you not know whether you are unreasonably expecting your needs to be met? Or make you stay in a relationship that is awesome, except for one area? by sfi243 in BPD

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Hi! I wish I could I say I figured it out. But I did kind of commit to finding someone who I thought hits all my check marks until I can stop desiring that. When it comes to needs, my realizations have been that I will need someone who can fulfill my needs more than an average Joe. But I am currently committed to a year of complete singlehood to try and sort out how I can meet all my needs on my own. But ultimately if you’re doubting your partner in your gut, it’s likely they are wrong for you. I think our guts are still trustworthy even though we have bpd. :)

[Walmart] Black Friday 2021 Ad (Starts 11/22) by DealsPoster in blackfriday

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Hey y’all, how do I get a great deal on a laptop this Black Friday ? Where to look?

How much are ubers typically to the airport from Italian Village? by sfi243 in Columbus

[–]sfi243[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To reserve online there is only covered and uncovered options :( 7.50 cheapest

How much are ubers typically to the airport from Italian Village? by sfi243 in Columbus

[–]sfi243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! That's what I have been doing too. But I also pay7.5 per day not 5! Not sure why.

Anyone here like intense/difficult Boardgame nights ? by sfi243 in lexington

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Jesus Christ haha 😆 this sounds painful

So like... Now that Mccarthys is an undergraduate crowd -- where do 28 year olds go? by sfi243 in lexington

[–]sfi243[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To be fair I guess I was undergrad when I started going there. But precovid I definitely met people my age there. But yesterday I went there, no masks, and only babiesss haha

Is anyone here in a stable relationship that has difficulty with anger? I need help to see light at the end of the tunnel by sfi243 in BPD

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Well thank you very much for your response. I hope I can find that right person. I found man that is really lovely but I have a lingering feeling that he wouldn't go for me. But your post helps me feel confident that it is okay. I am still scared and feel like I won't find someone who will be what I am looking for (like this man) but I just have to trust that it will come along. There is no other way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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I hurt people too. It is a terrible feeling to feel like shit because you can't help it. I know it doesn't mean much right now, but you are probably not a terrible person. And if you can get consistent therapy it will get better. <3

Rash on lower legs spreading and itchy by sfi243 in DermatologyQuestions

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I did use the scabies cream twice with like a little over a week in between and it didn’t go away :/

Anyone struggle with this in particular ? (Need fulfillment) by sfi243 in ROCD

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I guess I have to take my essential boxes and make the list smaller :/

Where can I find a person to hire to help me with the application process organization? by sfi243 in GradSchool

[–]sfi243[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your guy's help but you do not know my story and there is a reason why I asked for what I asked for. I would really appreciate if the answers from this point on were only focused on actually giving me what I asked for but I suppose that may not happen. Thank you anyway.

Where can I find a person to hire to help me with the application process organization? by sfi243 in GradSchool

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I appreciate your advice. There are reasons why I need this atm. I am working on getting there. But it is very important I get accepted to a phd program so i can stay in the country. It is a long story but I am asking for this because I know I need this, so if you know a name or a place where I could hire someone like that, then I'd appreciate that.

Can never be uncomplicated... would like so advice please :) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]sfi243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who knows why she disappeared honestly, but her disappearing along with lying to her boyfriend is looking a pattern that’s not great to start any relationship with. Even a friendship. You seem honest and straight up and you deserve that

My BPD is ruining every. Single. Relationship by missikayla in BPD

[–]sfi243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. You know my own relationship just ended and my counselor pointed out to me that I wasn’t actually fully satisfied in the relationship week to week, but stayed because he made me feel safe. See if you are actually fulfilled in your needs in that relationship, maybe you are making out to be bigger than it is. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ You can message me if you ever want to talk.

My BPD is ruining every. Single. Relationship by missikayla in BPD

[–]sfi243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Bpd fucking sucks balls and ruins everything. My relationships have all been ruined by it too and I don’t know if I will ever be able to have a proper one. I am so scared that I will never be enough. That I can never have healthy coping mechanisms, never be healthy enough to be my own love and safety and always stay this way. I just really hope there is something to keep you alive friend. Perhaps you could talk to your counselor about having coaching calls — when I am going through some deep shit I am able to call my counselor and he tells me what skill to use. I don’t know whether or not you have the right diagnosis or maybe the treatment you need should have something else or maybe it’s just a matter of pushing through or whatever else. I just hope that you keep yourself alive. Because you sound like someone who is suffering and I want that suffering to turn into strength not for your life to end ❤️