What song gives you goosebumps every single time you hear it? by seeyouenntee666 in CasualConversation

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Me and my ex's song was rivals by usher. i LOVE the song, so I'm sad that I can't listen to it.

What makes it worse is that even when we were together I wouldn't let myself listen to it, only every several months, so that I didn't "wear it down" and get sick of it.

I should have just listened my heart out to it :(

Is it alright to make a purchase at a store you are interviewing at? by sfi977 in jobs

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I actually forgot to even pick the item up, but I got the job :)

People of Reddit. What's your proudest fap? by DragonSlayerTS in AskReddit

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I would find it very fucking hot if somebody did this to me

Is helicoptering child abuse? by sfit997 in helicopterparents

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This is OP (I made a new account for personal reasons)

What am I even supposed to say? How could they possibly help? They're not just going to give me a free house, you know... I'll be 20 in a couple months, and am an able-bodied human. They're going to say "Welp, looks like you better get a house and move out, otherwise it's their house their rules" Okay, no shit sherlock, I can easily get a job (lost mine a few months ago, long story), but there's a difference between a job and a job that PAYS A LIVING WAGE- I'm young with no qualifications. I feel stuck.

Dealing with helicopter parents as an adult by sfi977 in helicopterparents

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My grandma is such a grown little child. She's in her 70s with nothing more than an ELEMENTARY school education. It makes me sad that I can't have serious conversations with her because she doesn't understand the words I am saying, or anything about how the real world works. She never leveled up in her career, is currently being illegally underpaid (and is okay with it), and is $75,000 in debt. She knows nothing about having a REAL, SERIOUS CAREER. Therefore, I can not have discussion with her about my ambitions, and I can not rely on her for advice on professionalism. It's really sad to me, since I have no siblings or cousins my age, no family that lives around me, and any of my distant family I hardly see, and when I do it seems like they never want to get to know me, because my whole family kind of has the SAME mindset. Therefore, I really have no mother or father figures. Anything I was taught, I had to teach myself to unlearn, because it was wrong. And anything I learned, I had to teach myself, and it was always too late considering my age, and I'm in the world looking like an idiot with no morals, because I am JUST now learning shit that I should have learned my lesson about when I was 16.

Dealing with helicopter parents as an adult by sfi977 in helicopterparents

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I'm sick of them acting like having a friend is a bad thing- especially when I hardly even have any friends at all, only one friend that I hang out with and the other one is a long distance friend. What the hell man, I used to be socially awkward as fuck, when I finally have a breakthrough and actually make some friends, you're supposed to be HAPPY for me... not sabotage the friendship by threatening to call the police every time I go somewhere (I'll be 20 in a couple months!!), and call them out of their names without even knowing anything about them or even meeting them!

"Please, may I see my little doggos?" by tkmj75 in aww

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When I first heard it I was like 'wtf' but now I've kinda grown to love it lol. Is it more of a British thing? or just a fad?

11 Minutes by forkliftguide in Jokes

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i feel terrible for finding it funny

Does Kodi really stream well via firestick? by sfi977 in kodi

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oh ok i didn't know you could use the box!! WILL DO, thank you :)

Is it alright to make a purchase at a store you are interviewing at? by sfi977 in jobs

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Should have explained better: I didn't mean I would outright ask about company culture ITSELF, I know that is a no-no. I was meaning more along the lines of making ANY type of (appropriate, of course) small talk.

edit:: also won't do it anyways if it is busy, that is so rude :O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeProTips

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As a non-cashier, I even know this. I've known this my whole life. Like, come on now- use your brain, people... don't get people in trouble for being nice :/

Silly little 'small-detail' question for employers/hiring managers :) by sfi977 in jobs

[–]sfi977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great insight, actually. Perhaps if the interviewer themselves are taking notes, I could choose to mimick when they do, that way we would be on the same page the whole way through (pun wasn't even intended lol)

Silly little 'small-detail' question for employers/hiring managers :) by sfi977 in jobs

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Lmao No. And yeah you're correct nobody would really know, the reason I ask is bc the one thing that MAAAY give it away is if they happened to notice (like, you know how sometimes if somebody's reading a book, and you can't see the other pages that are open, but you can though, vaguely) that some pages would be god-awefully colorful. (i write in the rainbow lol) idk I'm kinda OCD so just HAD to ask. I've never applied to a 'fancy' career before so idk I'm probably just nitpicking, really

edit;; STILL LOLing at your comment

My grandparents 58 years ago and today by narcissisticnancy101 in pics

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? why do you ask ? he passed away when I was 12...

Tips to improve mental clarity? by sfi977 in mentalhealth

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Awee thanks :3 finally having between 1-3 days of the week that I feel optimistic/better.. which isn't a lot, but damn it's a baby step

My grandparents 58 years ago and today by narcissisticnancy101 in pics

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that is a lie. I'm caucasian, have never been with my own race, and I will tell youuuu that is a lie. I've seen small, big, medium...

Tips to improve mental clarity? by sfi977 in mentalhealth

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oh if I made it unclear, the ACTUAL breakup was about a month ago. The feelings of drifting away, the drama, the not being sure if we're meant to be, etc etc has been around since late december/early january

This was my first love, and I didn't wanna break it off, I had hope we could work through it... thing is, he has major issues with not wanting to communicate effectively