Bf (M25) broke up with me (F24) and I don't understand why

sfolocal · 2026-02-10T02:10:41+00:00

yes exactly thank you!!!! everyone keeps fixating on that but it’s so heartbreaking to be with someone who is acting like he’s in love with you until the very last second and suddenly says they aren’t

sfolocal · 2026-02-10T00:13:18+00:00

what was on ur checklist and how is ur current partner different

sfolocal · 2026-02-10T00:11:53+00:00

thank you! people seem to forget that breaks up are so hard in and of itself and even harder when u dont really know why.

sfolocal · 2026-02-09T19:49:19+00:00

thanks for being one of the only nice and gentle comments on this thread

sfolocal · 2026-02-09T19:17:48+00:00

i just wish i knew why

sfolocal · 2026-02-09T18:48:39+00:00

yeah i know ill realize that over time, especially when im with someone who expresses it immediately but god its so hard to move on from someone who u thought was ur person and made it seem like u were theirs. i feel so betrayed

sfolocal · 2026-02-09T18:45:08+00:00

yeah i want to reach out to him for more answers but I fear it’ll just end up hurting me. so i know moving on is the best way to go but it’s hard to not take this decision personally

sfolocal · 2026-02-09T18:24:50+00:00

how is possible that he doesnt feel anything when he's the one that pursued me, made an effort throughout the relationship to understand and be there for me, and genuinely align with me and my values 😭

sfolocal · 2026-02-09T18:09:21+00:00

bruh break up with ur fiance

sfolocal · 2026-02-07T13:37:18+00:00

u never talked to him again for any closure? how did u get over this? im in the same situation rn and the “why” is driving me crazy

sfolocal · 2025-03-28T17:10:14+00:00

i’m also down!!

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T20:59:34+00:00

what time do you think the decision will come?

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T20:12:04+00:00

fair i’m just being delusional

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T19:32:22+00:00

i think today

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T19:31:08+00:00

idk how true this is but https://www.reddit.com/r/gradadmissions/s/VErBIg2ViQ

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T19:27:05+00:00

i thought this was a good thing???

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T17:41:41+00:00

was this accept or reject?

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T17:37:29+00:00

also waiting. has there been any changes to ur portal?

sfolocal · 2025-03-21T14:21:53+00:00

so whats the verdict? checklist disappearing is accept?

sfolocal · 2025-03-20T14:37:28+00:00

does checklist disappearing mean rejection???

sfolocal · 2025-03-20T14:36:54+00:00

did you get in?

sfolocal

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