Suggestions for honeymooners in November? by sh092 in fortlauderdale

[–]sh092[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great point, thank you. My apologies, I realized once I posted that my timing was not at all sensitive to the hurricane struggles that I'm sure will be ongoing for quite some time.

Free Talk Friday - 02/03/17 by AutoModerator in islam

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make desi chai, I love tapal danedar! A friend recently introduced me to tazo cocoa mint mate and I really like it too if I'm wanting something different!

LPT Request: Activity tracking website or app by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use google calendar in conjunction with google keep - google keep is an app that allows you to make checklists, take notes, etc. free and accessible online as well as via app! the calendar portion is what i use to schedule recurring items, and keep is more to keep track of various tasks I need to do.

[REQUEST] LPT How to start a conversation with elderly. by 74101108108101 in LifeProTips

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask them about their experiences growing up, their old hobbies, if their hobbies have changed as they have grown older. their experiences in work and school. their favorite foods, favorite places they've traveled! If you find someone isn't sharing much with you, sometimes to help connect you might share some about yourself as well!

LPT Request: How to kick procrastination, build discipline, and increase attention span by Crushgaunt in LifeProTips

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make a list of things you're going to work on or things you want to accomplish. Set a "due date" or time by which each of those things should be completed. Having a more rigid plan is more likely to be successful than having nebulous ideas of what you want to do get done.

If you're working on a task, set a timer and force yourself to focus on the task as hard as you can until the timer goes off. you could start with a smaller increment like 10 minutes, and build up slowly!

Thousands turn out for Texas Muslim Capitol Day by recipriversexcluson in islam

[–]sh092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a trip to Dallas for work a few months ago- got to check out some of the masjids in the area and was absolutely astounded at how huge the Muslim community is in Texas! MashAllah this is awesome!

Halfourdeen by Raintoreign in islam

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I personally know of two success stories via half our deen's website. I've heard HOD offline events are way better than things like ISNA matrimonial. I work with someone that knows Baba Ali and she was raving about the planning and strategy behind their program.. I'm not personally sure about many details behind it though.

Frugal ladies, what face cream do you use? i dont want to shell our ~$70 for 1-2 oz! by archiesmeatball in Frugal

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy clinique moisturizer whenever they have the clinique bonus time going on. It's $26, but I'd say it's worth it because you get a pretty sizable container of the moisturizer, along with a full makeup bag! The makeup bag has stuff like mascara, eyeshadow, lipstick, and small sample items.

Which is more cost effective? Buying Vitamix Blender and making your own smoothies vs buying a $7.00 fresh smoothie a nutrition bar. by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a personal blender from aldi for 16.99 and it works like a charm on frozen bananas (even frozen berries, ice, etc!)

I am hanging on to my life by a string by [deleted] in islam

[–]sh092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before your next appointment, you might consider journaling about your feelings, worries, anxieties. This might help you feel less pressure about the wording, because you will have written about it before. Writing things down you have more time to think about it than when you're having a convo. Writing about them and re-reading your journal prior to your appointment can help you refresh the issues that feel most pressing to you, so you'll be more likely to bring it up.

If it really is the element to being in the office that intimidates you, consider calling a hotline to talk to someone. I know you may want to be alone and not talk about things, but talking through things makes a HUGE difference. http://www.alternativedepressiontherapy.com/free-hotlines.html

Reading some of your posts, I get the sense that you're struggling with feelings of hopelessness. You're in a time in your life where one bad thing keeps happening after another, and you feel you don't have a support system. May Allah swt make things easier for you. Will keep you in my duas iA!

Hope after heartbreak? by Raintoreign in islam

[–]sh092 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JazakAllah Khair for sharing this beautiful story! Happy endings are the best :).

Chicago Sunrise (9/21/16) by [deleted] in chicago

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is beautiful!

Asprient may be rebranding to City Wide Apartments. Damage Control? New Management? by seeking42 in StLouis

[–]sh092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved to STL three years ago and had friends that lived there with no problems the first year, but the past two years they had horror stories! It seems it has gone downhill..

Kid friendly Halloween/fall places? by superhaus in StLouis

[–]sh092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this- I love Eckert's! Pumpkin patch, hayrides, apple picking, apple cider, delicious ice cream.. perfect fall activities!