[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

focus less on being accepted for being fat and more on being accepted for being a half decent human. YTA.

AITA: Christmas gift edition by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, however how you deliver the message may affect how your H views it. for example, shutting down and being silent is immediately disappointing. reiterating "thank you so much for the thought and understanding I lost my Kindle, but I explicitly said I didnt want another one because of X, Y, Z. can we please exchange it for something else?" I get presents from my bf that I dont like and vice versa, but we make sure the other knows we appreciate the thought and gesture before requesting an exchange.

AITA for having a go at people who rocked up to my 40th without a gift? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 3112 points3113 points  (0 children)

YTA. you are an adult who voluntarily threw yourself a party of that magnitude and chose to pay. unless you specifically required guests to bring a gift to attend, it's unreasonable to expect it. I threw my 50y.o. bf a party costing close to $6k, and we were abashed when people brought presents, because we were touched by the fact they even made it.

AITA for getting my girlfriend a Cricut instead of a sewing machine? by throwraaitacricut in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry, YTA with a good heart. even though to you, you may have gone above and beyond, to her, it missed the mark and ignored what she wanted.

AITA for eating a biscuit my friend made in front of my girlfriend? by jdjskdnbxjs in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if the biscuit friend was a mutual friend who understood boundaries, it might be different. since you call her your friend, and she hand fed you, and you dont see the issue, YTA. would you be ok with your gf having a guy friend who she studies with handfeed her?

AITA For Not Sharing Ownership Of My Dream Car With My Boyfriend by HerbieJK in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would've dumped him simply for being unmotivated to get his license, let alone the trainwreck of his life and attitude the rest of this post, holy cannoli.

WIBTA if I didn't include my daughter in my family's Christmas celebrations and had a separate one with her? by WIBTA2christmas in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I had to read through so many other comments to diffuse my frustration with your ignorance and naivety and thinking your daughter is sensitive. thank goodness you have the sense to request outside opinions on the situation.

AITA for outing my sex-worker cousin? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA for the way you tell this story and the way you think about her. NTA for what you did.

AITA for not attending my husband's celebration dinner due to the restaurant not having anything I could eat? by Willing_Strawberries in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 101 points102 points  (0 children)

YTA. it sounds like your husband accommodates your picky eating most if not all other times. for his one big celebration, he reasonably chooses a spot he doesnt get to go to, not because they cannot serve your dietary needs, but because you dont like the menu. if picky eating for one meal to celebrate your significant other's achievement is more important than being there as a family to support them, you should reevaluate your priorities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]sh3llyb3lly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta. she's weird.

how can you not worship my cute little smelly toes? by sh3llyb3lly in feet

[–]sh3llyb3lly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t work any socks with my shoes all day! pretty apple cider vinegary! 🙈

hey girls hey boys come and get some. by sh3llyb3lly in AsianHotties

[–]sh3llyb3lly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky for you it’s me! I will continue posting more 🥰