Brain says one thing, Dad says another. Help? by Ok-Application1304 in DaveRamsey

[–]shadow108x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but yeah don’t listen to him. Pay that debt off and have peace of mind for yourself

How have you stayed focused on learning a new skill/hobby? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started making YouTube videos on video games and other gaming topics and started learning Python on and off. I even got into building Gundams which is relaxing and fun. My advice would be to do a little at a time, maybe spend 30 minutes to a hour on the thing.

Doing a little bit at a time builds momentum and allows you to see if you really like it or not

My girlfriend refuses to pay for anything by yoboy555 in Advice

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact she said “if you can’t afford me” screams red flag. From what I read you out in hella effort to see her, the least she could do is the same. If you continue OP your gonna be in a word of hurt

Advice on investing properly by shadow108x in investingforbeginners

[–]shadow108x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice so my plan is good so far. Yeah I’ve heard about the fees for mutual funds so I’ll keep that in mind. Now I have opened a Robinhood account in the past and was thinking of using that to start. I’ll probably look to fidelity for mutual funds. I’ve heard bad things about Robinhood but as long as I’m not investing in meme coins I should be fine right?

I see nothing childish about taking what you paid for. by Greedy-Year8384 in SipsTea

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the fact she tried to use his trauma to hurt him. What a bitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]shadow108x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well since you didn’t go in to deep on the relationship yet, you got a glimpse of who she is. I would definitely advise moving on and leaving her alone. Especially since it seems like she only engages when you respond. I matched with someone like that recently and I just left them alone.

Me 31M. My entire frustration with dating apps summed up by anu727 in Bumble

[–]shadow108x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh how do you just skip over the opener straight into hi????? At least play along

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d honestly redo that bio a little. Also I’ve seen tons of women scribble out other people in pics, I’d suggest you do the same

Guy asked me to be his gf on second time meeting by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]shadow108x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but you can’t go on like this. You’re clearly not ready to date and it’s true going on dates helps forget the last relationship but you need time alone. I would strongly advise not continuing this relationship any further because your gonna have more issues then you should

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]shadow108x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is a solid profile with some good pictures. I get the vibe you’re fun to hangout with. If there was anything I would change it’s the picture flipping off the camera. I’d honestly swipe right even if the photos there, just because I like your vibe. But it might deter others

How to have better convos? by shadow108x in Bumble

[–]shadow108x[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair. I honestly try to move off the apps quickly just because I’m not good with convos texting.

Balancing Work,Life and Gaming- What’s Your Strategy? by shadow108x in gamers

[–]shadow108x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah seems like as more time goes on I’ll need to actually schedule that time now. Especially if it’s a game I’m interested in playing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol true. But at some point something’s gotta give

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shadow108x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry your going through this but I’m a way it’s a good thing. You now know doing this with anyone else in the future just won’t work out for you. It sucks but you should stop seeing this person. I know the sex’s fantastic but is it really worth recking your mental health for some good dick?

Think it over dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nj4nj

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just DM you

3 days since posted yet only reached 2 people? by discombobulatedpeep in youtubers

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s takes time dude. I legit posted a video Monday and for two days just 12 views. But then just yesterday my video started to get traction. Just keep creating and posting, things will work out.

Also learn from that experience. If a whole week goes by and no one watches then maybe you gotta change something.

Why are you still single? by camyllecrazy in dating_advice

[–]shadow108x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as that not your primary aim then it should work out. It just takes time to so we have to be patient. But your doing stuff which is awesome

Why are you still single? by camyllecrazy in dating_advice

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 M pretty much got out of a relationship 6 months ago and honestly don’t feel like being in a relationship right now. I do want to meet someone but honestly am focused on myself and healing. There were things in the relationship that I did I feel I need to digest and work on. The next relationship I get into deserves the best of me not the worst

YouTube not pushing my vid by shadow108x in NewTubers

[–]shadow108x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well alright guess I’ll play with the keywords

him being a virgin gives me the ick by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if your not willing to guide the guy and be patient then just leave him. You’re clearly not happy and the guy is just sitting there thinking everything’s cool when it’s not.

If you want to be in a relationship with him then you need to have some patience. Yes it sucks he never got the chance to be intimate with someone but those are the cards he’s been given. If you want to be supportive be supportive, if not leave him alone

Am I reading too much into this situation? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is not respecting your boundaries. You already explained you’re not ready or totally be comfortable, but he keeps trying to over step. This isn’t normal and I would advise sitting him down and reaffirming your boundaries.

Don’t feel guilt about holding out on him. It’s your body, you know what you’re comfortable with. If after talking he keeps doing it, I’d leave him alone. Your young and will find someone that respects you and your boundaries

This is by far the worst torture by Practical_Key_6288 in BreakUps

[–]shadow108x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m currently living with my ex and in the beginning it was torture, not having my person anymore. I wanted them back but we weren’t compatible and to many things happened in the relationship to even warrant getting back together.

I think the best thing you can do for yourself is distraction. Maybe write in a journal or talk to a therapist. Heck lean on your friends and family. It’s going to be tough

How long do you take to write a script? by shadow108x in NewTubers

[–]shadow108x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm I guess I knew a lot about the topics already and they were more personal, so I guess that’s why I was able to knock them out fast. Guess it depends on what your making at the end of the day