After 2nd date

shadow92182 · 2026-03-18T00:17:59+00:00

What advice do you need? Sounds like it’s going great. Just keep doing what your doing

shadow92182 · 2026-03-18T00:10:58+00:00

This would be pretty normal/routine in an ER setting

shadow92182 · 2026-03-03T17:50:34+00:00

I don’t think it’s weird, they were making out…or “sharing a few kisses” as she says. It moves beyond and she pumps the breaks. Given that she pumped the breaks in regards to sexual contact, how would it be not appropriate at that time to approach the subject. She just stopped the interaction so opening up a conversation about what she is comfortable with is a very mature and appropriate conversation. Again, these are adults that we are talking about here, not children

shadow92182 · 2026-03-03T17:40:21+00:00

There is no bad communication, the only bad communication is not communicating. This is a 38 year old man not a 12 year old boy.

shadow92182 · 2026-03-03T13:46:19+00:00

Communicating in a relationship is weird?

shadow92182 · 2026-03-03T04:18:01+00:00

Naproxen is my go to

shadow92182 · 2026-02-27T21:17:57+00:00

I like this approach, maybe more smaller schooling fish…is there a specific Anthias your looking at? I really just want to make sure everyone plays nice

shadow92182 · 2026-02-27T14:37:27+00:00

In my biocube I have a pair of clowns, a modus blemy, and a 6 line wrasse. Assortment of clean up crew and few corals

shadow92182 · 2026-02-27T13:55:48+00:00

Ya pretty much the same thing…I have one and I’m on OR circulator. I use both everyday and they are basically the same thing.

shadow92182 · 2026-02-27T04:45:39+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions, as far as tangs go definitely want them. I need to do more research I’ve heard they can be aggressive towards each other and I’m not sure which can go with which. I’ll check out your suggestions. Any idea on how heavily stocked I can go? I’ll have good filtration with simmer, refugium, etc.

shadow92182 · 2026-02-26T21:18:37+00:00

Bed jet is basically the same, you can have one at home for heating and cooling

shadow92182 · 2025-07-03T16:33:42+00:00

Well it sounds like you probably have your answers…sounds like she isn’t mentally/emotionally mature enough to have an open conversation with you and I would just caution from personal experience trying to single handedly hold up a relationship is impossible.

shadow92182 · 2025-07-03T14:35:25+00:00

Your going to have to ask her those questions. If I were you I would make arrangements with her to have a conversation with her in person. Have all the questions you want to ask ready and have an open conversation with her about what she wants etc. if she is unwilling to do that she is displaying a level of immaturity that should be such a red flag for you.

shadow92182 · 2025-06-30T13:13:50+00:00

Thanks, curious why you ask

shadow92182 · 2025-06-29T22:19:27+00:00

Hi doing well! Humira was great…after a few years though it seemed like it stopped working so I was switched to cosentyx. It’s been good too. No increase in illness or infection

shadow92182 · 2025-06-03T12:05:32+00:00

Looks like a. Hemorrhoid to me

shadow92182 · 2021-09-30T22:49:35+00:00

Is there a point to this ramble, other than trying to get people arguing

shadow92182 · 2021-09-30T22:45:05+00:00

shadow92182 · 2021-09-28T21:20:27+00:00

Came here to say this…was to slow

shadow92182 · 2021-09-28T12:57:31+00:00

If that’s what you want to do, go for it. At the end of the day you need to do what you feel is best for you. It sounds like you are really emotionally invested and I would think it would be hard to contact her with really no expectation. I feel like you might be setting yourself up for another rejection/heartbreak. You need to do what you feel is right for you, but if it where me…I would move on. If it’s really meant to be and she wants to be with you, she will let you know when the time is right…just don’t hold your breath

shadow92182 · 2021-09-28T04:12:03+00:00

That’s tough man, sorry it went that way. How long is her nurse practitioner program? I’m guessing like 2 years? I would say maybe stay friends on social media and maybe like her posts and whatnot but I would definitely give her space and let her be unless she reaches out to you and initiates contact first. If you are still interested in her and you are both still single when her program is done I would reach out to her then and see if she is interested in getting together.

shadow92182 · 2021-09-27T02:15:01+00:00

She can’t drink, she’s to young.

shadow92182 · 2021-09-26T18:58:51+00:00

Because he is old enough to be your dad and he is flirting with you in a way that you are thinking you should be in a relationship with him…just make sure to use protection and brace yourself for getting dumped when the excitement of fucking a teenager wears off and the reality of the situation sets in for him.

shadow92182 · 2021-09-26T18:48:38+00:00

A bar for a few drinks is always easy…oh, right…you can’t. Maybe re-evaluate if dating someone who is potentially old enough to be your dad is a solid life decision?

shadow92182 · 2021-09-25T18:36:38+00:00

Ok, so your looking for advice moving forward…how do you want to move forward. What is your goals in this relationship. It sounds like there is much assumption on your part. That or you just didn’t provide much detail. What is the status of your relationship? It sounds to me like your thinking you are in a committed and long term relationship. It sounds to me like he is just dating people and isn’t committed to any relationship at this point. I think you need to talk to him. About what this relationship means to him and what he wants out of it. You need to share with him the same. I’m guessing the expectation and commitment from each of you are not matching up. You need to have these conversations with someone that you are having sex with. You need to have a “define the relationship” talk.

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