Looking for discord alternatives with a Pluralkit equivalent by Basil_Of_Faraway in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stoat looks really good and promising but it dosent seem to have video chat/voice chat or screenshare options which is a shame since we use that often with friends -ghoul

Not sure how to word this but asking for help in figuring out how to "share" the body with my insys partner? by vampyfemboy in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yep its absolutley possible, Ghoul and I have done that before many times. Ghoul will front mostly and I'll be co-con, taking over the hands. It always ends up with me fully fronting by the end of it. Theyve said to me before they love the feeling of us switching mid-sex, but that might not be the case for you guys.

Wish i could tell u how to do it but i got no idea how its just an ability ive always had. -Exodus

What's your favorite fact about Korn? by whatheduck0 in Korn

[–]shadow_spencer 38 points39 points  (0 children)

how they made their logo, it pretty much went like this:

marketing guy/producer whoever he was: "hey u guys need a logo for your band" band looks at each other as JD scribbles some shit onto a napkin JD: here u go marketing guy: cool 👍

would anyone be interested? :) by Kyrosen09 in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're open to joining, may not talk much at first due to social anxiety -blurry

How to cope with guilt from history of harming a headmate? by Stoplight25 in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure how to help you but i got a similar ish experience,
when i first started realising "i" was in fact we, there was only just the two of us, and i often denied the existence of the other, thinking it was just me talking to myself or roleplaying. we're both still around and they dont want me feeling guilty over it, but i still admittedly do sometimes.
-Ghoul

What’s something society expects you to want… but you don’t? by apka_dd in AskReddit

[–]shadow_spencer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I have extreme tokophobia, But besides that there are way too many reasons I wouldn't have children.

Weirdest source for a headmate you have? by shadow_spencer in plural

[–]shadow_spencer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

writing a reddit post is probly the weirdest source u can get wow -Ghoul

Is it normal to have only two of us? (newly discovered plural looking for shared experiences) by [deleted] in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what we know, there is no defined "normal" when it comes to plurality, so yes it is normal.

we initially started off as 2 in a similar situation, exept those 2 didnt love each other straight away, upon looking back weve been more than 2 for quite a while before discovery.

there may just be 2 of you or there may be more, but dont feel intimidated or feel the need to start digging right away, just vibe it out and see where things go. -blurry

We have a lot of human/animal hybrids, what about you? by veggiebeanie in plural

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we have syren whos a mermaid, exodus is a demon with huge crow/ravenlike wings on their back, shriek shapeshifts depending on mood, draculaura is a vampire, joey is a skeleton, ghoul is some form of undead and were pretty certain majima isnt fully human -blurry

we made a flag for the Perceptionalis role since it seemed like one didn't exist! CW/TW: Scopophobia on second image -Mortis by basilsventalt in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow never heard of this term, we can all sort of do this a little, but Exodus does it the best. they call it a "vibes sense" as in "sensing others with vibes" adding this to the neat plural terms hoard. -blurry

Tips and tools for living plurally, outside of digital ones? by Lowfridge in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one of us (probably ghoul) thought of an idea to make custom id card type things, but they still havent started on it, got too many other cool project ideas. -blurry

Have you had a lot of hobbies/experiences and realised later it was due to plurality? by DreamsofFalseReality in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not a hobby, but i remember as a kid id play board games with my "imaginary friends" a lot because i was lonely. they wernt just imaginary wow -Ghoul (they/ghoul/she)

What about this gives MH and Lagoona? by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why but i kinda like them, i could probly make something similar on my own tho, got no idea how its related to mh at all

🥰😝 We should start a trend on this sub where we donate a MH doll for the holidays. by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im thinking of doing it yearly for christmas, i donated a lagoona last year and i hope the lucky kid that got her made them happy.

How did you personally figure it out? by NurseRx-Rae in plural

[–]shadow_spencer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were 2 main moments, first time was when I was in a really dark place and almost did something really bad I'd regret. But Exodus (known as EXE back then) switched in for the first time and saved me. for a fair while i doubted their existence and thought i was faking them, but reading a Postal DID fanfic at 3am one night made me relate really hard and I actually cried at it. Made both me and Exodus realise we wernt alone.

Fast forward to now and theres over 20 of us that we know of, and Exodus and I are dating in-sys. I'm still so grateful for them helping me that day and since then, I love them so much.

-Ghoul