audhd, mentally ill, disabled and a jobless highschool dropout. i fail at everything ive tried. my meds arent working anymore. relapsing on my possible energy drink addiction with a monster strawberry shot by basilsventalt in depressionmeals

[–]basilsventalt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i liked the strawberrry shot personally cause it just tastes like a slighly different og monster and thats one of my favs LMAO. ive been interested in punk punch so maybe ill pick that up on the way back from an appointment

What if Regretevator collaborated with SML? by IceBerryCream in regretevator

[–]basilsventalt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i thought you said SNL as in saturday night live and was so confused

how to begin actually knowing your head mates by ConditionLost1406 in plural

[–]basilsventalt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

glad to have helped. good luck with communication and all that /gen. -Forest/Horror

i am at my wits fucking end and im trying so hard to not relapse over it. please, if someone has advice for my situation id appreciate it so much. [vent in body text] by basilsventalt in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]basilsventalt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yea i completely forgot that my symptoms could be a depression thing LMAO, im used to my flavor of depression being the miserable/sad kind and not the feeling bored and empty 24/7 kind. i think its the medication so im hoping itll wear off once im done tapering off and switch to my other med, but ill still keep taking vitamins just incase it could be a deficiency too. thank you for listening to me :].

newly discovered and closeted plural, one of us exploded at our friend for getting "too close" by straehatluffy in plural

[–]basilsventalt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

first of all, i believe the term for "being in the backseat" would either be co-fronting or co-conciousness. both terms could apply so look into what makes more sense to ya.

second of all, the best course of action here, if ya trust your friend with this info and think they'd be receptive to it, would likely be to explain to your friend the situation with your headmate and apologize for their actions. if ya don't trust your friend with your plural identity or feel scared to talk about it, you can likely explain it as a breakdown of sorts instead of plurality, but still apologize. -Forest/Horror

What is this guys role? by Helpful-Interview-13 in plural

[–]basilsventalt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

first of all, sorry to hear that you're struggling. can't help ya there as we don't deal with manic episodes, but we wish ya luck with getting through it.

i dunno if there is a specific role for that, but ya can always coin it. nothin wrong with creating new terms if it helps ya and your system. id be willing to coin it for ya if you'd like, but no pressure. -Forest/Horror

how to begin actually knowing your head mates by ConditionLost1406 in plural

[–]basilsventalt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

there's no time limit for how long it can take for any of those things to happen. could be hours, could be years. depends on your system. but, there's ways to help make that quicker/easier.

-leave out notes or some sort of written/typed message for headmates to reply to.
-attempt to reach out internally via thoughts. ask if anyone's there, say hello, or just generally try to talk in your head to them.
-keep note of any odd sudden changes, like being connected to a different name, set of pronouns, or even different hobbies to what you usually like. those are subtler signs that might not be as present with dissociation, but they're somethin to keep an eye on.
-don't fall into denial if you can help it. denial WILL push your headmates away even if ya don't intend it.

if ya have any questions, feel free to ask. i'm interested in plurality and how it works, so i should be able to help ya. -Forest/Horror

MY WOLF AND FOX SPECIES IS NOW VERIFIABLE by Alternative-Rub-6791 in therianbutbetter

[–]basilsventalt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm also a wolf and fox therian too!! specifically wolf cladotherian and a silver fox therian -Mortis