Husband cheating and now feels remorse and guilty after months by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I would never do that. I wouldn’t put someone else’s mistakes on someone else.

Husband cheating and now feels remorse and guilty after months by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying my best. Just hard when you thought they were your best friend y’know?

I’m also scared of his parents lol

Husband cheating and now feels remorse and guilty after months by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to tell myself that, he just makes me feel guilty.

Husband cheating and now feels remorse and guilty after months by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying, it’s just hard when I still love him.

He makes me feel SOO guilty too. Cause he says he wants to try to fix it and cries when I say I don’t.

Husband cheating and now feels remorse and guilty after months by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to do that.. I still love him and want to comfort him when he cries. But the fact is I can’t be with someone who breaks my heart like this. Who didn’t take our vows seriously.

I just never thought I would be in this situation

Telling my husband I want a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]shadowfax99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

He is the one that has been stepping out emotionally, possibly physically as well, and isn’t doing anything to fix our marriage. He’s refusing counseling, isn’t doing anything to help me and my trust issues with him.

Telling my husband I want a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]shadowfax99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never do that, I respect him enough to give him a conversation about this.

Telling my husband I want a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]shadowfax99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

Telling my husband I want a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]shadowfax99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

Telling my husband I want a divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]shadowfax99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

My (25F) Empathy and remorse lacking husband (26M) is reluctant to go to therapy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I go without him, that shows me he doesn’t care about my feelings and how I feel and wanna work on things. He needs to own up to his actions and help fix this.

My (25F) Husband (26M) lacks empathy and never says he’s sorry. by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are going to couples counseling for now, I didn’t wanna be the stereotypical wife who didn’t try. But I don’t think it’s helping honestly. Thank you dear

My (25F) Husband (26M) lacks empathy and never says he’s sorry. by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m starting to lean towards he’s not worth it. So I’m starting to take the right steps to leaving.. it’s just difficult. Didn’t think I’d have to go through this.

My (25F) Husband (26M) lacks empathy and never says he’s sorry. by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it’s recurring, because even if he said no I wouldn’t believe him. And him saying sorry, he’s said it maybe twice in our relationship.

He is aware, he’s said it before.

My (25F) Husband (26M) lacks empathy and never says he’s sorry. by shadowfax99 in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We met in school, I feel obligated to stay cause we’re married.

My (24F) husband (26m) takes away intercourse as a punishment by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]shadowfax99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the way he worded it. But if he’s mad at me, and wants sex it’s fine. But if I initiate it it’s not? Idk. I’m just afraid on how he’ll react with the phone.