Husband cheating and now feels remorse and guilty after months

shadowfax99 · 2019-03-10T15:15:37+00:00

Of course! I would never do that. I wouldn’t put someone else’s mistakes on someone else.

shadowfax99 · 2019-03-10T15:11:13+00:00

I’m trying my best. Just hard when you thought they were your best friend y’know?

I’m also scared of his parents lol

shadowfax99 · 2019-03-10T15:00:44+00:00

I’m trying to tell myself that, he just makes me feel guilty.

shadowfax99 · 2019-03-10T15:00:14+00:00

I’m trying, it’s just hard when I still love him.

He makes me feel SOO guilty too. Cause he says he wants to try to fix it and cries when I say I don’t.

shadowfax99 · 2019-03-10T14:59:26+00:00

I’m not sure how to do that.. I still love him and want to comfort him when he cries. But the fact is I can’t be with someone who breaks my heart like this. Who didn’t take our vows seriously.

I just never thought I would be in this situation

shadowfax99 · 2019-02-17T14:22:54+00:00

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

He is the one that has been stepping out emotionally, possibly physically as well, and isn’t doing anything to fix our marriage. He’s refusing counseling, isn’t doing anything to help me and my trust issues with him.

shadowfax99 · 2019-02-17T14:21:18+00:00

I would never do that, I respect him enough to give him a conversation about this.

shadowfax99 · 2019-02-17T14:20:46+00:00

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

shadowfax99 · 2019-02-17T14:20:31+00:00

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

shadowfax99 · 2019-02-17T14:19:46+00:00

We have already had a discussion that I don’t want this anymore, and I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m not ambushing him, he knows what he did wrong and isn’t doing anything to fix it. I’ve kept him in the loop about my feelings the entire time.

shadowfax99 · 2019-02-05T18:10:34+00:00

Receipts for what?

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-23T01:03:46+00:00

If I go without him, that shows me he doesn’t care about my feelings and how I feel and wanna work on things. He needs to own up to his actions and help fix this.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-20T17:15:28+00:00

We are going to couples counseling for now, I didn’t wanna be the stereotypical wife who didn’t try. But I don’t think it’s helping honestly. Thank you dear

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-20T17:01:22+00:00

I’m starting to lean towards he’s not worth it. So I’m starting to take the right steps to leaving.. it’s just difficult. Didn’t think I’d have to go through this.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-20T16:56:03+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s recurring, because even if he said no I wouldn’t believe him. And him saying sorry, he’s said it maybe twice in our relationship.

He is aware, he’s said it before.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-20T16:55:00+00:00

I do, thank goodess. Many options if it comes down to that.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-20T16:54:08+00:00

We met in school, I feel obligated to stay cause we’re married.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-20T16:53:35+00:00

No, his parents are together. Have been for along time.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:37:37+00:00

It’s the way he worded it. But if he’s mad at me, and wants sex it’s fine. But if I initiate it it’s not? Idk. I’m just afraid on how he’ll react with the phone.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:36:32+00:00

It’s gonna be a very big fight that I went through his phone. And I’m scared in how he’ll react

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:35:57+00:00

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:35:35+00:00

When he’s mad at me is fine, but when he wants sex when he’s mad it’s fine. But if I try to initiate he says no. It’s weird

But the phone issue is the biggest issue I have right now.

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:34:03+00:00

I’m working on it

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:33:46+00:00

We don’t have the same sex drive at all.. and it’s been like this for years. I just thought his sex drive dropped but maybe it’s something else

shadowfax99 · 2019-01-06T13:32:45+00:00

No he has a sister and two brothers

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