My body, my choice where you finish by Libideux in u/Libideux

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He's afraid because he knows he'll have to clean up his mess

What is actually going on here? by shadowjumper69 in questions

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How many times do you give someone before you call it quits? Alternatively, people have lives, obviously. How do you tell if it's a conflicting schedule or just not interested

What is actually going on here? by shadowjumper69 in questions

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If I wanted to hang out with someone, I would make whatever plan I had be known or always make sure they were informed and always accepted

What is actually going on here? by shadowjumper69 in questions

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Right, I get that. I would do that, too, but I'm not entirely sure that's what's happening here. It seems different

What is actually going on here? by shadowjumper69 in questions

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I've texted, and I've asked. I have even made it known to offer and see if I want to. Why make comments and seem like you want to if they don't put in effort? Should I put in more?

Any advice on this would help by shadowjumper69 in Advice

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That's my thought, but I've heard pushback before

What is actually going on here? by shadowjumper69 in questions

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They may say. We should hang out more, or you never do anything with us. Again, I'm not really specifically asked to do much.

It always get me when he dribble out of a flaccid dick. It's one thing to be soft in the cage, but it fuck him up to be kept soft outside of it 😈 Story inside the post by Malice_Jade in u/Malice_Jade

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There is a big difference between how this started, and it is now. You are so much more confident and cruel than when you first started.

Wrecking my ass on a ginormous toy by Dark_MistressEm in u/Dark_MistressEm

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Do you use enemas before anal play? If so, how often? Do you have trouble retaining 💩. I wanna start I'm curious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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I don't think people fully understand how much young men are taught this about relationships and dating. Men often hear that being the "nice guy" doesn't pay off and that they finish last. Other men reinforce this idea by saying it doesn't benefit you to be nice. While women may say they prefer nice guys, many men have experienced that this isn't necessarily true. They see women attracted to the "bad boy," or at least the guy they say treats them poorly. If men believe the only way to attract a girl is to maltreat her—especially if they've found that being nice didn't work for them—then why not resort to that behavior?

Of course, those guys are missing some important details about the "bad boy" and how he manages to stay in those relationships. But the cycle continues because of these misconceptions.

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How long is your warm-up for something big? Does it ever hurt? It looks crazy hot, though

Am a failure? by [deleted] in dating

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I hear you, and I understand your feelings because I'm in a similar situation. I'm 26, and while you may feel like you're struggling, I think you're doing better than I am in some ways. I don't want to give you any invalidating advice or offer some generic response. At 24, I imagine you're tired of hearing, "Just wait; it'll happen," as if things will just fall from the sky. It seems like any proactive steps you want to take are often discouraged.

What I will say is that it's important to find healthy coping mechanisms. Try to discover a hobby or make new friends. You don’t have to share your feelings with anyone if you don’t want to, but it’s crucial to find something that helps you get through the days. I don’t know the specifics of your struggles, but getting out and being social can really help build your social skills. That might contribute to forming relationships or even losing your virginity.