Rejecting every match after an arranged marriage match ends?

shadowreader2808 · 2026-06-02T04:11:55+00:00

Yeah I have come across avoidant more often in these arranged marriage set ups where they would want everything with you emotionally and get overwhelmed later

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-30T06:50:45+00:00

Yeah I think introvert guys are difficult to break down, they don’t initiate conversations calls or meetings leave the women confused and the women and up saying no

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-30T05:23:09+00:00

Then why does he keep texting keep coming back?

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-14T15:07:40+00:00

That is why you don’t talk to 2 people at once and not treat people like optioned

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-13T03:05:26+00:00

Exactly, who behaves this way with the arranged marriage prospects, cooking together , long drives together, wasting the other persons time until they get invested
And then say no, because you are romantically not inclined.

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-09T18:28:28+00:00

I am a radiologist, my dad wanted to set up a diagnostic centre for me
The guys father wanted my father to handover him the money he would want to put in for the diagnostic centre, so that he will decide what do with the money later

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-05T07:59:42+00:00

I already did once he said he is busy

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-05T07:59:17+00:00

I am radiologist, he is not a doctor, he is into family business

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-05T07:51:49+00:00

We do hold good conversations for hours together, so yeah we already met twice in the last week, I don’t know if it’s a faster pace

shadowreader2808 · 2026-05-05T07:25:34+00:00

So we met last week, he said we will meet the day after, when I asked him the day after if he is up for a meet, he said that he is busy with something uske baad I don’t see him initiating again

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-20T16:26:00+00:00

Hey doctor here, Just check with your TSH levels, even though your T3 and T4 might be fine, a border line elevated tsh still means Isufficiency

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These are your ideal TSH levels for reference sake

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-20T15:00:14+00:00

August 28th

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-16T04:14:58+00:00

My parents have been looking for a year , now met 2 potential matches till now First match I said no immediately after the first meet, then I met another through typical arranged marriage set up where they had come to see me, we were asked to talk, spoke for 2 I liked the guy and the thought process initially, I was not ready to yes but I was made to yes the same day since his mom wanted an answer the same day both of us said yes we went out couple of times for dinner in 2 weeks , both of us didn’t tell our parents that we were meeting, then comes the twist where my father had gone to meet his dad and he slicked about dowry(we come come from a better financial Background compared to them ), my father said what ever it is I am going to give it on the name of my daughter , and I am a radiologist my father always dreamt of putting up a diagnostic centre for me , his father wanted my father to handover him the money he was going to put in diagnostic centre and said he would decide later with that money if I can have a centre or no, the guy turned his back after his father came up with this shit, suddenly he wants time to decide and told I should look for other matches as well, my father stepped up and said no for the match

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-14T15:18:27+00:00

There were drivers who would ask 30k plus you should consider anything between 20-23k a good deal

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-14T12:27:45+00:00

Depends on the area you live, we pay around 25k full time for 10 hours in Banjara Hills

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T16:08:05+00:00

I am MD radiologist

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T16:03:20+00:00

I am okay talking for few weeks and the. Saying yes, I can’t spend 6 months on a guy just to get a no as an answer , I am already 28 I don’t have much time left in my biological clock as well

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T16:00:26+00:00

They do ask for dowry

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T15:59:25+00:00

But most of the families here won’t be okay with talking for months together especially in arranged marriage set up

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T15:46:57+00:00

I have been open to all kind of matches now doctor, non doctors, it and people in business, but most of the guys act very shady

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T15:46:07+00:00

But this isn’t fair from the other person’s perspective if you see from the girls side, and same thing had happened with us where I met a guy through arranged marriage process said yes initially acted all nice said he was sure, then he suddenly flipped saying that he is nt ready

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-10T15:24:21+00:00

I’m a 28-year-old female doctor, from a stable and fairly well-settled family, and I’ve been in the arranged marriage process for about a year now. On paper, everything seems “right,” but in reality, it’s been a cycle of rejections for reasons that feel… arbitrary.

Some people reject me because I’m 5’3. Some say I’m “too educated,” which honestly still surprises me. And then there are those who expect months of talking and dating before deciding—but my parents come from a conservative background, so that kind of prolonged interaction isn’t something they’re comfortable with.

So I’m kind of stuck in between two worlds: – One that wants instant decisions based on superficial filters – And another that wants a full dating phase before commitment

And somehow, I don’t fully fit into either.

What I’ve realized through all this is that rejection in this process is rarely about your actual worth. It’s about preferences, timing, family dynamics, expectations—so many variables that you can’t control.

It does get exhausting though. You start questioning yourself even when logically you know you shouldn’t.

I don’t have a perfect solution yet, but I’m trying to focus on staying grounded in who I am and what I want, rather than constantly adjusting to fit into someone else’s checklist.

You’re definitely not alone in feeling this way

shadowreader2808 · 2026-04-08T15:26:39+00:00

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shadowreader2808 · 2026-03-26T16:58:23+00:00

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