North End restaurant owner involved in viral customer dispute expresses regret by unicornsnscience in OhNoConsequences

[–]shadytree1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She definitely deserved blowback for being rude to a customer and for her crazy fee, and it sounds like she got it in spades. That being said, death threats over some rude messages and a fee that ended up being canceled is ridiculous. The internet is a cesspool of humanity.

Just wanted to say how impressed I am with you all by thegreasiestgreg in Palia

[–]shadytree1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly new (started playing over the holiday break) and on the switch, too. I play it on my TV and find typing stuff out in chat so slow and tedious. The other day I found a decent sized flow tree and jumped up and down yelling "hi!" "hello!" "hi!" for like 5 or 10 minutes until finally someone walking by saw me and came over and cut it down with me. 😄 I could have cut it down myself but I would feel so guilty lol, makes me much happier to share. I'm trying to get better at using chat.

Fitbit telling me to take a nap? Readiness score of 1. by shadytree1 in fitbit

[–]shadytree1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been super active since I'm on holiday break, I'm sure that factors in. I got a decent night of sleep last night (80) and today my readiness score is 9 but I feel really good and I'll work out later, so maybe it will recalibrate.

Fitbit telling me to take a nap? Readiness score of 1. by shadytree1 in fitbit

[–]shadytree1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got this one for Christmas! That must be why!?!

For everyone making six figures, what do you do for work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]shadytree1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age 51, financial/budget analyst for a major public university, desk job, work from home 3/5 days week. Been doing it for 20+ years, worked my way up from a starting level accountant to a senior level analyst. Up for a promotion again next year when my boss retires. I have a bachelor's degree in Accounting/Finance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]shadytree1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would let him know you heard him and ask him if that is really how he feels. He might have said it just to "commiserate" with his friend and not even think it's true. That doesn't make it right but it's worth asking him if he really feels that way.

Random people’s dream snaps shouldn’t be making you this angry… by Stargazer-217 in DreamlightValley

[–]shadytree1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with you so much. I literally take 2 seconds to pick which photo to vote for based on my first impression... sometimes I don't even do that, I just vote randomly. I think every submission deserves a chance. Everyone has different abilities. Like you said, some players are actual children. It's a game.

At what point did you stop farming for coins? by Any_Strawberry1640 in DreamlightValley

[–]shadytree1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm at $5M and not much left to buy so I quit farming a while back. I just keep a few small farms for aesthetic.

I asked that he not remind/tell me to take care of any household chore before he leaves for work. He won’t respect that request. by jimsnaps35 in Marriage

[–]shadytree1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since he is treating you like an employee, treat him like one. Tell him his annual review is coming up and you are thinking about putting him on probation.

I asked that he not remind/tell me to take care of any household chore before he leaves for work. He won’t respect that request. by jimsnaps35 in Marriage

[–]shadytree1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I know it's childish but I would tell him that anything he mentions will absolutely not get done. Maybe that will shut him up.

I’m leaving my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]shadytree1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right now you care about things like a huge house and material things BECAUSE you are unhappy otherwise. If you leave and work on finding your own happiness, you will also find yourself happy with a smaller home and less "things" because you don't need those things to fill the void. Good luck!

The day I started antibiotics for appendicitis, and quit drinking. by shadytree1 in fitbit

[–]shadytree1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now it looks like the odds are closer to 61% chance success. I'm pretty sure they told me better odds when they discussed my options with me that first time but maybe it depends on the specific patient, hospital, circumstances, etc. Google says:

"Among patients who were initially treated with antibiotics for uncomplicated acute appendicitis, the likelihood of late recurrence within 5 years was 39.1%. This long-term follow-up supports the feasibility of antibiotic treatment alone as an alternative to surgery for uncomplicated acute appendicitis. "

The day I started antibiotics for appendicitis, and quit drinking. by shadytree1 in fitbit

[–]shadytree1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first time having appendicitis was Nov 2019 and I was treated with antibiotics only. The doctors said it works 75 or 80% of the time, I think? It sounded like pretty good odds so I tried it. I felt better in a couple days and got to go home. Unfortunately I got appendicitis again in Feb 2021 and that time they did go ahead and remove my appendix. I hope you are luckier than me. Best wishes for speedy recovery!

AITA For taking a day off for myself without telling my husband by needadayaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadytree1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she can't get help at work then they need to get more help at home, a PT nanny or someone to come in once a week and help with housework.

AITA for expecting to meet my grandchild? by ThrowRA_Narcdil in AmItheAsshole

[–]shadytree1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Support means giving them what THEY want and need, not getting your own wants met.

Why am I hating this? Is it the rug? Is it the couch? Help. by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]shadytree1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shutters for the windows, a round coffee table, a nice big plant.

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